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5 years ago
@jackslash I was generalizing with my last sentence. It's just frustrating because after working there, the "GPS" isn't even GPS - it literally costs $200-$300 to work there if somebody isn't on schedule.
I respect you, Jackslash and I know you understand the game.
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5 years ago
I checked Flight Club out last night and there is a very good reason why services are so pricey. I posted a comment in a newer review about it already, but entertainers are charged and fined for almost anything. And they aren't cheap fines/fees either. The club makes it almost impossible to turn a profit without charging so much.
And while you guys pay $20/trip, we pay $100 just for using the VIP rooms on top of dj, mom, late fees, freelance fees, and whatever fines.
If you can't afford the prices set, then go to stripper Walmart (Bogarts).
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5 years ago
I checked Flight out tonight and all I'm saying for now is there is an extremely good reason prices are high. There is a fine or fee for almost everything. House fee alone is $100 minus mom and dj, late fees, freelance fees, etc. There's a fine for being on your phone for too long, for sitting on counters in the locker room, for being late to stage and for also missing stage. Girls aren't allowed to skip, but if they pay to do so, the skip fees range from $50-$100 depending on how soon they're up. It's an expensive place to work at and if you can't afford to pay and respect the prices set, then don't go.
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5 years ago
... you should have gone to Flight Club. ;)
And yes, most likely, Melody was high off her ass because she goes outside every 30 mins or so to smoke.
discussion comment
5 years ago
*of me
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5 years ago
I asked the girls in the hidden Facebook group for/by strippers what they thought. Everyone there advised me to *always* lie about what I do for work. Most said to go with the bartender or waitress angle to explain the hours and nights I work. I have experience bartending, so I'll go with that. My only concern is if I'm ever asked for a photo of my in my "uniform". It's unlikely and probably just me overlooking a possible dilemma though. 🤷
Anyway, apparently I bartend now. 😉
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5 years ago
I imagine him to be extremely demanding. He did text me a photo from Miami that looked way too professional to be a cell phone picture.
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5 years ago
"Chris844
35, Washington, District of Columbia,
about 8 days ago
Hi! I can offer $5000 per month.
I really love your profile.
I re-joined SA recently, and I'm not sure it's for me anymore. Everyone here is kind of creepy now...but you seem normal...fingers crossed lol :)
It’s like everyone here is looking to have me pay for sex, and that's not why I'm here at all. Like I said in my bio, sure intimacy is important, but there has to be genuine connection and chemistry. I hope that's what you're looking for, too.
I would usually blow this money at the Venetian, but I feel a lot better helping someone achieve her goals. What are yours? So I have three questions for you:
1. Do you consider yourself to be an adventurous person? If we were to go on a vacation together, where would you take us?
2. I can tell a lot about a woman by how she dresses. Describe your style. What would you wear on our first date?
3. Do you believe you’re a good kisser? Kissing, to me at least, is a lost art, and people move on to other stuff too fast. How would you kiss me if I let you?
I'm going to delete this app soon because it always crashes on me, and I'm getting way too many messages, but I would love to keep talking to you :)
202-xxx-xxxx
I visit _________ every week, so let’s meet up soon :)
Hope to hear from you."
The whole message with # and location redacted. I message him because I immediately thought it was a scam, but wanted the experience of this to build on for future interactions.
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5 years ago
Interesting. Thanks guys.
I sort of felt like it might be a scam. He told me he's in my area for a day every week and flies from Portland. The crazy offer in allowance and flying to my area for one day every week was really bizarre to me.
The very first line in his initial PM was something like "I'm inexperienced Daddy and have had long-term arrangements. I will offer an allowance of $5,000 a month, but I need you to answer three questions from me." 🙄
It was annoying.
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5 years ago
I'm back. Thanks everyone.
I do have a question regarding the original topic here. What would your guys's advice be in telling these gentlemen about my work? I was communicating with one potential SD (he offered a $5,000 a month allowance which seemed too good to be true to be honest), but he stopped texting with me once he found out I'm a dancer.
I'm not sure if the general consensus on SA is that guys would prefer somebody to be in the industry or not.
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5 years ago
And @dma - don't name the girls.
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5 years ago
@stripclubman01 thank youuu!!! 👏👏👏
discussion comment
5 years ago
A manager at a club I used to work at in Detroit called the police to come and take it a customer because that customer was known for not paying dancers and they had finally had enough. And they did. They ticketed him.
Another club I worked at once threatened to call the police on a customer who was refusing to pay me $200 that he owed me.
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5 years ago
They're in a pole studio dancing around a pole. Not a stripper. *Unicorn dancer.
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5 years ago
I've received a lot of private messages regarding this thread and haven't been able to keep up with the comments due to an unexpected death in my family and also being around my family and not wanting them to be nosy with what I'm doing on my phone.
But thank you for all the great advice everyone... It will be put to use.
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5 years ago
I never worked in NYC, but I've read in various dancer forums that it has gone downhill since the Stripper Strike a few years ago. And I feel as though the industry, in general, is oversaturated everywhere with idiot baby strippers.
I have also been considering escorting for a while. My time is divided between two metropolitan cities in which girls end up in the local papers being murdered for sex work or being trafficked, so I would want a driver who acts as my security. I have also considered extras clubs, but the current market prices are so low in my areas that I question whether it's worth it or not.
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5 years ago
Leave politics out of my thread. Thank you.
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5 years ago
Looking through my phone... All of my pictures are of me at work or professional photoshoots to promote a club or MFC. 😂😂😂 Fuck.
I have to take "clothed" pictures because I don't want to give off the Tinder or Backpage impression.
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5 years ago
I'm planning to finish the profile today before work. Also going to upload a few more photos. My issue has been coming up with something witty and unique for the headline and little bio thing.
I also laugh that every guy has their net worth and annual income set incredibly high.
I know a lot of women might be impressed by material objects, but flashy toys and financial bragging are turn offs. A lot of club customers brag about their toys (and dicks) to the point of where I pay no attention and don't give them the swooning they're seeking.
Anyway, I've been studying how to finesse better and my patience and tolerance for bullshit fairs well, so I'll finish this profile and see what happens. 🤷
discussion comment
5 years ago
I've gotten a few messages from across the country. I don't know how to deal with those. I don't understand the idea behind a long distance SD/SB relationship. Perhaps you can help me understand better and if I should even respond?
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5 years ago
@Muddy but my minimum for that service is $39.99 and I don't give deals. Maybe you can borrow $1.99 from a friend? 😊
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5 years ago
After Backpage's demise, I know a lot of the $150 and less prostitutes went on to SA. 🙄
I'm going to try updating my profile to say I'm looking for an arrangement and not short meetings or something. The site prohibits pay per meet. And I honestly think a lot of girls who claim to get $1,000+ per month from someone on that site are lying. While it is possible, those are the Daddies met in person at clubs - not on a sugar daddy site. Those girls give false illusions of reality, while the pay per meet girls and "Daddies" ruin the site for everyone else. 😔
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5 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
^exactly
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5 years ago
You weren't specifically talking about dancers, but you asked an extremely offensive and belittling question on a strip club forum. No wonder you pay for sex.
You're a fucking idiot.
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5 years ago
This report is from Oct. 4th, btw.