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16 years ago
I have a personal policy not to steal from anyone because I believe in karma. I also believe in the value of a return customer and ones who get ripped off usually do not return. Yes a lot of dancers do steal from customers but the logic behind it isn't as complicated as what you think...they simply do because they can.
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16 years ago
This is what you posted on the other subject.
Let's take an example:
Is it ok for dancers to blatantly steal (pick pocket) from customers?
Believe it or not, some dancers think it is ok. Arguments:
a) customers should expect that sort of thing in a strip club and protect against it. If they don't they are so stupid they don't deserve their money.
b) customers are just losers anyway, who are going to waste it all on whores instead of their families. the pick pocket, at least, well use it to feed her screaming babies, and deadbeat boyfriend.
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16 years ago
I replied to this on the other thread cause it doesn't seem to go with the topic here
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16 years ago
Visiting more frequently means getting to know dancers better and get updates on their personal life, financial situation, etc...I have found this to have a negative effect on a persons social skills when they become weary of updates and a positive effect when they use this knowledge to relate to dancers better. In other words you end up with someone who is either difficult to interact with because they are tired of your story or easy to interact with because they know your story.
As far as an inverse correlation is concerned I do not think a persons social skills would decrease as the number of times they visit a club increases if thats what you are asking.
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16 years ago
Club regulars meaning the guy who sits at the end of the bar everyday or personal regulars like someone that comes in only to see me?
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16 years ago
*sigh* Just pointing out the absurdity of discussing morals on a freaking site about strip clubs...lol
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16 years ago
Well, I will say this, strippers discuss EVERYTHING in the dressing room so I know some things I don't really even WANT to know. I go to strip clubs off duty with friends and I usually end up protecting their credit cards so I can relate to the customer side a bit. As for being objective, I am not on a one woman crusade to make dancers appear God-fearing and innocent...just like everything else in life...it is what it is.
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16 years ago
Not really because that usually means he doesn't want anymore dances. LOL
As long as he keeps his bodily fluids to himself it doesn't bother me.
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16 years ago
Honestly, I ask my favorite waitress which guys have a tab open with a card that pre-approved for a grand or more and I go sit down and introduce myself...
Anytime there is some negotiation with a guy over money I tell them to keep it. Having a guy try to be cheap seriously turns me off to dancing for them so i would rather just sit there. However I have a day job...I can leave the club broke if I want to. I don't know how I would feel if I dancing paid my bills.
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16 years ago
I just wanted to add....looking over the posts on this subject....
Its amusing to read all this about morals and honesty [or lack thereof] in dancers ...
it sounds a bit....I don't know... hypocritical coming from men who are possibly married/involved and go to clubs, and top it off by coming to a site where they compare dirty deeds which are typed so frequently there is a glossary of abbreviations....
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16 years ago
Dancers don't have schedules you just walk in when you want to work...so she was just talking shit
I hate when you guys reward pushy ass dancers with dances because I am not aggressive at all.
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16 years ago
ok I had to post on this cause
1- I am a stripper
2- I am dating a guy I met in a club, who spent money on me and now only does so in the usual boyfriend way
3- It is possible for a stripper to be friends with a person they meet in a club
4- Most strippers just want someone they can hang out with that doesn't treat them like a stripper.
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16 years ago
Do you mean to tell me men really aren't "single" as they say they are?
or not going to take me to Cabo on their private jet?
or can't only put 1000 dollars on this credit card due to security settings?
lmfao. really guys...
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16 years ago
What are the clubs in Toronto like? I was very temped to cross the border when I was working in Rochester,NY but decided against it due to the variation of reviews.
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Alisa
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16 years ago
I have always had this idea in my head of New Orleans being a seedy place to dance....I'm headed to Dallas...or Shreveport or Las Vegas...I don't need the headache of political drama or citations even though I am a licensed dancer (for what I don't know) It's almost like paying a yearly fee for a drivers license and the use of motor vehicles being restricted....not to mention the 5 dollar "pole tax" at the door ...it seems like Houston officials are letting political agenda destroy logical revenue for the city.
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16 years ago
Wow. I find striking similarities between this post and bad porn...I'm not sure what to make of what I see but continue to look anyways.
I have a few observations to offer...apply them however you please.
(1) Dancer #1 is cute and popular. Dancers are very jealous creatures at times and most vent on a bad night by "hating" on others. Take your "trusted dancer"[[oxymoron if you ask me]] and her comments with a grain of salt.
(2) Dancer # 1 is a drinker...a drunk stripper is a happy stripper I always say.
(3) Dancer # 3 leaves the club with you for what I would charge for 4-5 dances. You get what you pay for and also how many men would she have to be with per week to make a living? It's...nauseating.
(4) You should spend time with whoever you have the most fun with and by fun I mean laughing talking and sexual chemistry.
(5) It isn't exactly clear to me by reading your post if you are looking for a relationship with these ladies or just a physical encounter but I will say this...Do not date dancers.
[Be informed that I say this not only because it only creates drama for you...but also to protect dancers from men such as yourself who would actually consider this scenario a internet-worthy issue. No offense.]
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