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I am an entertainer and know that there are certain things a guy can do that will make you want to go the extra mile and things that will make you refuse another dance no matter how slow the night is. I realize not everyone has the same idea of what makes the best dance or best time at strip club in general, but these tips will help you get what YOU want.

1)How to get the girl you want:

If you see a girl you want to dance for you, when she is free, go ask her for a dance! Dancers really like this and some entertainers (usually the less money motivated ones) won't even ask a guy if he wants a dance unless he has already tipped her onstage or she otherwise knows he will agree. If you are too shy to go ask, just ask your waitress to go retrieve her (if you give her a small tip, she will likely drag the girl you want out of the dressing room if she has to- and once the entertainer is informed that you are a tipper, she will be happy to make the trip). If you have asked a girl to dance for you or asked someone to get her for you, and she still doesn't come over; she might just be busy, or taking a break, or you might just be weird/smelly/scary/or have a bad reputation. Either way, brush it off and find your next favorite. If she doesn't want your money, there isn't much you can do about that and there will almost surely be plenty of girls that do.

2) How to talk, or not talk, to an entertainer:

THE GIRLS ARE THERE TO MAKE MONEY. Some girls like to talk, others do not; no matter what you want, you should be prepared to pay for it. Most entertainers don't mind chatting for a song- or even two if the conversation is interesting, but after two songs, make your intentions known! If you want dances, this is your chance! If she is sitting with/on you, she wants to dance for you! If you want to talk, let her know you would like to continue the conversation and expect to compensate her. Most girls won't expect the same amount per song for talking as for dancing, and if they do, and they are smart, they will let you know that. Otherwise expect to give her at least half the price of a dance for each song you spend talking. If you want to talk for a long time, you should probably just do VIP! VIP is usually about half the cost of an hour of dances +the price of a bottle (or however much the club ads to that); it will be quieter, more private, and you can have her dance or talk as much as you like; plus she will probably be drinking with you and be more relaxed. If you don't wish to talk any longer or get dances, no need to waste time or to be rude! Simply let her know that you are "would like to finish your drink before getting any dances" or "You just got here and aren't ready for dances" or even "You are cute, but I prefer (Insert adjective here; blondes, brunettes, big boobs, ect)". Of course you do not have to make an excuse, but entertainers are like anyone else and do have feelings (seriously...we do!) and besides, if you are rude she will just tell the other girls to steer clear of you.

3) The one you have been waiting for (drum role); how to "bend the rules" or receive "extras":

First, depending on the local laws and the rules of the club; what you consider standard might be considered an "extra" at this club. For example, at a particular club, at least some "grinding" might be part of a standard dance; while at another club this might be against the rules or even the law and would require some careful negotiation.

Just because you want it, doesn't mean it is possible. Maybe not at this club, maybe just not with this dancer. Before you go to club, look at reviews and see if anyone mentions what the rules are. Find out what the laws are; at most clubs this is the absolute limit of what will be allowed in a regular, non-VIP dance. If a club is topless, the bottoms will not be coming off; this rule is usually built into the club's license and they could be closed down if it were violated. Of course, like any rules, there will always be some willing to break them, especially if they won't get caught (perhaps in a VIP area, though even these are on camera in most clubs)--But there is risk to breaking the rules, the dancer could be fired for breaking rules so she has to have a reason to want to take such a risk.

How do you get an entertainer to risk her job? Well, what would make you risk your job? Lets say you knew you could get another job the next day, and its not guaranteed you will be fired - but there will be consequences, you might just be suspended or maybe your boss will just yell at you, but at the least you will lose the rest of the day's pay. To take such a risk, you would probably need to be offered at least the rest of the day's pay; more if you really like your job. It is the same with entertainers. If you get a dance at 11pm- an entertainer could still expect to make several hundred more dollars that night- so bear that in mind when you are asking her to break the rules of her club- a BIG tip could go a long way, but don't expect more than a standard dance for the "going rate". So now you know, extras will cost you. DON'T JUST GO FOR IT! The worst thing you can do is try to touch a girl when it is not allowed , especially if she already told you no. Most girls will not be offended if you ask, and at that point she will either tell you no, tell you how much, tell you "well....maybe if we go to VIP", or, if you are REALLY lucky, she will just say "ok". It should go without saying, no means no. If she tells you how much, now you know, it's up to you to decide if the price is right. Fall for the VIP line at your own risk; most girls are a bit more "generous" in VIP because they know you are spending more money, but the minute you sign that credit card, she is getting paid no matter if you have a good time...so buyer beware- if you are expecting something extra- you might want to get a few dances on the floor, see how comfortable she seems with you, before agreeing to VIP (i've known girls that have made a CAREER out of false VIP promises). If she simply agrees, then good for you! Looks like you found that magical combination of the right girl and the right club!

Hope you find my tips helpful. Have fun!