Don't Think She's any Different
If you're in a long term relationship and she wants to start dancing but you trust her with the faith of a child, let me tell you, she's no different than mine and will be gone 12 weeks. I believed her, wanted her to get it out of her system, have the full-life experience but after 6 years of being in what I thought was a stable, healthy relationship, she was lying & cheating, sexting and using drugs and cheating within a few weeks - then gone. They're all the same.
I found a program on a shared computer she was still logged into a few days ago. It shows all the texts on her "stripper" number from when she started to the present. Not only has she stopped keeping the dancer life and 'real' life separate but she believes the guys she's met - even the club owners - are 'good' people worth having 'real' relationships with. That's who she's with now. She went from civil service of the public stable nice job to the so-called 'show business' of stripping and it's all gone to her head.
I'm scared for her and imagine (and I've been told) she's slow and naive. Without my guidance and experience she's going to be 'taken in' and 'turned-out' I believe is the term. She's a young mid-twenties and has the terrible misfortune of not thinking she's slow. She thinks she's got it all under control. Sexually assaulted, diseased, physically hurt, permanently scarred - all things I fear for her. She's pretty, but not all that, she's ego-maniacal and very insecure. She did the exact opposite of what I tried to tell to do; leave the drama at the club, don't nit-pick or back-bite with the girls. Keep to yourself and find the meek, harmless guys who are just looking to pay some chick all the 20's and singles in his pocket if the nice, pretty dancer makes him feel special and just seems to honestly be listening to him. It won't even need to be sexual if she works it right. Get his number, tell him you'll call him when you're working again he "seems sane and real, better than all the crazies I have to deal with" and when you get 30 to 40 of them, you'll be making $3000 a week basically being a dancing therapist.
What did she do? Believed she met 'good, real people' who she's made it her life to hang out with outside of the club. They're all chasing her sexually, offering her money, sending videos of their hard cocks narrated with how much they'd pay her for different things. And now she's gone. After almost a decade with a family on in the making, she's gone. Walked out without notice leaving everything but her clothes and some framed pictures of us. I've got the title to her car, signed, and she won't respond to requests to pick it up. Your's is no different - if you think she's not please don't make the same mistake as me. Don't even let her start.
I found a program on a shared computer she was still logged into a few days ago. It shows all the texts on her "stripper" number from when she started to the present. Not only has she stopped keeping the dancer life and 'real' life separate but she believes the guys she's met - even the club owners - are 'good' people worth having 'real' relationships with. That's who she's with now. She went from civil service of the public stable nice job to the so-called 'show business' of stripping and it's all gone to her head.
I'm scared for her and imagine (and I've been told) she's slow and naive. Without my guidance and experience she's going to be 'taken in' and 'turned-out' I believe is the term. She's a young mid-twenties and has the terrible misfortune of not thinking she's slow. She thinks she's got it all under control. Sexually assaulted, diseased, physically hurt, permanently scarred - all things I fear for her. She's pretty, but not all that, she's ego-maniacal and very insecure. She did the exact opposite of what I tried to tell to do; leave the drama at the club, don't nit-pick or back-bite with the girls. Keep to yourself and find the meek, harmless guys who are just looking to pay some chick all the 20's and singles in his pocket if the nice, pretty dancer makes him feel special and just seems to honestly be listening to him. It won't even need to be sexual if she works it right. Get his number, tell him you'll call him when you're working again he "seems sane and real, better than all the crazies I have to deal with" and when you get 30 to 40 of them, you'll be making $3000 a week basically being a dancing therapist.
What did she do? Believed she met 'good, real people' who she's made it her life to hang out with outside of the club. They're all chasing her sexually, offering her money, sending videos of their hard cocks narrated with how much they'd pay her for different things. And now she's gone. After almost a decade with a family on in the making, she's gone. Walked out without notice leaving everything but her clothes and some framed pictures of us. I've got the title to her car, signed, and she won't respond to requests to pick it up. Your's is no different - if you think she's not please don't make the same mistake as me. Don't even let her start.
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I am sure some strippers do have morals. But strippers, like everyone working in a job, are out to make money.... First, and foremost.
And, the reason girls do fall into stripping is usually because of turmoil in their lives. Their life circumstances may not have been the luckiest. So they resort to making money any way they can. And if that means lying, cheating, and or, using sex- then that is what they will do. Hey, I am not blaming them. It's only "survival of the fittest."
A person that is going through desperate times, will do desperate, and even shady things.....
And, your comment, "we just happen to earn more." Yeah, not a valid statement. As in all things, there might be exceptions, but how many girls do you hear bragging- "I'm (or want to be a), stripper, and I earn more than a secretary!"
Think about it. (this is so off topic, it doesn't even pertain to the subject). But, the only way I can tie this into the subject is for the reasons you can NEVER trust these girls)
To the op: I do not feel sorry for you, too bad so sad but you will never own that pussy. I frankly believe she has answered a higher cause.
I think once these gals start stripping they get offers to play and love the money and different sex. Even after they leave dancing they want to continue to play even if they are married. There are many on sugar dating sites.
Handsome good looking man, probably young and able to pick-up ladies in a bar or dance club. Good looking with a coat-n-tie on. Probably a little bad boy in or may have been a jerk in the recent past, strippers like my CF fall for these types of men.
We were in his house, his ex-wife now my CF has taken her child to his house for a visit.
Sorry bro, I know it really hurts a lot. I know, you probably are over it now.