Beware of Strippers Outside the Club
st33h
Florida
Strippers seem to be like stray cats to me. Let me rephrase that, the strippers I've had contact with outside the club seem to be like stray cats. Those inside the clubs operate from what is usually a strictly mercenary viewpoint, which is fine. You're going to a club to see some skin, hopefully more. You want a service and it's fair for the strippers to charge for their service.
If they get possessive, or provide shitty service, you can always leave and go somewhere else. I'm sure there will be a line of guys to take your place.
It's the outside the club stuff that things get fucked up.
On occasion I used to tell the dancers what I did for a living when they'd ask. Sometimes there'd be some conversation about their experiences, sometimes, they'd ask questions. Once in a while I'd get a client out of it.
The last stripper I told what I did wanted to hire me. She was hot and I said sure. I agreed to do it for a good down payment and payment over time. She was off heroin for six months she said, and she was trying to keep clean. She paid the initial fee, no reservation, and I did the work, and then she called me up and said she was desperate for cash and could I refund some of the money to her. I agreed. I shouldn't have, but again, she was hot. Getting paid turned out to be a god damn nightmare after that. I eventually got enough to cover my costs and a little extra and decided the headache from the additional fighting just wasn't worth it.
I saw her at the club occasionally after that. Occasionally she'd text me and want to chit chat. That's fine. I can be nice. I She lost her job at the club but she continued to text me on occasion looking for advice.
She called me up desperate, the other day. She said she was homeless, sleeping in her car, contemplating suicide, hadn't eaten in days, and could I spare $40. It was cold and I had some extra cash so I said fine. When I went to see her, she shows up with someone I can only presume was a pimp and tells me that he's letting her sleep in his house. She's haggard, she's got scabs on her face and she smells like urine. I know she's back on heroin but I give her the money and walk away.
Last night the bitch calls me at midnight and when didn't answer she texts me telling me she's stranded in one of the bad areas in Detroit.
I blocked her.
Strippers out of the club are like stray cats. You try and be nice, feed them once, and they keep coming back for more. You're nothing more than a source.
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SJG
Yeah dude – normal guys that are responsible and have jobs often don’t mix well with strippers, their drama; their greediness; and overall stripper lifestyle – even less if one is a “nice guy” that has a hard time saying “no” – for these kind of people it’s best to keep-it ITC and not get personal at all beyond services rendered.
I have a hard-time saying no and not helping people that tell me they need help and that’s why after a bad OTC experience about 8 years ago I don’t bother getting personal w/ strippers and just have my fun at the club and an occasional OTC and if they contact me after the OTC I often don’t respond their calls/texts till they give up.
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SJG
I have changed my number on several occasions and given up my favorite clubs on numerous
occasions to escape stage 5 clinger dancers. I keep to myself now when I go to a club.
I rarely interact with the other customers. I keep to myself and talk about the weather with the girls who I tip.
I rarely visit the same club repeatedly in a short time frame. I don't ask any personal questions.
I just assume the worst. Being nice has it's place, but I have learned the hard way that these so called "angels" who dutifully dance for you rarely have your best interest at heart.
You can bang your head against her walls (thanks Roger!) but in the end all you're doing is facilitating her downward spiral. Cruel as it may sound, I run away from these types of dancers because I'm not a social worker or drug dealer and there's nothing I can do for them unless they ask me to take them to a rehab place. No one has ever asked.
I no longer provide services to dancers. It gets ugly. Not always but often enough. They think I ripped them off. They expect superior service for a discount because they are hot and they know you want sex with them.
Bailing them out of trouble? Don't. If you give them money it should be for a service rendered. Gifts and loans just lead to more requests for gifts or loans. And when you stop giving, they just ramp up the pressure. She needs money for rent? You need something as well. Loans are never repaid. if I was lucky I got a "free" dance or session. It never was free. i still had to pay the house fee or the hotel room or for lunch and they still expected at least something of a tip..
So now, I don't care about their real names, where they live etc. In fact, my longest running regular dancer is an almost 20 year relationship (we started young!), and just last year she decided she wanted to tell me her name and give me her cell # which I traced to her address and confirmed her name. Her attitude was almost one of feeling guilty that I didn't have this info years ago! LOL So she's the one exception that proves the rule, and no, she doesn't do OTC with me or anyone else. I have no interest in dating her even so as I have a g/f, but she's about the most 'normal' dancer I've ever met.