Some Dancers Value Friendship

Jul 22, 2011, 12:00 AM

I had quite amazing expereince at a Phoenix club (Teasers - see that clubs for much longer review) that was a lesson in social dynamics more than just getting sexy dances.

For about 3 hours at a club maybe 75% of the time was talking, sharing, hugging, at the bar with 3 dancers without them making any money other than 3 dances at $10 each with 2 of them and 2 dances at $10 with the third.

The bar stool area was full most of the time yet no one else was in any contact/discussion with dancers yet my buddie and I had the 3 dancers with us most of the night with lots of physical touch as well as verbal intimacy about real life matters.

I discussed this with two dancers. They both have other lives, either goes to school and/or other jobs (model, singer) and told us how rare it is to meet guys that are so friendy and intelligent not just small talk. They enjoy this as much as making money trying to be sexy.

All 3 dancer shared lots of personal info with me/us while often in full body contact hugging, touching etc (them in skimpy bikini's) with us which we both enjoy more than just sexy groping type dances.

While I have had dancers open up to me before the time spent with us not making any money on us was amazing to experience.

Not all guys will have this interest but I suggest it as a social opportunity that may have meaning to some.

A very detailed review is in the Phoenix secdtion - Teasers club

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Alucard14 years ago

This is how it went with my new ATF. We spent most of an afternoon cuddling, touching, and kissing in a booth & talking. By the time I left after a VIP interlude we had each others number.

obaysch14 years ago

After having been through the usual hustle so many times, I found a quiet, low key pair of dancers at my regular club who used to spend hours with me without expecting dances. One finally admitted that my friendship was more important than anything, that her self-esteem gets so beaten up by men that someone taking the time to show interest in her as a person actually shocked her. It was worth my effort, she was a genuinely charming and funny person who provided great company. And yes, it made the dances a lot more intense. Real friendship? We'll see what happens when one of us stops the dancing......

bumrubber14 years ago

Surprise -- they're people like everyone else! Some good company probably takes the edge off working, which probably sucks except for the money.

I have a dancer friend in another state who hangs out with me all night when I'm there. I don't buy dances from her, and she's in demand, so the only explanation is that she likes my company. I like her a lot too. But this is an in-club thing only, no phone numbers.

Beaniceguy14 years ago

I've had instances with dancers I actually took a little time to get to know who would almost beg me to come in and see them on a regular basis. And as has been indicated, I didn't drop more than perhaps $20 on stage dances in the course of an evening. However, I did take an interest in their real lives and was able to hold a conversation. I also think being nice goes a long way with girls who often I think are demeaned by some real asshole guys. So, yeah davephx, you are definitely on to something here.

sanitago14 years ago

no big shock. I know a dancer at my local club who gives me a smile every time she sees me walk in. if she's not working a customer for a dance, she'll usually come over, set down, and we'll spend as much free time as she has between stage shows just shooting the shit. I don't know, but she seems to like to be able to talk to a guy who's willing to talk to her and not busy trying to get his hands all over her. so yeah, dancers are humans too.

RegularJoe5714 years ago

I love to see the human side of dancers, when they realize that I'm a nice, normal, friendly guy and that I honestly love to talk to them. I have a few dancers at a few clubs who I honestly count as friends. That being said, I would never waste their time at work. These ladies pay to work and I appreciate their attention enough to tip them for it. I don't want them to leave owing money because of me. If you stop tipping (or buying dances) they will stop talking to you, not because they are materialistic jerks, but because going to someones' place of business, taking up their time and not spending money is rude. I expected to be paid to work (before I retired) and I have no illusions about why these beautiful young ladies are hanging out in strip clubs naked with me. I'm fine with that.