How many favorites is too many?
casualguy
Last weekend instead of just 1 to 3 favorites showing up, it seemed like 6 or 7 showed up, plus others wanted to be one of my favorites. I just blew off anyone I wasn't familar with. I spent almost all the cash I had. I wasn't expecting that. Staying home tonight to save my money. How many favorites is too many? If you lived nearby some good clubs, would you budget yourself so you could go visit every weekend or would you just be broke all the time?
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I know a club that the bartender will get me those I like, but that sure isn't a favorite.
But I don't do that. Somehow I'm the respondent, not the instigator, in these social interactions. It's disappointing, to watch myself lose at this game over and over, because even at a strip club I realize, I'm not the one making the choices. In fact, I kind of feel like, I'm "forced" to go to strip clubs in order to get human interaction, simply because I can't get normal human interaction, for the same damn reason.
Well, I always knew that strippers weren't my "real" friends, but still, it's not fun to have it reinforced so steadily ...
My usual time to visit a club is around late afternoon/early evening shift time, so I normally ask the dancers if they are day girls or night girls. Been getting "I'm a day girl, but I'm working a double shift tonight to make more money" a lot.
LOL...
I actually stopped going to a favorite strip club of mine up in Quebec because I had "too many" favs there...too much money spent per trip IMO.
Dancers understand who you favorites are if you're a regular. I've had dancers say things like XXXX is your favorite or Are you waiting on your fav? Although one of the dancers that I is 2nd in the number of dances I get refers to her regular as B's regular, Heck they even have me calling him that. These girls spend a lot more time in the club than we do, they may understand us better than we do.
What she says: "XXXX is your favorite."
What she means: "You are XXXX's regular."
Do they care about being favorites of regulars? Yes, they want them to be THEIR regulars.
Sounds like a great new topic for a separate thread. I'm sure we could all have fun contributing to a stripper-ese dictionary (I'm serious, no "irony" intended).
Sad thing is she has an amazing body and personality. But the dances are too much air