How Loaded A Question.............????

No, This has never happened to me. I have had the occasional "wanna dance" and said no which was followed by gimme a $1.00 tip. I paid just to get rid of them.

I remember reading a review about a shot girl at dreamgirls going up to a guy and asking "do you wanna tip me a $1?" the guy said "no thanks" then the girl asks "do you wanna tip me $2?"

I believe this story because I know exactly the shot girl he is talking about. I did tip her $1 when she asked me and she flashed me her tit. Big deal I can see that in girls gone wild dvds. She asked for another $1 tip after that and I agreed again and she showed me her second tit. She then just sat there and watched the stage show with me for about 10 minutes. When I tried to start conversation she just gave terse replies. She was probably on drugs.

Also at BTLAD (buy the lady a drink) clubs the alcohol for the dancers is watered down so they can drink as much as they want. No real fun in that. I would rather go to a normal bar and buy the lady a drink where they serve real alcohol.

I do know of some high mileage BTLAD clubs but if I was an out of town visitor I would avoid them. Too unpredictable. Some will go down on you right after you buy them a drink while others will just sit there and smile and give you boring and terse conversation.

If you're at a BTLAD club and you obsess about whether she's been served real or watered down alcohol, buy her the drink at the bar and call a special brand for the liquor. They can't water down everything. This way you get to see the bartender retrieve the bottle from the shelf.

When the bartender uses bottles from the "well" to mix a dancer drink the odds are pretty good that it will be watered down.

Other giveaways it's a fake drink:

--calling it a generic cocktail --giving something a "house" name --many late-shift exotic fruiity concoctions are also usually fake.

The drink hustle is on strong in Detroit--average drink for dancers in the $11-15 range for a watered down house drink which the dancer will not finish. As soon as the customer sits down the dancer is on you to buy a drink. Get ready to say "NO" right away unless you want to be stuck with a leech not of your choosing.

The drink hustle is NOT on at my favorite club. I do buy my favorites a drink but it is the same price as my drinks and they are real. It makes for better lap dances. I always say that I get 2 for $20. I should say that I get 2 for $26.75. plus tip.

The drink hustle is definitely on at every club I've been to here in Louisville. $20 and up, up, up depending on how long you want the girl to sit with you. I usually decline, and consider the time she spends trying to convince to do so as a cost of doing business. Her cost, not mine. Perodically, I get asked for a tip, and mostly I decline that, too, depending on my mood. I've seldom gotten much more that a disgusted look for doing so.

When I do buy a drink, it's usually for someone who's danced for me before, and I'll either buy another shot of something, ostensibly fo myself, and give it to her.

I've had girls ask for a dollar tip, usually in the guise of feeding the jukebox. I don't think they could ask for serious cash because guys would just stop going to those clubs.

I'm not a big fan of BTLAD clubs, although if I'm going to a club where I know it goes on, I just budget for it. Many years ago I was driving through Louisville and stopped at a few places where the BTLAD was clearly a come-on for extras. The big clue was when I agreed to buy a drink and the bartender asked me what price point I wanted to buy at.

MB, All..../ MB case sounds like a typical clip joint setup- pay XX$$ for "bottle", you can have intimate time, NOT. Often, one just bought a XXX$$$ bottle. My original question was, has anyone had a dancer just sit with you a while without getting a dance, and then turn around and charge you for her time?? The Igor/Bruno scenario??

I can't ever remember any dancer ever asking to be paid for her time atv the table. Also, I seldom buy a dancer a drink, especially if she has just gotten there and a waitress suddenly asks me if I want to buy the dancer a drink. I usually politely decline to buy the drink saying I prefer to spend my money on stage tips and dances. Most dancers accept it with no problem, especially since they probably don't want the drink anyway and would prefer to make more money off a lap dance.

At my club, my bartender watches out for me. Just today as soon as I sat down where my beer was waiting, a dancer slides in the chair beside me. Now my bartender knows what I like in dancers, and this one wasn't one, so she comes over and starts a conversation with me. I talk with her till the ignored dancer walks away. Then she tells me an old favorite is there for the day. When the fave sat with me, the bartender didn't bother to ask if I'd buy her a drink. She knows I will and for her as well. Love a good bartender!

I've never had a dancer ask me to be paid for time spent at my side, generally I make a decision within a song or two talking with them whether or not we are going to do dances. As far as BTLAD, yeah it happens fairly often, but like snowtime, I'll decline the waitress or dancer, I'd rather compensate them directly for dances.

Besides the "can I have a tip anyway" thing, I've never had a dancer try to charge me for time spent in a chair next to me. Try to convince me to buy a drink, dance or other? Hell yeah. But no Igor/Bruno scenario.

I believe that at most clubs here, the dancers get a share of the drinks, and in one place it appears to be the same share they get for dances, so I bet at least some of them prefer drinks to dances, especially if they think they can get away with drinking fast.

You can just say "thanks, but I'm waiting for someone". They may say "who? I'll get her for you", to which you can say "oh I can never remember names, thanks, I'll just wait". They've never sat down on me anyway, but if they did, I think I would get up and leave the table.

I always say "no thanks, I think feel weird jerking off in front of others"

"Has anyone experienced a dancer asking/demanding some pay for her time?"

I think the only time that this has happened to me was at the infamous Cheaters in RI. It was annoying to say the least.