Do Strippers Hate Men?

Some do, some don’t, probably.

If you’re a stripper who hates men, you hate your job. If you hate your job, you hate your life and you’re a miserable person.

I know I hate strippers who hate men.

@Studme53

It very much comes off as counterintuitive.

The dancers who are really good at the job, it would be the opposite, a woman who loves the company of men, loves the attention, loves getting a man's dick hard.

I've found that the dancers who are really good at their job tend to be extroverted exhibitionists.

Most strippers probably feel about their customers the same way people in any other job feel about their customers. I do not hate my customers except for an occasional one who makes unreasonable demands. I appreciate the others because the money I make enables me to pay my bills

It depends on the stripper and why she got into it. I think most lesbian strippers would hate dancing for men and probably hate them too. Also if they're actually a whore that also strips as a cover, then likely they hate men too.

Really I don’t give af. It’s strictly a transaction for me. The only thing I care about is if they gave me value for my money. I don’t care if they hate, like or are ambivalent. I know some of you like sitting there talking to them. I really don’t want to talk to them. It’s tedious.

I remember a Reese Witherspoon look a like at Follies that told me "All men are ass holes". Fortunately she moved to Texas.

People who work in sales/marketing do tend to have a level of contempt for their customers. They hide it reasonably well. I've met a few that seemed hateful. But how would I know if they hate just me, fat guys, all guys, or all people? With my favs, if they hate me, they hide it well. So it's all good.

I follow a local one on Instagram that seems to be proud of the fact that she hates men. She even has a tattoo saying something similar. Plus she gave the worst dances in the club believe it or not. One and done for me.

One of the long time dancers at Desires and I were having a drink. Knew her well so as she relaxed and let her guard down. She looked around the club and murmured "I hate all my customers". I said, "I hate my clients too" and we laughed. Then she said present company excepted and we laughed again. Been since before the pandemic that I did dances with her because of it.

I'm sure some do, but most are at least hard-wired to please. The ones that spend extra time with you for no particular reason or hang with you instead of a big-spender probably actually like you.

I have over 100 customers. There’s probably 10 I hate, and of those 10 I have to deal with probably 5 of them on a regular basis (meaning almost daily). These are the people that call me on Christmas Day. The people that call me while I’m on vacation even though I set up an entire plan for them while I was going to be away. I feel like they’re bugging me just to be an asshole because they can. They are too big of a customer for me to tell them to F off and that’s why I put up with it. I usually just take a deep breath and remind myself - the business I generate through this asshole is why I’m on vacation so I just need to keep calm and deal with it.

Having to deal with issues with 2 or 3 of these guys in a day makes my day miserable and I hate my job on that day. No matter all the other positives that happened throughout the day. These customers are completely unrealistic and excessively demanding.

It can be the same situation with strippers. I’ll never forget one time I was in VIP making out hot and heavy with a stripper who I really clicked with and had also known from previous visits. In the middle of the VIP a bouncer stormed in and physically removed the dancer because her regular customer was there to see her. There was no mention about money, as she was rushing to gather her things I stuffed money in her purse.

When I exited VIP a few minutes later this stripper was getting screamed at by her customer, making a big scene in the club, you could not miss it. I’m assuming it was because she was not waiting for him or because she was in VIP with another customer (me). Felt so bad for her, the guy looked like a skinny version of Mark Davis (Raiders owner) because they had a similar haircut. This was a “high end” club so to speak so I’m sure he was dropping major money on a regular basis and felt entitled. Examples like this are just one of the reasons strippers may hate all men. The good customers get lumped in with the bad. I am guilty of that too at my job.

Side note this happened right before COVID that club had gone downhill significantly after COVID and the few times that I had been in since I have never seen that stripper again.

They hate men that make their job more difficult, that is a given

But what I have seen is the really hate men that spend money on other girls that they assumed was for them.

Or, if you go and fuck their cousin or something

Shit happens

There was a girl I always bought drinks and tipped well. She would sit and talk to me a lot between her sets and occasionally would see someone come in the club and would say ’I hate that asshole!’ She would finish her drink with me and then go over to them. One time when I stayed for a while she came back after he left. She had done a VIP with him and said she made $500. She repeated what she said earlier and I said but you like his money. At that we both laughed.

I completely understand hating assholes. That’s different than “hating men.”

I remember years ago on "Undercover Boss" a fast food worker said he hated all his customers and did a rant while being videoed. Unbelievable. It's like people who post crazy stuff on the Internet/social media and somehow don't realize it lives forever out there, and will bite them in the ass some day when they least suspect it.

I've had to work with people I just didn't care for at all, wouldn't say I hated them, they were just asses. The majority of those I've worked with have been very good. A few I call priceless that I would work with anytime, anyplace under any condition and they knew they could call me 24x7 if needed, and I knew if they called they were in deep rotting kimchi.

Weeelll, if the dancer s/n is "Miss Andrist", she just might hate all men.

I guess the bigger question for me is: Why would I care either way?

If a girl hates men, yet is a good enough actress that she can still entertain me in whatever format and venue we find ourselves in, then by all means hate away. I'll try to be decent enough not to make it worse for her, but no guarantees.

Read the stripper forums and learn that they generally aren’t too fond of us and that we are a means to an end.

Some do, some don't. Some hate some customers, but not others, but just because they don't hate you doesn't mean they like you

Who cares ? I don’t especially when I have my meat stuffing their holes.

"I'll try to be decent enough not to make it worse for her, but no guarantees."

This sounds about right. Once I've attempted to be a decent person the rest of it is out of my hands.

I think the owners of the strip clubs are just as likely to hate their customers as the strippers, e.g. license scans, parking fees, handing over car keys, cutting dances short, outrageous prices, Neanderthal bouncers, etc.

I can't help but notice none of the dancer members have chimed in.

If the strippers that have showed up on this board are representative of the general demographic we see: Nicespice- seems to have tolerated us long-term and is probably occasionally amused by us. The vast majority of dancer members get bored and/or annoyed by us in a relatively short amount of time and are never seen again. Blahblahblah23-pretty much wants to stab all of us in the chest.

So I'm speculating that 10% of dancers like their customer to some degree, 80% it's just a job and they could care less, and 10% would take you out if they thought they could get away with it.

I like the strippers that genuinely like being with me and there are a few, but some of them are just going through the motions just for the money. I don’t hate any of them.

It's an example of how many physically adult people still think like children. They think they're victims, whenever they can't easily get what they want.

@shadowcat I still miss that girl that moved to Texas. I was one of her favorite assholes.

Great. Now I'm starting to picture a club full of beautiful women, but all of them, to some degree, have the personality of Al Bundy, especially there at the shoe store.