The thing that got me thinking about this is a vacation relief receptionist/agent who sometimes works at my company. At one time she was a dancer at an upscale joint (she's cute and has a HUGE chest). She married a rich guy (high nine figures per year) about seven years ago. They appear to have a good thing going on. Is she the very rare exception ? Is it possible to find a rare gem that won't self destruct, or who is just plotting on that "community property" provision?
Let me take it to another level. Suppose you find one who is good company. Could you sign her as a contract companion (you pay her X amount for two evenings a week and two weekends a month)? Renew the contract every year or two.
I'm looking for serious thoughts on this matter, not "all strippers are bitches" and "I hate the government".
OK, I hate the government. :) Seriously, you want a real contract? Sorry, by real I mean you want it enforceable in court? You plan on paying taxes on the money you give her? Or, you expect her to pay all manner of taxes?
Anyway, doesn't seem like a serious question because it is "evidence" that the government can use to rip your ass off big time. Of course, if you love and trust the government, then yes the contract seems like a good approach that should allow both parties to hopefully understand better what each expects from the other. In fact, with partners generally I think it is a good idea to sit down and write out an agreement in plain English attempting to cover different situations and expectations.