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14 years ago
cmon people, you get to screw a girl and now ur mad she has a money manager? This is nothing compared to trafficking. Trafficking is much more sad a tale than this one. Assuming she does drugs is also stereotypical, dont assume, get your facts correct before you assume she is being trafficked and needs your help. And by the way, if she is being trafficked, then by all means, do the right thing.
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14 years ago
My goodness, so much misinformation here so let me clarify afew things.
There is no HIV risk from a handjob. All that talk about a cut here and a cut there and tehy come in contact and then you get it, do you know how many stars have to be alighned for that to happen? In that case, then maybe we can also claim shaking hands has a risk since all cuts do have a risk at that point. So the risk of getting HIV from a handjob is non-existent, even if the lady spits in her hand and gives you one. Too many stars have to be alligned.
Secondly, BBBJ risk of HIV is non-existent for the receiving partner(the man) and considered real fro teh giving partner(female) since precum and ejaculate contain a concentration of the virus so high that tehre is risk of catching it. So what do experts reccommend? Swallow or spit it. The mouth is a mucus membrane and the stomach has acid that neutralizes it. Furthermore, saliva has properties that make it less likely for HIV to survive. Now as mentioned earlier, other diseases have risks too, and are treatable, so not such a big deal.
And another thing, most strippers dont have STD's and practice far more safer sex than the average female, so go figure if your risk is greater with a stripper than with a girl you just met in a bar. All this talk from curious seems like a scare tactic. The fact that we are talking about this is probably achieving his objective. I just thought i would assure you all, that as said by my fellows before me, that yes, everything you do in life has a risk, but please, dont scare people in the hopes of making them have phobias for going into strip clubs, it is just as safe as your interactions with human beings out there in the church or in the mall, or at the supermarket. I could make an article about risks of shaking hands and make it sound scary too.
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14 years ago
What a story...i guess fiction is now reality for this guy...liar liar liar is what i would say...looks like a bad movie..
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14 years ago
I found a dancer who once cried about how hard it was to strip. i guess, i am one of the nice guyz out there and i understand that they are there to make some money, and i am there to spend it. And i do try to get to know the girl, coz i do care a little that i do not abet someones demise. If a dancer has a bad attitude about her job, then i will feel bad about her dancing however nice a dancer she is. Furthermore, good attitudes = nice dancer. So in short, the other side of stripping, involves nights of crying, making less money, figuring out who is babysitting tonight, which customer made me feel bad tonight. And at the end of the day, a dancer has to insulate herself from all the rejections and steel herself, so i forgive them for having an attitude sometimes.<br />
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happy times people. lets enjoy the show, but remember to treat the girl like she is a human, and dont pay to abuse them, pay to have some entertainment.<br type="_moz" />
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14 years ago
I agree...the champagne room issue is extremely bad advice so dancers, if you are reading this, i can tell you for sure it is the best way to ensure a non-repeat..let me do the math for you...u get $200-300 from him at that visit...meanwhile, he comes back for 4 visits and spends $100 on other girl..the math is simple...win $300 today, lose out on all his future visits, all because you led him to believe something and then blamed it on him for misunderstanding you. You do better saying what you do, than creating an impression that you do when you know you don't. Other things in here are ok, but seriously, its been said time and again, if you screw 1 customer out of his money, eventually that word goes around, and its a hard reputation to repair...for every 1 customer you screw up, you will need on average 7 you actually did not to vouch for you, and in life, SC goers are more likely to say when you are bad than when you are good...Happy dancing people...<br type="_moz" />