Comments by ButterMan (page 19)

Ok bj99 I like you but you pretty hijacked my topic here...LoL I started it asking if tipping for lap dances was cool and the same as tipping a waitress and most responded to say no it isn't the same and that most of us don't tip for lap dances but you've turned it into a tipping for lap dances etiquette touche I guess I have to give you props...LoL

So bj99 you say you've never done OTC but you've gone out with 9 customers in the last year just curious what is the intent? Is it friends ? romantic interest ? just curious cuz most dancers that hang out with us it's pretty much an OTC event to be honest

If i were going to do this I'd at least sit at the bar so as not to attract a lot of attention.

Can't believe no one answered the question. They must not like you larry...LOL I'll esitmate that i've probably spent OTC time with abt 20 strippers since my first OTC date abt 18 years ago.

yes I have a bit of a disconnect with a 20 year right now! I think it's because she is not that much of conversationist. talking to her is seriously like a lot of work..LOL

No that's never happened but I probably wouldn't want to be bothered with that BS and would probably have left too.

Usually if my money is that low I don't go because I know I'm going to find someone I want to get a dance from

I imagine we'll probably never hear from Calichix again today was her first day on the site she probably stumbled on the Forum and decided to lash out at the guys that are helping her precious GF pay off that student debt

Yes Phoenix that was the one she seems like a cross between Phoenix and Nina.... and I'm spent money on girls in the club that didn't do extras as long as they give a good dance

I think she got pregnant and took some time off for something sounds familiar

No not pole dancer... what was the girl's name that danced in West Virginia I thought she sent us like full pictures of her before dark hair Slim cute .

Agreed! If that's her photo she would definitely Bank her personality kind of reminds me of a cross between Nina and the chick that used to dance in West Virginia I think I can't remember her name

Bj99 I'm going to give another vote of trust:) you said you wanted to gain Insight on the other side's mindset when you got on here and you seem to be doing so and seems like you have your head on straight and from your picture you're hot!:)

Well bj99 I'll give you credit you do seem to know what most typical stripper bf's have in common Xbox ,weed and unemployment:)

She is a man hating stripper GF and they keep her girl caged in locker room and roll her out on weekends it sounds like:)

dougster is a TUSCL legend he used to have a fierce rivalry with a guy named alucard on here when I first joined...LMAO ahhh the good ole days.

i enjoy bj99's perspective a lot more than this angry stripperweb chick that randomly chimed in to say the least!....and I don't have a problem tipping a dancer afterwards if it is a great dance. But to expect it and compare it to a waitress whom i wouldn't dare not tip is just wrong.

And the jaded stripperweb Community has finally joined the discussion folks and look it's her first comment

Some of my OTC experiences have started out as just lap dances before either after the dance or the next time just offer her more money for something extra so usually take the deal when she's comfortable with you and realizes you're not a cop or a rapist

Yea that makes sense bj99 but I'm never getting just 1 dance unless it's terrible and it's rarely that bad.

Not much! Like others have said maybe shopping for OTC other than that I can't think of anything

I agree Larry that's pretty much what I do. I never just get 1 dance unless the bitch is terrible.

No Supra I'm not a random customer I've been a regular there for over 10 years I wish I had the advantage you were talking about but what I've done is let my girls know that I will not be paying $25 for a dance there from anyone ever. The girls often complain about what they call gawlkers who come in just watch and don't get dances in my opinion if everyone here goes to $25 they're going to make me a gawlker!.. LOL

And I'm someone who believes in tipping I tip my waitress my bartender my pizza guy my skycap Etc I just don't think that it's the same as tipping a stripper since you're actually paying her directly. Of course you tip a stripper when you go to her stage that's different then tipping for an actual lap dance backstage.all these other positions that I mentioned are probably making a tip wage of about $2.13 an hour it's a different ball game

, good comment twentyfive I did go to management about this and they stated that the girls are private contractors and can charge whatever they want for dance as long as they don't charge less than $20