The other side of strip clubs

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ShotDisc
Florida
I spent a couple hours at Wacko's in Jacksonville FL this afternoon.&nbsp; Wacko's is a small, hole in the wall strip club that is in a strip shopping ctr just off I-95 near downtown JAX.&nbsp; It is technically a bikini bar, but the rules are fluid depending on the dancers.&nbsp; I have been here many times, and as I have stated in my reviews, the club is definitely hit or miss.&nbsp; It was very slow today, about 6-8 dancers and maybe 10 guys.&nbsp; As I sat at a table just off the runway type stage, I watched a procession of dancers in all shapes and sizes do their one dance set, then move on to the smaller stage at the end of the bar.&nbsp; From Ginger, a quirky beauty who was sexy as hell in an off the shoulder short dress, to Jocelyn, a heavy-set girl I have seen before who oozes confidence, to the requisite assortment of anorexic, flat-chested, tattoo covered dancers who filled out the afternoon shift.&nbsp; I tipped Ginger on stage a couple of times. She was flirty and sexy, flashed a nice set of boobs and had fun.&nbsp; I also tipped Amber, a busty 23 yr old who was a little more conservative, and Jocelyn.&nbsp; <br />
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Another dancer who caught my attention was a girl named Jazzy.&nbsp; She was young, oddly cute, with red hair, an average body at best, and a rather reserved dancing style.&nbsp; After I tipped her at the stage she came down and sat with me. We talked for over an hour.&nbsp; It was her first day at the club, and was bored.&nbsp; She had danced at a couple of the other JAX clubs.&nbsp; There was something about her.&nbsp; Come to find out she was 23, has two kids of her own under 3, and two step kids, also under three.&nbsp; She comes from a bad family background; her mom died when she was 4 and her dad died of a heroin overdose when she was 12.&nbsp; She basically raised herself with some help from one of her grandfathers.&nbsp; She moved to JAX about 6 months ago from Miami.&nbsp; She wants to stop dancing, but needs the money until she gets a call on one of the dozens of applications she has filled out for real jobs.&nbsp;&nbsp; The thing that struck me most was her attitude.&nbsp; She is determined&nbsp;to make a better life for&nbsp;herself and her kids.&nbsp; She is smart, both book and street.&nbsp; She seems to have&nbsp;what it takes to be successful if someone gives&nbsp;her a chance.&nbsp; She is willing to work hard.&nbsp; I felt&nbsp;bad when I had to tell her I didn't have enough money with me to have her dance for me.&nbsp; She took&nbsp;it in stride and stuck around for another 15 min before saying she needed to make some money.&nbsp; I understood.&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />
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I told&nbsp;you this to point out something.&nbsp; Before&nbsp;my&nbsp;discussion with Jazzy, a tall, thin, blonde &quot;Barbie&quot; dancer, who was dressed in a stupid costume and who wore sunglasses in the&nbsp;dark club, asked me&nbsp;if she could sit with me.&nbsp; Her whole&nbsp;aura had the &quot;my shit don't stink&quot;&nbsp;feeling.&nbsp; When I told her&nbsp;I preferred to sit alone, she&nbsp;looked at me like &quot;How dare you?&nbsp;&nbsp;Don't you know who I am?&quot;&nbsp;&nbsp;I was kind of happy I pissed her off.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The time I spent&nbsp;talking to Jazzy&nbsp;was better than anything this fake, primadonna could have ever given me.&nbsp; <br />
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Chess
14 years ago
I found a dancer who once cried about how hard it was to strip. i guess, i am one of the nice guyz out there and i understand that they are there to make some money, and i am there to spend it. And i do try to get to know the girl, coz&nbsp; i do care a little that i do not abet someones demise. If a dancer has a bad attitude about her job, then i will&nbsp; feel bad about her dancing however nice a dancer she is. Furthermore, good attitudes = nice dancer. So in short, the other side of stripping, involves nights of crying, making less money, figuring out who is babysitting tonight, which customer made me feel bad tonight. And at the end of the day, a dancer has to insulate herself from all the rejections and steel herself, so i forgive them for having an attitude sometimes.<br />
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happy times people. lets enjoy the show, but remember to treat the girl like she is a human, and dont pay to abuse them, pay to have some entertainment.<br type="_moz" />
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