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12 years ago
Source three is from Old Dominion and source four is Eastern Michigan University which are American colleges. So the stats seem too diverse and spread out. A much better way of approaching stats would be to split up regions and demographical areas. So depending on where the research is done the stats could vary greatly.
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12 years ago
Club_Goer: The study stating that only 13.5 percent have kids was done by a college in England (Look at source one). So perhaps the cultural difference plays a role as a lower percentage of British strippers have kids.
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12 years ago
Georgemicrodong sorry about coming off as trying to start something negative but I was really just curious about what people think about the stats. Not trying to prove who's right or wrong. However I do agree that when I am at the club having fun how attractive the girl is and how much she does is what really matters the most.
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12 years ago
Also Randy77 it looks like that whole thing about them having daddy issues is suspect. Read my latest thread and check the link out.
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12 years ago
I understand rickdugan and I will try to get a real relationship when I get older. I also appreciate your tough love advice. I do take it to consideration.
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12 years ago
Randy77: Dougster didn't win the debate shit. Not all strippers fit the stereotype and that was my point and the college girls I knew that were strippers never fit any of the stereotypes. Also I said the stereotypes were accurate to an extent. Everyone in society has problems. I personally fit some. Seeing how I am not close to my parents and all.
Don't call me a hoot. I am doing well in life and have a bright future ahead of me. I am not the reason why some strippers call us pathetic losers I don't even spend half my paycheck and I had sex with women in college that don't strip.
I understand life is a rollercoaster and I have much to learn about the real world. Recently out of college I still have a long way to go and I won't deny that. Also if I have problems I know a stripper won't be there but I have plenty of friends that will be.
Also I will man up and say I am sorry for saying you are a pathetic excuse for a human being but understand that you made some remarks to me but I simply dont care what you think about me. Also as for fantasy land I don't live in one. I know full well that the dancers don't care about me and only want my money. However I am only there to have fun and I am having a real life. After all I have a job with a fortune 500 company.
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12 years ago
Wow Dougster get a life. I know that Randy and Steve are either your other screen names or people you know. I won the debate. You are the one that started the fight by talking down to me about my depression which is what set me off. Randy, Steve, and Dougster are pathetic excuses for human beings. Unfortunatly my lunch break is almost over and sadly I didnt have time to make another comment relevant to this thread or respond to my personal messages so I will do that later. Also I have to block randy and steve. Eventually all of Dougsters screen names and fellow Internet trolls will be blocked and I can log on without laughing at people that have nothing better to do than be an Internet troll.
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12 years ago
I just blocked him and if he does make any new screen names I would recognize the similiar Internet Troll writing and ignore again. Dougster isn't a good person and has anger towards strip clubs and people that enjoy strip clubs. He is a terrible person.
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12 years ago
Okay I have officially blocked Dougster and I cannot read any more of his post fortunatly. I am sorry that this discussion became so off topic. I apologize if anyone was offended or lost some respect for me. Also I am sorry that I lost my cool and acted immature. I think it is best this is the last comment on this thread. Wish I could delete the thread.
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12 years ago
Thanks everyone. I will have a much better experience on here with Dougster blocked.
As for the topic I think I should revise what I said in my first comment. Some girls, but not all, see us as pathetic losers. However some of the dancers see us as simply people out to have a good time and they want to make our night at their club one to remember.
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12 years ago
Way off topic I know but people like Dougster are what is wrong with society. They talk trash to other people like when he talked shit to me about being depressed. People like him don't have any tact and are just bad people.
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12 years ago
Alucard: I will cool down. I am just so pissed off at Dougster. He talks a lot of shit. I am not a violent person but when someone attacks me personally I get very upset.
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12 years ago
You fucking retard you have no idea what a simple random survey is and why it is used. I have a college degree and you dont.
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12 years ago
Can someone tell me how to block Dougster? He made me so angry on a past thread that I am shaking.
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12 years ago
You don't have any stats or anything to back up anything you are saying. I am trying to have an intelligent discussion but when someone talks shit about my depression they crossed a line. Goddamn I want to hit you
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12 years ago
Dougster: Go fuck yourself. I am more intelligent than you. I have a college degree you fucking piece of trash. A simple random survey needs 10 percent not one percent. I have already mentioned in past threads about my depression. I am so pissed off I am shaking. I wish I could fucking hit you in your mother fucking face.
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12 years ago
I pretty much thought as much and agree with these comments. I never believed they thought highly of us. If they think we are pathetic losers then fine. I am just there to have a good time.
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12 years ago
Papi_Chulo: I understand what you mean. In all honesty I most likely won't date a dancer. In fact I probably won't date anyone for a while.
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12 years ago
I was being sarcastic about the .000001 percent statement and I thought that was obvious but I guess not. I am not being sarcastic when I say you know less than one percent.
There is no way of knowing the exact percentage of people that do drugs. Strippers or any other profession. I was basing my statements on my personal life. I know of many people that have some form of addiction.
The definition of whore varies depending on the dictionary you look at and who you ask. I am done discussing this word.
I should be on anti-depressants. I understand and agree with you on that seeing how I have been diagnosed with severe depression.
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12 years ago
Dougster is giving me a migrane. I need a lap dance.
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12 years ago
You clearly don't understand. You misinterpreted what I wrote. Let me make it basic for you my fellow atheist. Most people have drug addictions. Whether it is alcohol, marijuana, cigarettes, or any other type of drug. I draw that from my personal life since I know of many people with some sort of addiction. Strippers and people in general have drug addictions.. Do You understand now? Why are you having so much trouble? Maybe you aren't college educated. Maybe you went but failed. I know of strippers that graduated college. What do you have to say about that?
Again with the defintion. It varies from source and person. I have heard the term whore used many times in my life and people generally mean it as someone that has sex with many people. Don't care what the dictionary says. People use the term loosely. I am going by the way people use it on an every day basis.
Own interactions with strippers? I bet you know .0000001 percent of the stripper population. Wow that is enough to varify the stereotypes.
Also stop going to strip clubs. You clearly don't like them since you talk down about them all the time.
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12 years ago
Dougster: Whore means many things. Not necessarily a prostitute. I was a Sociology minor and what I am telling you was talked about in my classes. I defended showgirls and strip clubs in college and I am still doing it now. What you are saying is nothing I have never heard before.
Lets define vast majority. My personal definition of that is 75 percent since that is three in every four. I doubt 75 percent have daddy issues and I knew many that were in college. The whole drug thing too. You beat that on the nail over and over. Also I doubt more than 75 percent have more problems than the average American. Also people that stereotype are ignorant. You are making claims based on society's perception of strippers.
You clearly didn't respond to everything I have mentioned in other posts such as everyone in general, no matter what profession, having problems and fitting atleast one stereotype.
You clearly seem to have anger against stippers. Are you religious or something? People that say the same things you do are deeply religious. I have never met a secular person with your kind of anger towards strippers.
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Papi_Chulo: I understand what you mean. Some girls, whether they are dancers or any other profession, seem to prefer guys that are dead beats. I don't want a girl like that anyway. It would be fun dating a dancer though. I wouldn't ask since I know they get asked out all the time but if a dancer asked me for a OTC date then I would most likely say yes. Plenty of dancers go to UK that are here in Lexington KY and there are many great places near campus to meet up.
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Dougster: You seem to be missing some of my main points. Or just simply don't know how to respond. Like I have said so many times. A whore is simply a woman with the sexual morality of a man. If society wasn't chauvinistic then the word whore wouldn't exist seeing how men sleep around with more women than women do with men.
I feel like we are going in circles with the whole stereotype thing. I think most strippers and most people in general fit atleast one of the stereotypes you have listed. Everyone has problems including me. I think strippers are just like everyone else and should be treated like human beings but Dougster you clearly don't think so and I am just getting tired of arguing.
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12 years ago
Technically you weren't cheated since you received what you paid for. I would say you did get cheated if you gave her money for FS and never received it though. Sorry to see that she never came through on OTC but there are plenty of other strippers out there.