Comments by HarryJones (page 2)

Now we are getting to some better advice :) Thats what I have been doing and will continue to do. I'll stick by her, i'll have some fun and support her. She'll support me if I have a bad day, etc. I am crazy for her but its in my head (when i'm unoccupied or sleeping) If i'm busy its okay. And I don't force the issue, I dont try to almost marry her everytime we meet....just sometimes when i'm drunk or she nudges me into that kinda conversation

Hahaha Mandingo's BBC

I've tested her and had enough discussions to the point where we almost fell out. Its just this whole waiting around thing that i'm stuck with. I'm fine waiting but when do you guys even guess that she'll be ready or how I should react?

Yes but did you actually read my original post? Its long as fuck and I sound like i'm in denial but at this stage, its not a scam. I'm not even looking for stripper advice or help identifying a con. I'm literally looking for relationship advice with a girl

Some real good detailed feedback here, thanks. I understand the whole boyfriend thing but I am close enough to her and her friends to know that she genuinely is single. And as for the Bi-Polar thing, I would want to support her. It is not lust, I love her for all her imperfections and would be willing to take risks

I understand that. But I don't wanna beg or seem desperate and pushy. She could have any guy in our entire town but clearly hasn't. She has been treat so badly in the past that she does genuinely seem like she'd rather enjoy life freely alone at the moment

Exactly. My only dream in life right now is to hold her in my arms and call her mine. But I have a GREAT time at the club. Every weekend going for a lovely chat and a dance or 2 before meeting my friends and partying until the early morning next door

Anonlvone thats actually solid advice. Totally makes sense. Thank you sir

Nice one. Haha

Actually sounds great. Nice one. I hope all goes well for you.

SharkHunter - I said that some of the articles I have stumbled on, are from 15 years ago. Not that I've been in clubs for 15 years....that would be quite weird...very weird

Thanks for the advice guys, good and bad. I have read posts on this site from over 15 years ago, I had no idea how many of you would respond so quickly like this. You will probably laugh at me for particular things but i'm quite and inexperienced guy compared to some of you vets and i'm actually a shy dude when i'm not with friends. Its taken me a while to be properly comfotable around her

Yes Papi that was a typo up there ^ I meant "Wouldn't" Its 2:30am here, I need to sleep soon. Flying to the US tomorrow night

To make it clear. I didnt say I wouldn't wanna be sexual involved. I meant, that I would want it to be dirty and based on money or some sort of trick

Sorry it's so long. I just feel the need to include EVERY last detail in situations like this incase people become misinformed

This is SLIGHTLY similar to my situation but as you all know, I am young and my girl is just 4 years older than me. Might be some sort of emotional scam since this dude is a lot older than her and he's married, but we can't be sure. Maybe she is just looking for a little bit of advice and guidance from someone mature who has actually experienced life...whilst still giving him a good time legally and morally correct ITC