Music to screw by

How about "Ravels' Bolero"? (ala "10")

Use 'Bolero' for a 20 minute session. If you are man enough to keep her going for 45 minutes try Rimsky-Korsakoff's 'Scheherazade'.

Excellent suggestions. Thank you.

Probably not neccessary to say, but no rap, hip hop or club music.
"Sketches of Spain" Miles Davis, if you like soft jazz.

I nominate these as modern Foreplay & Slow Fuck Classics:
Angelo Badalamenti - 'Twin Peaks' Soundtrack
Air - 'Moon Safari'
Tosca - 'Suzuki'
Luomo - 'Vocal City'
Massive Attack - 'Mezzanine'
Nightmares on Wax - 'Carboot Soul'
Boards of Canada - 'Campfire Headphase'
D'Angelo - 'Voodoo'

Most of the above are ambient dub or R&B based. Some slow, trippy rock can work nicely, too:
Elysian Fields - 'Bleed Your Cedar'
Mazzy Star - 'So Tonight That I Might See'
Cowboy Junkies Trinity Sessions
Spiritualized
Slowdive
Low
Bedhead
Macha

You might try some instrumental hip hop albums like the versions Dr. Dre or Wu Tang's RZA have released with all the raps (which would be pretty distracting) left out.

Also, check out the Kompakt label's annual 'Pop Ambient' compilation series, esp. 2002/03/06 & 07

About 18 years ago, it seemed like every girl I met kept a CD of Enigma or Dead Can Dance at home just to throw on for fucking. It made me realize how much better I like sex with no music. (Especially Enigma, which has dated horribly - Dead Can Dance is still cool.) I guess strip clubs have also made me appreciate silence all the more. Much as I love music, I'd rather hear her sighs and noises without a soundtrack.

Go to www.mindcontrolling.com to buy some CDs.

Bolero's an obvious fave, and no doubt.

But I am surprised no one has suggested any Barry White yet. C'mon, Baby...

I don't typically have music playing, but my new gal may make me change that...she's the loudest I've ever encountered. I mean, she'd make Kim Cattrall's character from "Porky's" blush! I had to ask her later if she were faking, or if she were in some pain; nope--just feelin' good, and had to let it out...

In college a had the girlfriend that lived near the "crazy/hot" bell curve and she believed that the actual act of screwing should only last 7 minutes. Foreplay, cuddling, oral, etc., could exceed at either end of the clock, but I could only be in the saddle for seven minutes. She also loved Ted Nugent. Therefore, she would only screw to "Stranglehold." Because it was just over 7 minutes long, I had time to set the stereo, jump into bed, jump her bones, and I had to be done right at the end. She was nutty, but the violent, misogynistic lyrics made the whole thing pretty kinky.

A while back. I burned a CD that I entitled music to fuck by. Same difference. The 18 songs were all love songs done by famous FEMALE artists. Whenever I travel, I always take it and my portable CD player with me. I do have 20 or so songs by Barry White but I prefer female singers (a dancer explained that I feel them singing to me). I also have 3 versions of Bolero. I saw Bo in a movie the other night. She has really aged. Is Mr. Derek still alive?

S-Cat, Bo still alive, John Derek died in '98 (didn't know if you were kidding or serious).