Comments by FrustratedInTheUS

Yeah, I had the same thoughts as BuckMcNutter. Somehow a city being liberal in the US doesn't correspond to good strip clubs. But they do have AMPs which are allowed to stay open and serve a large clientele.

Thanks for giving us a picture of what happens in North Carolina, it's certainly not encouraging.

For $1800 you can fly to Europe and have the vacation of a lifetime with as many top-tier 10/10 beautiful girls as you want not to mention all the sight-seeing and tourism as well. ;)

In NYC strip clubs like Flashdancers, the $20 dances are strictly breasts-off. You can only graze legs slightly and that's it. The only other option they offer is $600+ VIP which is way too expensive. So there's no middle ground, no $100-200 dances where breast play would be allowed for a few songs. You either have the low extreme or the high extreme.

@loper - and, apparently, Philly. In Philly clubs like Cheerleaders it's $20 contact dances.

You don't need a $300 15-min one, you can get a $150 10-minute one at Good Guys or Platinum which is pretty good with touching.

The only question is, how can we Americans visit Canada on a regular basis, without being harassed and forced to explain why we're travelling alone. It's really not easy! Once a year, sure, you can visit for business or family reasons. On a regular basis, nope, very hard.

"Since this is DC, I did not attempt to ask for a dance in the VIP" Wrong decision. VIP Dances are now allowed in DC, and they're pretty good.

Imagine paying for a lap dance which actually disgusts you! That's like the textbook definition of what should never, ever happen. It's entirely on you -- you saw a 4/10 and agreed to go along just out of desperation. I've had these unfortunate incidents too. If you don't see someone you like, you need to leave and put your money back into the ATM.

There would be white women if you lived in NY/NJ/PA, via the Euro/Russian contingent that continues to exist there. But you guys in the South are completely cut off from that.

Yeah, but it's not just on stage -- you said "Tops and bottoms stay on during stage AND *private dances.*"

What's the draw of all these NJ bikini bars? There is no nudity. Do guys come there for extras, which happen without nudity?

There are no details about what happened in the VIP.

It doesn’t matter that the prices are outrageous. Where else would you see sexy Asian women and get dances with them? They’re quite rare on the US strip club scene - and they are sexy. Besides, by CA standards, the prices may not be as outrageous as you think. This place sounds amazing and I wish could visit all these Asian coffee shops in CA, I’d be willing to spend a lot, but unfortunately I’m on the East Coast.

If you live in a place like Tennessee, whether it's for family or job reasons, you're paying a price for that in the form of a sexual desert.

That's what I thought. It's important to mention this detail in the review, which you didn't. Someone reading this probably won't notice the "Bikini Bar" category, which is in fine print, and may get the impression that lap dances are viable here, especially since you wrote "It's almost better to get a few lap dances."

They never take their tops off, not even during the lap dances, is that right?

In a place like Washington DC, $200 for 15 min is par for the course. But not in Baltimore.

I made the exact same comment as "59" below -- I started a thread on this problem in 2017 -- and was mocked relentlessly. It's difficult for a traveler from the US to cross the border if he's single and has no regular explanation for why he's travelling, such as business, family, or friends. He'll be harassed by the border control agents and it's a very stressful experience. Unfortunately, Canada is where all the good places are, while the US is terrible and conservative.

We used to have places like this in the States, up until ~2010. Massage parlors with attractive women, often white European, which included HJs at the end. But they're all gone now.

In that $150 15-min dance, was there also no touching?

DC is like 10-15 min. away from you, LOL. But to each his own.

Sure, you can get "nude 2 way for $30" in some places, but how attractive are those dancers? If it's the US, they're probably ghetto hood rats of some kind, rather than desirable attractive "Europeans with a killer body." Let's be honest.

Are the lap dances topless?

Were the LDs topless or clothes-on? This is listed as a bikini bar. You didn't mention this very important detail.