Comments by jess_cowgirl84

All interesting comments...but personally, I use the Walmart version of KY "personal lubrication gel" since it's not only less expensive but sometimes can be found in a "sensitive skin" variety which (for those like myself that don't always have good reactions to the wide range of sugary products finds helpful).............. BUTT, for those extra-curricular activities...I swear by vaseline, because the other stuff seems to not be quite enough, and it seems to make things feel better after the discomfort goes away......lol, it sounds so much worse when I put it from speech into typed format. I only tell you this because I'm bored and sleep deprived! :D

Thank you for the support.........and I actually joined the site because I wanted to have some inside to what guys are thinking when they go to the clubs vs. how I'm thinking and if it was along the same lines or way off the mark........ I'd have to say that it's not exactly the same........I am looking more on the "how does it make me feel" level rather than what it does to me physically or what I can get done.......kind of a personal/experimental study that I'm conducting. NOT TO MENTION, I am BY FAR much cheaper when I go to a club........honestly I don't toss a dollar for free, because I have so little to spend, but I do reward those who are persistent or who get to me on a more personal level. BUT, I take a mere $20-$30 dollars with me on which I try to limit my drink spending (hoping to get some for free - which has happened both from patrons and from strippers) and spend the rest on the dancers!

Ok, I think I've got it......I am sure I won't be in need of using SOME of the terms, but at least I can read a thread and not feel like it's being censored with abreviations.....lol

Thank you much, I'll spend a few minutes studying up on those terms so I can start over-using them........ On a random note....I'm kinda feeling "blah" today, so anyone wanting to cheer me up with some interesting banter would be greatly appreciated, either here in the thread or on msn messenger.......*hint hint*

...nope, just not diggin' it...it's um, just not doing it for me. *shrug*

Well, I will be careful just HOW much skin I show...in general, but I may show some cleavage next...lol ANYWAY, to those who commented on me going to strip clubs...as long as I'm buzzed...I get a little crazy...I'm a bit more reserved when I'm not drinking, so I prefer to try to get some drinks before I start putting dollar bills between my breasts for strippers...HOWEVER, I have not been to a place where I got pussy put in my face, perhaps I'm not waving around enough cash for all that attention...lol Oh, and unless (before or after showing some skin on here) I am getting unabashed critisism or insults, I'm not easily scared off, and even then I won't go out without a fight...I like it here, not to be rude, but it's a little slow going on the posts sometimes but the conversation is a decent mix of intellect and hormones... :D AND, if you are around me enough, I LOVE talking about almost all things sexual...which comes as a big surprise to myself since it seems like just yesterday...*reminiscing*...when merely SAYING the word "SEX" made me blush uncontrollably! :P OH, and to anyone who's noticed my compulsion to using the ellipsis "..." or even more "dots" (I'm sure may get annoying to some)...THAT is just how I type, and I feel it best exemplifies my personality both in writing and in character. *cough* (as well as my nasty little posting habits of expressing an action in asterisks - I picked up on another forum which happened to be my first forum experience...blah blah blah) ...just in case you were wondering, which most likely you weren't...so, I'll stop now...for now. :P

I am on my laptop, so no one knows........*wink wink* I will be here off and on all night. Anyone who wants to chat and has msn messenger can get ahold of me using [email protected] please don't spam it up or send me forwards though!

Oddly enough, I've made more this year than probably any years past...but that could be because I needed it more and worked harder...however on a disappointing note, I am spending more as an outcome of my "sense of accomplishment"! *such backward ass thinking* :D

So...where else can we take this conversation in the wee hours of this early September morning...? OH, speaking of strippers...I think that before I'm 30...(giving myself some leeway) I want to be an amateur stripper. Currently I am going to get up the nerve to apply to be a waitress...however, as my photo does not show, I'm not a 34-28-34 (or whatever the fuck size is desireable). THEREFORE, I am forced to feel inadequate and so on and so forth *all those stupid female insecurities surface simultaneously* So, on that note, I have to actually do a bit of work...please post to your hearts content! :D

Well...the "lady in my dreams" isn't a specific person and her attributes change constantly, it's more of the "sense" that she's "one personality" rather than a reality. And I'd have to say I might be quite disgusted if I had a face full of breast milk when I wasn't expecting it (for that matter even if I was...)! BUT, that is perhaps because I was NOT breast fed as a baby...so it might be an aversion to breast milk that has me cringing at the thought of it squirting on my face (which, I AM SURE...to some me just typing that has your tighty whities in a bunch)...lol

Why whatever do you mean deogol...?!? :P I just got here, so don't blame me...yet!

lol...In all honesty while my hubby was off fishing with friends today I spent all day online watching porn and playing with myself...rough day huh!? :P BUT, playing alone isn't much fun when you want a sultry curvacious body to touch and kiss...*wink*

My husband actually suggested we get a hot tub or a sauna... I've been perusing sites for "swinger/couples/3-some" type places and it's almost as bad as the ratio of single women to single men...the "hunters" (couples seeking a third *usually female*) BY FAR outweigh the "prey" for lack of better terms...

Why...um thank you :D

I agree with the "genetics" as a fall back answer...I also think it's hormonal...(ie. time of the month, ovulation, sex drive tends to be when your testosterone/pheromones cause a different "musk" to your body)...I think it's also a diet issue. I myself have a HUGE FEAR of smelling odd or off but those closest to me (guys I trust to tell me the truth-in the past & my husband-currently) have told me that I am "tasteless/scentless" which I suppose is a hell of a lot better than being "smelly"... Either way as long as it's not a "rotting/infection" smell I think it's human/carnal nature to be somewhat turned on by mild body odors... IN A REALLY BIZARRE EXAMPLE...I remember actually missing my husbands armpit B.O. when we were separated, YES it sounds disgusting...but true none the less. It's a love-hate feeling I get when I smell it...both gross and yet oddly stimulating............GO FIGURE!!?? Well, if that wasn't overly personal...I don't know what is!?!

I have natural D's (approximately), at one time they were DD's...not sure why they "enhanced" themselves, but I liked it other than the fact that I am a perfectionist! And by far natural boobs are rarely "perfect" one is usually larger/smaller than the other one, slightly higher/lower than the other...which mine are. Nothing that is that noticeable by those who have seen them, BUT it's a constant issue in my mind. Yes, I have considered and am still considering getting some "adjustments" made to even them out and try to make them a little more "gravity resistant" if possible, but I don't want to do any drastic changes. I just fear gravity since they are naturally bigger, and it would be nice to have them just "firm enough" to go without a bra and not feel self-conscious. Anyway...if I had the money, I think I would consider some modifications to them...but as it stands my boobs are the least of my body obsessions, so I doubt that I'll be changing them any time soon!

lol, love the stories! My very first SC experience, as we walked in the door the dancer on the main stage was probably about 6 foot tall or so, platinum wavy blonde hair, and tits hanging way too low. She had a horse like face and absolutely no expression on her face. I WAS LIKE, "HELL NO?!" and almost turned around and walked out. I was embarrassed enough as it was but to have such an unattractive stripper upon entry was almost too much for me. The guys I was with assured me that it would get better, and reminded me that I was their designated driver and that I owed them at least an hour or two there since I promised to take them. The girls did get better, and my FAV was one that was dressed in all goth...too sexy!