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15 years ago
"The important question is what gift did you give that got you the best mileage in return?"
I wasn't thinking of mileage. My motivation was confelcity--pleasure in other's happiness--and I'd say on that measure as well as mileage it was the coconut bra. She wanted the grass skirt as well, but I explained for a low income person, like myself, it was a little expensive. She quickly offered to give me the money upfront and I explained maybe I could pay for it, and save the money by getting free lap dances. That made her very happy and it made me very happy. :)
Suduko puzzle books after teaching her how to solve 'em was probably next in line as far as long term results----created a common interest equaling more mileage. Rare fruits really depended on the dancer---some went crazy and others thought I was crazy. Best fruit? Rambutan----very rare and yet ships excellent from Hawaii most of the time.
Anyway, I think the candyman aka shadowcat probably got it down pat with his chocolates.
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16 years ago
Shadowcat says he weighs 150 lbs. Sorry, I have no interest in women that are equal to or heavier than a normal man. You like 'em big as 300 or 3000 lbs that is fine and dandy, but do you need a stripclub?
Yes, I realize you are writing about 150 lb women---but, even those women aren't in short supply. Walmart will meet all your desires. Now for those that like hot women; well, that is where the stripclub comes into the picture. Yes, they're more expensive than Walmart. That's is why some hefty government subsidies would be just.
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15 years ago
"what about a three-some with sleazy boyfriend and druggie stripper? It could be a real turn-on. Downside????"
He'd want you to be his bottom---of course, some men want to be the bottom.
I'm too homophobic (as far as men are concerned only) for a three-some i.e. 2 guys 1 girl. However, I did try and get a stripper buddy interested in a three-some with a local TS aka shemale, but she thought that was disgusting. 2 girls 1 guy and it's let's party! 2 guys and 1 girl and it's let's party! 1 guy and 1 girl and 1 shemale and it's that's disgusting! LOL! She didn't want to even check out the shemales stating that she knows what they look like, but needs either females or males and not something in between----that that's disgusting! I think that I'm way too wimpy and homophobic (where guys are concerned only) to go shemale on my own. :(
My dream? One of those tiny lesbians that dress up like a boy with boxers near their waist---too cute. :) So how in the world do I get one of those tiny boxer wearing lesbians???-----they seem so rare (don't look like they'd care for men, money or not) and I've had my eyes focused.
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15 years ago
"jablake: now YOU are my hero."
Not so fast! :) Are ghetto girls ok with you? If so, then speed along at warp if possible.
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15 years ago
Correction:
confelicity--pleasure in other's happiness
discussion comment
16 years ago
"How can anyone even bother with this?"
Well, there is fashion. If the fashion is fake tits, then low and behold depending on the culture the entire female population will be sporting fake tits. It is depressing for me to see a beautiful woman disfigure herself for fashion.
So, blubber butt lovers should speak up if they desire blimps. Who knows if enough blubber butt lovers speak up perhaps fashion models will need to weight a minimum of 300 pounds.
However, over at The Trap I was fairly certain that I knew what the old white men liked. You see the right look and that dancer was going to be busy making $$$. There are some standards depending on the group. I have a rough idea what the Haitian barbers wants. BIGGEST!!!!!!!! My Haitian barber was very much the odd man out in that he liked small in shape without the so called "curves." Seems like when a man or woman speak of "curves" it means bowling ball. Another word that has been twisted into meaning fatter than a barn is voluptuous. :(
Let me have RIBS! :) OK, maybe not ribs. If the the choice is ribs or blubber, then ribs win by a landslide.
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16 years ago
My girlfriend was 5'4 and 100 pounds. Surprisingly, she wasn't skinny and was in good health. Some women are big boned. Even if they're the proper healthy weight they're going to be heavy compared to some norm.
When I think of 100 pounds and 5'4, it just seems like that means skinny--it doesn't. I don't how the hell she could look so good and be only a 100 pounds. A friend is her size and when she started to starve herself (horrible divorce) and got near a 105 pounds you could see bones (horrible looking). She said she wasn't starving herself, but the court proceedings were so upsetting she just didn't feel like eating. After I told her that she looked like shit, she surprisingly got back to a healthy weight (she thought I was cruel).
One thing I really appreciate about stripclubs is they abolish the notion there is one perfect look. Yes, different racial or ethnic groups may agree strongly on an ideal, but different men have different tastes. My barber's girlfriend is to die for. She is that stunning. And, yet among his fellow Haitian barber's she is considered a dog as far as looks. The Haitian barber doesn't like their ideal of big women. These big women that they consider hot are so unattractive to me that I would pay them to stay dressed. Back to the Haitian barber's girlfriend, she has medium large natural breasts that defy gravity and a wonderfully shapely butt that also defies gravity. No blubber at all and yet somehow she has these fantastic curves. Even at my age, my heart started pounding.
Her weight? I couldn't guess, but I'm sure it was much heavier than my girlfriend.
discussion comment
16 years ago
"hopefully never"
Best answer.
discussion comment
16 years ago
I can't imagine any man finding that there is a shortage of women with "curves" in America. They must be searching for 500 pounders and even those are somewhat abundant.
And, the beautiful thing about loving these giants is that they should be fairly receptive. Wear a sign at Walmart proclaiming your love of fatties and you may very well be trampled by women eager to love you. If that doesn't work, then try the old chocolate bar lure. True, you might lose a few fingers, but a small price to pay for love.
I'm so sick of fatties (please remember, I'm fat) that the skeletons even look appealing.
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16 years ago
Hi dallas702,
A knee replacement sounds extremely painful. I've talked with the family doctor and also with 3 specialists (for the foot). The knees are related to the way I walk; seems strange cause I don't walk much at all. Bottom line there was NO help. A lady friend of mine has bad feet and bad knees and probably will end up under the knife. I'll see how that ends.
My confidence in American medicine is fairly low---I assume it is better than some other countries. I watched a very old buddy die and extremely painful death because the doctor was afraid of the DEA. If I was the doctor, then I'd probably also have been much more concerned about the government taking my license than with the patient. For many many many years I've suffered a horrible cold allergy. After too many doctors and too many medications, I finally stumbled across Drixoral which for me was a miracle drug. And, I could buy it over the counter. Well the government is a menace and sure enough this once easily available cold and allergy medicine isn't available: I was reading I think it was the Christian Science Monitor what a wonderful victory this was for the government. Yes, sooooooooo wonderful----might as get rid of all medicines as far as I'm concerned and then maybe just maybe the anti-drug fanatics would grow a brain. Heck, I think I'd just settle for them telling the truth 50% of the time.
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16 years ago
When I was able to walk without pain
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16 years ago
"Sorry, Americans ARE obese."
100% agreed. I'm one of those obese Americans, I'm unproud to say. My excuse is a bad foot, bad knees, bad back, etc. When I was able to walk, I was somewhat trim. Not skinny. But, a lot more muscle than fat.
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16 years ago
"Fuck the American media"
Hi TUSCL_Brother,
I don't like the American media either, but because it is too pro-America. Perhaps the media if they'd followed The Wall Street Journal's lead and reported on the sleaze of Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac years earlier, then perhaps just perhaps the mortgage mess could been prevented. I was watching it and thought well maybe these guys know what they're doing, but it sure in hell looked criminal and unsustainable.
Perhaps if the media was a little more honest about the government's wars, then there would be a lot fewer deaths of both Americans and non-Americans. Oh well, I assume most Americans probably agree with you.
Now one area where I believe that I'm in the majority is revulsion towards "curvy" dancers---well, actually the normally healthy male will screw anything with a hole. At least they claim to be revolted by blubber butts. As our long lost David would say if need blubber go to Walmart---one of America's few great treasures.
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15 years ago
BTW, for those of you interested in shemales---apparently not founder---Trixies (between Ft. Lauderdale and Miami) is supposed to be a good place to go. I haven't got the balls as of date. Maybe I could wear a good disguise? :)
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16 years ago
"When strip clubs are not full of people selling meth & coke."
Dang, if that is the case, then in my area the people selling meth & coke, need to get off their butts and get to work. Gridget's numbers are ideal.
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16 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
Oh as some other poster said NUMBERS!!! I'm short, fat, poor and should have batted zero. Instead because I'll approach women out of my league and have contempt for rejection, I bat just a teeny tiny tot over zero. :)
There is an old saying that is very true. You gotta dig a lot o dirt usually before you hit gold. Yep, I'm aware there were a lot of gold miners that died broke. Moral? They didn't dig enough dirt or shoulda got in a different line of work. :)
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16 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
Make buddies with men who've been raped in the Divorce Court. That should cure your desire to get a girlfriend.
Watch "lady's men" and if you wouldn't mind being more like them ask yourself what they're doing right and if you can be a little more like that.
Two men that I knew had women beating down their doors for sex based on references. One man was tall and ruggedly good looking and dumb. When it came to sex, he was like a machine that wouldn't stop. Some of his women would gush unashamedly that he was the best they'd ever had. A hooker at Take One Lounge not only serviced him for free (to teach him a lesson about being a gentleman), but was so thrilled by him that she said that she was willing to pay him! The other man was short, fat, very ugly, and intelligent. He was also a machine that wouldn't stop. The women were crazy over his power. Hey, this is pre-Vigara so maybe the hard strong long lasting dick can't reel 'em like in the old days. . . . . . . Well, the dancers at Angels will kill for good tongue and the word spreads fast among these women if you're any good.
Another ugly man had the women eating out of his hand due to his quick wit and beautiful smile.
Bottom line hang out at Divorce Court and then appreciate the strippers and hookers as one of the best deals ever.
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16 years ago
Depends on the position of authority and on the young woman and the stage of my life. As an old man, I'm just interested in pay for play without further complications. As a young man, the culture that I was raised in demanded that the women show resistance to show she was valuable. My girlfriend loved to say NO and she expected the man to be very rough with her. If she was going to work in a SC, then she'd disappointed if the owner wasn't pressuring or demanding sex from her. The more aggressive he became up to a point---the happier she'd be---it proved her high value. I've met other women like her and actually, I'd rather not play the role even when or if they melt in my hands. You know what? When she actually meant NO it was very easy to read and proceeding after that point wasn't enjoyable in the least. Contrary to popular opinion there should be a humongous difference between a NO where you are expected to be a he-man and a NO that says scram!
In short, the answer is yes it is OK especially if I'm running a SC where the women are supposed to be super sluts. However, just because I think it is OK doesn't mean that I'd pursue it. Yes, it can be a fun game (for both parties), but I'd rather not get involved like that. Too much drama when there are women that can do a good job for a reasonable price. Having said that there are plenty of men and women that enjoy that game and they should be free to negotiate and play away.
My old boss hired a secretary with the understanding that not only would she fuck him for the job, but she'd service him weekly. No fuckie no job! Was the woman crying her eyes out? Hardly. She was super slut and proud of it. Her complaint with the boss is he didn't get hard enough and got tired too easy. She preferred fucking him over her other wage slave duties. What about other women who refused his offer of fucking to work? Should I cry a river for 'em? If it isn't a free market, then yes perhaps I should cry a river or demand more government dictates. However, in that office at least the other employees (mainly men) preferred women who were slutty. In a non-work environment non-slutty would have been OK. But, you work your ass off all day long in close proximity and the last thing you want to deal with is some feminist prude or religious prude. Don't like sex, then get a different employer that loves prudes and that BS!
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16 years ago
Dang, I hate being wrong. But, thanks for the correction.
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16 years ago
I think it is Play 4 Pay. A truly wise and honorable proposition.
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16 years ago
"all the while she contends how well she is treated there and how good it is there."
Sounds like she has it pretty damn good so unless there is some inside information to the story I would say she recognizes 1) She is very well treated and 2) How good the situation is. The stripclub owner sounds like a prince for her. He delivers dick and cash. What more could a young hooker desire? OK, that ain't the desire of every young hooker but she sounds like a happy camper.
The light of day probably really hit her when she realized how horrible most wage slaves have it. Perhaps I know and knew the wrong hookers, but most looked at men as being completely brain dead for giving both dick and money. Like one young hooker said to me (I was young at the time and knew how to treat a woman; no equal rights nonsense.) why in the world are you paying me? She explained further that if I'm treating her right, then why should I pay? She didn't understand, but I pay to avoid a real relationship where I'd pretty much be responsible for not only protecting and providing for her, but also I'd need to defend my honor----an extremely risky proposition in country with so little freedom. Anyway, she gave me an ultimatum as is normal: It's free or hit the curb. I can't imagine a thinking man not hitting the curb. There are other hoes to be found and cherished, who wont start up with garbage demands like they're part of some feminist militia or government lovers.
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16 years ago
he wouldn't allow her to work *at his club.*
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16 years ago
I can only laugh when you speak of her being threatened and intimidated. Look she is an adult. I expect an adult to be able to freely enter into contracts. She could refuse his "threat"---sounded more like an offer of you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours---that he wouldn't allow her to work. Intimidated? Sounds what many wage slaves face and the solution in a free market is look for another job or start your own business.
Now, if you wish to argue that it isn't a free market, then I'd be a lot more sympathetic. But, even then she went back to alleged threats and intimidation so it sounds like no problem at all. In fact, I see busy buddies who wish to restrict the right to contract thru force of government as the real serious problem.
I'm passionate about my beliefs because I detest when the government creates a prison state and almost as sickening is its one size fits all mentality. Here locally johns under true coercion from the government had to admit that they didn't want sex or love or warmth from a prostitute, but only wished to abuse her. It was sexual violence. It was one government stupidity after another and the government has the hammer to force you to admit to any idiotic "truth" they spew at the moment. So, john after john admitted whatever was demanded by the government---the truth being tossed into the garbage thanks to a blood thirsty corrupt government.
This is a free country? LOL!
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16 years ago
Hi Book Guy,
It is nothing but a power play by her, imo. She is a hooker. Her job is to sell sex to customers who have the money. However, again and again in my experience a hooker will refuse to sell if she really likes you a lot. That is just a hard rule that many of them have (not all, but it seems like it).
With this hooker, I don't believe the deal was that she liked me because ITC everything was fine. She wanted to dominate by getting me to agree to something that I avoid like a dreaded disease. See, if I'm not paying a woman, then I feel responsible for protecting and providing for her. I can't stand the phony gender equality.
So, send me any hot babe or hottest babe who wishes to have sex with me for free and the answer is an easy HELL NO! I need to pay her at least $5 for full service and $2 for a blow job. If she ain't interested in money, then I've got zero use for her. It really is that simple.
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16 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
Well, I agree 100% with your assessment. It'd nice if other dancers were as creative, but at the clubs that I go to it would like throwing pearls before swine (myself included).