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20 years ago
This is an interesting discussion. I am a "newbie" to strip clubs. At the age of 34, I just walked into a club for the first time about 8 months ago...so I am green. While I know it is obviously just about the money and the dancers are not interested in relationships, it is quite difficult not to get attached to a girl that gives you an awesome experience. I am married and would not want anything personal with these girls anyway, but being recognized and treated like a favorite customer would certainly boost my ego and open my wallet!
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20 years ago
The reason that I am intrigued by the clubs is simple...fun. Where else are you going to have a few beers and beautiful young women dry hump you, with no trouble or strings attached? It really is a nice arrangement. I know the dancers are just making money, and they know I am married...neither cares! The only danger that I see so far is spending too much money. It reminds me of gambling...could be very addictive. That is my only big concern.
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20 years ago
Mouse...I'm not really sure why my behavior confuses you, especially if you go to SCs yourself. I know what you mean about meeting women in regular clubs for next to nothing...but that is exactly what I DON'T want. I don't want to have a real affair with another woman. I just want to blow off steam and walk out not having to worry about a woman putting me in a pinch with the wife. Know what I mean? Would I actually fuck one of these gorgeous dancers if I had the opportunity? 'Prolly could not resist...but it is not likely to ever happen. That is what seems safe about the SCs to me. I don't see myself getting into any real trouble...except maybe financial!
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20 years ago
Guys, please tell me what you think of this.My experience last week in a SC goes right along the lines of this discussion. The name of club and dancer I will not mention. I recieved several high mileage dances from this amazing dancer (not a sleaze club by the way...kind of upscale). By high mileage I mean excellent grind and hands on both ways...no "extras". Throughout the dances there was a lot of dirty talk and flirting. She seemed to be enjoying herself too and sharing a lot of my sentiments. I assumed of course that she was just humoring me and working hard for the money. Then after an amazing time, the closing lights came on (I certainly lost track of time). As we are getting up to leave, she proceeds to ask me if she can get my phone number! It has been a week and she has not called (which I didn't really expect that she would). My question for you guys is this...especially since I am still very green with SCs. Is this something that occurs often and is likely meaningless? Or should I be led to believe that she is atleast partially serious? I am planning on going back to the same club tomorrow night...not even sure if she will be working. What are your thoughts on this? I will appreciate your input on the matter.
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20 years ago
Oh yeah, I guess it is important to mention that there was no discussion of any type of prostitution...I was simply expressing to her how amazing I thought she was, and how much I would love to eat her like a piece of cake. She seemed to like it.
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20 years ago
Jpac...I agree with you. I have been trying to do that very thing in my last couple of visits, and I have learned a thing or two already...good post.
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19 years ago
Wow...I'm sorry to hear that you guys are running across so many young hotties with bad attitudes! My experience has been different thankfully. I definately prefer young hot dancers with great attitudes :) ...middle to late twenties seem to be the best to me, but I have come across some amazing dancers that told me they were 19 to 21...sweet!!
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19 years ago
That was a very good and accurate description from jctone. I have experienced a lot of the "two way - full contact" dances at every club I have been in, atleast "one way - full contact" every time. That is why I always look forward to going nto a strip club and always stay too long and spend too much money :) I have not been fortunate enough yet to have dancers allow me to finger them...that would be very nice!! I tried once and was politely and playfully corrected by the dancer. I have never tried since because I am not looking to piss off a dancer. Is it common for many of the dancers to allow this, and if so, what is the best and most tactful way you guys have gone about finding that out? Do you just flat out ask them?
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19 years ago
Thanks jctone...one of the reasons I checked out this discussion board is to hopefully learn a few things from some of you more seasoned strip club vets. I am still kind of green when it comes to the clubs, but I plan on visiting a lot in the future...I loves me some strippers! :)
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19 years ago
This is a fascinating subject. I just experienced a strip club for the first time about a year and a half ago...I have been about 7 or 8 times since, and I have to admit that every time I go I am thinking to myself "what would it take to hook up with and screw one of these girls outside the club?" I know it is a slim chance but I do know guys who have achieved that very thing. If given the chance, I prolly would!
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19 years ago
I live in the Detroit area and finding the two-way full-contact dances seem to be standard around here. I have never been propositioned for "extras" or anything, but the lap dances are excellent.
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19 years ago
Interesting conversation here...I like to here all the different viewpoints that people have. The one thing that drives me crazy though whenever there is a debate about moral and ethical issues, is that christians are usually generalized as "right wing" or "religious fanatics". I am a true believer in Jesus Christ, but I definately do not fit into the Jerry Fallwell group. If you are not a christian or have never tried walking that walk, then I'm sure it is easy to simply dismiss them as ignorant morons, but that doesn't show much intelligence in doing so. There are millions of christians who have varying opinions and worldviews that cannot simply be put into one box and labeled. I love Jesus AND strip clubs...what is so hard to understand about that? I'm sure I'm not the only one on this board who feels that way :)
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19 years ago
Judas, what exactly are the brothels and what do they do there? Just curious...didn't know those were legal anywhere.