Comments by FLAP3000 (page 10)

I didn’t realize there was an abbreviation for this either. Not a super common occurrence for me, but definitely has happened multiple times. A lot of times alcohol was involved. Last time it happened the dancer was chewing gum, and I asked for a piece. She said that the last piece was in her mouth. So I jokingly asked for a piece of that one, and to my surprise she grabbed my face and gave me this long, sloppy/sensual kiss.

*edit* Confidence, conversation.

Exactly @rickdugan and rattdog. I got attacked on a different discussion for simply stating that confidence, confidence, and self-assuredness (hopefully that’s a word) will get you a long way with women - regardless of whether they are dancers/entertainers or women at the coffee shop, art gallery, department store, etc. Respect women, treat them well without being simpy - and you’re good.

That is essentially what you said… @Ishmael. You said women outside of an SC won’t want to talk to you unless you check all those boxes. But that’s simply not true. And I never said anyone was having fun “wrong” per se. I just said it’s simpy to feel like the only way one can get an attractive woman to engage in drinks/conversation for longer than 5 minutes is by paying them. That’s it, that’s all. With that said, I have no issues/qualms with anyone doing that. Have your fun however you want - as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone else. I know guys that slide into random Instagram girls’ DM and just Cashapp them money to keep sending a few messages back and forth. Hey, do you.

For Chicago to be the 2nd/3rd largest city - the strip club scene is atrocious. Used to be a little better in the early 2000’s but now is a shell of its former self. Check 390 in the far south suburbs and also Atlantis. Jimmy’s if you like big-booty black women. Polekatz maybe….but other than that kinda slim picks.

Wow…I’m sorry to hear that. ^^^ Sorry to hear that so many feel like you have to be wealthy to intrigue women. Obviously that doesn’t hurt at all - and opens up the playing field significantly - but it really sounds like a lot of guys need some self-esteem/self-improvement work. Knowledge of self, confidence, respect, intelligence, wit, etc…. Talk to @shadowcat - He’s got the game all figured out. He and I can school you…. $39.99 a month and in no time you guys will drop that mindset.

@ twentyfive, I couldn’t care less about how you spend your minimum wage earnings. You got super emotional about a comment that wasn’t even directed at you. Keep spending your money on talking to women - it gives me and the women you spend your money on something to laugh about once you leave.

@ Call.Me.Ishmael that makes perfect sense. Most of us enjoy that. Hell, in the clubs down south I like to smoke a blunt with the dancers (for free). That’s not what I’m referring to. OP makes it sound like he wants to handcuff a dancer for hours and just keep her at the bar talking and acting like a therapy session. If that’s what you want to do, then why not just go to a regular happy hour bar? Or like a hotel bar or rooftop? In that environment there would be plenty of women there and you are free to talk to any of them and invite them to have a drink and conversation. Why come to a gentleman’s club for that???

This kinda stuff is ridiculous. Eventually, pricks like this who don’t know where to draw lines will ruin the hobby for all of us. No wonder a lot of dancers think we are ALL stalkers/creeps on sight. I didn’t realize this kinda thing was prevalent.

Oceans was awesome - so I hope this one lives up to expectations.

Ha! This guy is hilarious…same guy that gets on the discussion board and spills his feelings like a woman. Simps are bad - trolls are also bad. But this clown manages to have both covered.

TROLL 🧌

Just leave the fucking money where it is! Worry about your own money.

STFU AND GO AWAY TROLL!!!!!!!! ^^^^^

GO TO A CIVIE BAR IF YOU WANT TO JUST SIT AND TALK WITH WOMEN!!!! WTF is up with the SIMPING these days?? And you wonder why you can’t pull anything above a 4.

Dustyhawkins is the biggest troll now.

Go away TROLL

Is this BlindThirdEye reincarnated??

This guy is a troll. Probably needs to go on the “ignore” list.

Dude…just get a girlfriend or wife. You can cuddle, kiss, flirt anytime you’re ready. Save us the melodramatic BS.

Yeah, don’t overthink broski. And don’t tip for conversation. If you are an interesting person and the young lady enjoys the convo (sincerely), then you don’t have to beg or bribe them to come back and talk to you. Don’t try to handcuff them - realize that they are there making a living. But at the same time, don’t simp out and start paying for conversation. And don’t become anyone’s “regular”. Go, have fun, play the field and interact with several of the young ladies. And don’t go overboard with chasing women in the club. Outside, men usually do the chasing. The beauty of the club is that most men get the experience of being approached and chased. Don’t be pressured into tipping. Pay whatever the agreed upon prices are. ONLY TIP WHEN SERVICE RENDERED JUSTIFIES A TIP. This is your hard-earned money - don’t give it away. Don’t fall for the lies, bs, etc. Realize that some of these women will lie and try to finesse you out of your money and then laugh at you with their dancer friends in the locker room. It’s game. But treat them all respectfully - and respect yourself as well.

I don’t think it’s like this at all. At the end of the day, this is still a man’s world. No REAL men I know have any problems with a woman making money. But just don’t come with the entitled, elitist attitude because you are a woman that happens to make money using OF or any of these platforms. If it weren’t for the simps and incels who support these platforms, then there would be no money to be made. The men I know generally wouldn’t give the time of day to women who capitalize on their body/sex/image etc and would much rather have a woman with a more traditional business/career. But no hate on how a woman goes out and gets her bread. But it’s moreso the narcissistic attitude that accompanies this (in some cases, obviously not all) that can be annoying.

The same way you pick up any other woman. Confidence, SMV(as someone else mentioned), a well-timed joke, compliment outside of something to do with her body or how attractive she is, and just showing that you aren’t thirsty/desperate/smitten, etc. it’s a science, but definitely not rocket science.

ATL all day long. Nowhere else even comes close.

These gangbangers and dope boys come to these places and end up getting into beefs over girls and money.