A Dancer's Perspective on Extras
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Sunday, October 12, 2014 12:00 AM
Extras are generally frowned upon in the strip club in every known outward presentation; however they are happening in every discreet corner possible. When I happened to mention to another dancer who was sitting at the bar “that customer is a little freaky” she cautioned me not to be so vocal about the “freaky” customers. She responded “that’s how we make money and we can only make it if we keep that information to ourselves.” I agreed and even felt a little embarrassed for my drunken admission, hoping that no one was paying attention to what I said.
Even though extras are an everyday occurrence where I work, they are still illegal and the risk of being caught results in possible arrest and definite 86 from the club. As mature dancers know, that even in a town that has over 60 strip clubs in the metropolitan alone, losing the chance to dance at a club where you are currently making money is a path to disaster. Even though one could say that these girls are potentially prostitutes already for their actions in the club, when these girls lose their chance to dance they are forced to prostitution on the streets. Fortunately, not all extras dancers are prostitutes and not all prostitutes were dancers before they became prostitutes, therefore some dancers are able to practice extras in the club, discretely and basically get away with “light” prostitution for a short period of time. Extras customers need to keep this in mind, that discretion is key to an dancer longevity in the club.
It is more likely that more dancers rather than less dancers practice extras on a regular basis. Dancers are the most discerning, as they know which patrons are worth providing extra services for. For example, many dancers would not want to waste their time for a cheap customer demanding a $20 hand job, which is humiliating, demoralizing, demeaning and risky. Most dancers are not interested in taking the risk unless it is a trusted customer and “guaranteed” income. The same dancer who refuses a $20 hand job may go much further, but with a different customer who she has an established dancer – patron relationship with. However, there is a good amount of incredibly loose dancers who provide extras for all customers, without discretion or increase in cost, simply because they know that they can get away with doing it for the time being. Many of these more ‘loose’ dancers are nearing the age when most patrons would rather not see these dancers stripping, but even so, many patrons know that this dancer is very loose and giving with extras, so she continues to strip and make money to even finance the illusion that she should continue to “strip” in the first place. I have heard such comments from dancers about the “looser” dancers like, “I hate when customers are talking to me after a lap dance from her, their face is just wet with her juices and all I can smell is her pussy on their lips!” Many dancers know what their coworkers do, who will go so far and who will go further, just as some dancers know which one of their coworkers really are prostitutes.
The dancers that are morally opposed to extras tend to tattle on their coworkers, even though they know that it is likely that they do the same actions, but just in private without getting caught. Their reason for tattling is an attempt to 86 those dancers because the “cleaner” dancers see the “dirtier” dancers as a huge money threat to the game and the strip club system. Extras dancers know that at this time and place, they are the real game players and by not practicing extras, you are choosing to walk away from the small amount of money that is left in the strip club industry pie. The real strip club game is practicing extras behind management back. I have heard extras dancers defend other extras dancers with comments like “don’t hate the player, hate the game; if you can’t play the game don’t hate the player who plays the game.”
Eventually, all dancers reach a point when they either chose to retire, are 86’d from multiple clubs in town, or are forced to retire because as they age and continue to strip they no longer make any money. You could say this is retirement by choice but I see retirement by choice as a dancer who can willingly return to the industry and potentially still make money, compared to retirement by age as a dancer who has reached a point when stripping is a waste of time for her efforts put into it. Dancing costs each dancer a small amount of money, whether the patrons are aware of it or not. Besides the known stage fees that dancers must pay upfront, many dancers tend to be customers of the club. Buying food and drinks in the downtime as well as buying manicures and outfits is all parts of ways that dancing can cost more than is returned. If dancers fall into bad spending habits such as routinely buying cigarettes, gambling, drinking, drug use and buying from vendors who sell wares to the dancers, then it is likely that they are not making any money at all, with the little that they do make being spent rapidly.
Multiple motivations come from different dancers in regards to extras, and dancers can change their mind moment by moment, without hesitation. Dancers are desperate people, who careered dancers know eventually work for much less than minimum wage. The demands of being a dancer can be as hard or as easy as the given dancer perceives, depending on club obligation. Several clubs have severe penalty fees for not following rules, scheduling or beautifying standards upheld by the club. Clubs profit from the dancers directly and indirectly; outwardly patrons agree that the dancer presence is what brings them into the club. But besides that, dancer stage fees, penalty fees, and their orders as customers are all direct profits to the club. When the clubs profit so much just from having the dancers come in, some dancers make extreme amounts while other dancers fall by the margins and barely make $8 a day to leave the club with. So the dancers that are making gross amounts find the fees agreeable as they are willing to pay them in order to work there, and because these girls do pay the fees, the club assumes that ALL girls should pay the fees, regardless of whether or not they are doing well that particular night, fees must still be paid nightly.
I have heard of multiple types of penalty fees, one dancer mentioned that one particular club charged the dancers $5 a minute for the time that they were “late” in starting their shift, which meant being ready and on stage at a particular time. Dancers are typically late people, and this particular club profits off the late dancers, as well as the timely dancers who happen to be stuck in traffic or other unusual circumstances on their way to the club. Another club changes the amount of money that dancers receive on dances based on how drunk and how lenient that particular dancer was. The club management threaten the dancer with their supposed video footage of the dancer’s prostitution acts and then take increasingly more money from the dancer per dances that she gets. Another well known club has penalty fees for dancers who do not uphold specific beauty standards before their shift, these standards can change day to day as well. Dancers are weighed before their shift and charged penalty fees for gaining weight or threatened to lose shifts until they are a certain weight.
And just as fees must be paid nightly, stages must always be filled with dancers, even if there are no patrons in the club, even if there are no tipping patrons in the club, the dancer presence is in the most physically demanding during stage sets. Depending on the club, there will be more or less dancers; clubs with more dancers have dancers who appear on stage less while clubs with less dancers have dancers who appear on stage more. This results in a club where there are girls routinely on stage filling the needed dancer presence who are not tipped. Patrons have seen all four dancers within a twenty minute period, and if they want to enjoy their time gambling, drinking, and smoking, they are going to ignore the dancers that they quickly have become bored with, and maybe even have already tipped. Bartenders are fooled into believing these customers who are not interested in dancers, are interested in dancer stage presence, so some dancers may be on stage often to a crowd that couldn’t bother to care. So after a long day of dancing for uninterested patrons, these dancers still owe the club money, and the club isn’t in the least grateful for the “time” that the girls gave to keep the empty stages filled. Just like any older employee who is taken for granted by his employer; the older dancers are no different.
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