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Resistance is futile

Let's face it.
a good experience at the club relies a lot in the back and forth between PL, club, and dancer.
Many contributors on this site offer good advice about how to get the bang for your buck. Many forces are at play to make or break your day at a club. For this discussion let's eliminate the factors that a PL has no control over..... other than picking
a club.
IE: Club rules, privacy, local laws, scrutiny of LE. These can all affect your experience. But after you select the site. There is only one way to change those factors.... Change your club.
Many contributors on this site offer help for club selection. Some are trolling, a minority are shills. Most want to help you. Look thru many reviews look for patterns. Clubs with few reviews online, are usually not worth your time. Good clubs have fans that often review.
A number of reviews on here throw around "club shill" but I find they are actually easy to spot and not common as reviews go.
Once you do your research and have a club you like. I recommend some strategies seem to help deliver more bang for the buck on the visit. Obvious to long time PL like me. Not so obvious to some.

MONEY! Cash is king.... cards always cost more and add charges. Plus the girls often get dinged by the club behind the scenes for CC. Bring cash and make that your budget.
I see young guys often showboat cash throwing it around. It's a waste of time and money. Everyone knows that stripping is all about money. Yet throwing around money paints you in a bad light. Unless you are famous, making it rain is a waste of your time. Paints you as a SUCKER, maybe an easy mark. The smart way to get the best girls to give you the most attention is to be smart about money. Not stupid. Generous not a sucker.

Penny smart dollar foolish cheapos ..Online you will find pages and articles telling you dancers vibe on CHEAPOs pretty quickly. Just like anyone trying to game the dealers in a casino. Trying to game the dancers, trust me, you will lose now or in the long run.
Smart guys exude generosity, but don't throw it around. All strippers want your money. Most want good repeat customers. Making yourself look like a good repeat customer, pays dividens.
None of this is rocket science, yet I consistently see guys fail at things that could easily save them money.
Bar Tipping and drinks: Some guys, buy ridiculously expensive drinks, throw down crazy tips on the bar. Not bad just not smart. Send smart vibes. Crazy expensive drinks crazy tips are no different than Cheap beer and tiny tips. It screams desperate, needy, or broke.
Tip the bartenders and staff well, but not crazy. I follow 2 bucks for drinks, and for great service throw a fiver down. It's small amount but it stands out. Trust me if a girl is chatting up some other PL she pays attention to what the other guys at the bar is doing. Although some guys tip big flashy amounts at the bar. IMO it's a waste.Most dancers view big tips at the bar as giving their money away anyways. So flashy big tips are a waste they provide no gravitas.
Don't be cheap but tip well. The bartenders know you pretty quickly, and you do not want to you be the subject of negative conversation in the back. Someone who never buys drinks for others stands out as well.
Some bars track drinks to dancers so ymmv on this advice.

My next TIP is obvious to old old men. Be nice. It's simple and cheap.
I assume a couple of factors about you the reader. You don't go to dives or sketchy clubs where you can get rolled. Your not some psycho looking to hurt someone. You just want some personal attention, no strings attached, from a pretty girl. Your goal is to leave satisfied, not broke, and if you want the same experience next time from the girls, you want them to feel well compensated for their time.
Money is king for the girls, but bring a nice attitude and you will get rewards, but not freebies.
I know for a fact that some dancers have asked me for less because I treat them like we're on a date like they are a woman, not an orifice I want to stick something in.
Conversely treating the girls like they are less than you and inferior is very common. If you want more for less from your current crotch-crush. It costs nothing to be nice. Conversely it can cost you a bit more for their time, if you are a condescending jerk that acts like they will do anything for money.
Dancers have goals financially for the day, and amounts in mind for all services. Being a jerk won't get you a discount but it may get you an upcharge or maybe even a ROB. Since they could care less if you ever see them again.
Last bit of advice is the negotiation is not an auction. The price is the price. Ask in advance make it clear what your expectations are. You don't like the price, say no thanks nicely. Don't start low balling, pushy, or bargaining. It won't work and it's off the vibe.
Don't wait till you are alone with them for them to suddenly upsell you. Agree in advance stick to it They know it's much harder to say no to an upsell, when all the blood is in your smaller head. And more money had been lost at that moment than any other.
Just some small advice for the novice.

Enjoy and remember tipping the bouncer is never a waste.

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