Best age to go to strip clubs?

I started at 16.
Take a break. Come back in a few months

I definitely had better vibes going with the dancers when I was closer to their age. It wasn't too bad into my 50s, before my hair started going white and I got even more bald. It makes their job easier if they can pretend a little bit too, that they are just flirting with a guy.

Dancer still pay attention to me now, but it is more mercenary. Part of the trouble is in my own head. In that video that was posted about the women in TJ, the one entertainer talked about having to be with a man that was "way, way, way old, like in his 50s". So that is how they think of us.

I often wish I had the body and sex drive I had when I started going to strip clubs at 25, but with the wisdom and money I have now 4 decades later! However, if that wish had come true, I likely wouldn’t have any money now!

Better late than never.

No better time than the present!

I do think when you are 20s-30s you can live in the fantasy a bit more as it's plausible a women of similar age likes you and is flirting with you. However, you probably don't have as much disposable income like you do later in life.

Once you are 40s and unfit or 50+ and 20+ year age gap from the dancer, you know they are just doing this for money and aren't actually flirting... But by then you will have more money than you did 20 years before, so it should be more fun as your buying power increases.

I started at 17, and I'm about to be eligible for Social Security, so somewhere in that range is the "right" age.

I went to TJ in 1961, the summer I graduated high school. See my article. After that I didn't do much. I was getting enough civilian pussy. Then I got married, got 2 kids and got broke. After 27 years of that I got divorced and have been hitting the clubs ever since. Just turned 84 and have a lot of medical disabilities but am still healthy enough for Viagra and strip clubs. It is one of the few past time that I am still able to do.

The best age to do it is the age you are right now. A slightly better answer is the age when you can do it in a way that your finances survive intact.

I went to my first club in AZ at 18 when the drinking age was 19. I'm in my 60's and still enjoy . I actually seem to connect with dancers better now than when I was younger.

I did take a bit of a break and went with Escorts more in my late 30's but never gave up strip clubs altogether.

I don’t know the answer but old enough where strippers don’t think you’re broke when you walk in and young enough where they could still be attracted to you.

I’ve always felt most strippers think you’re broke unless you have some gray hair and they only think you’re attractive in you’re under the age of 30.

The argument of being young so strippers might have a chance of liking you is silly to me even as a fantasy. If girls are not attracted to you outside the club they definitely aren't inside the club. I would say being young in the club is fun when you go with your friends and it is more about having a good time with them. Otherwise all things considered equal I think being older is better in the club. The dancers beleive you have more money when you are older so that alone makes them pay more attention and if you do have more to spend even better for your enjoyment.

^ valid point. Up until my 40s I had several OTC encounters that didn’t cost me a thing, other than what I spent inside the club. Once I got some pepper in my hair those chance encounters ceased to exist.

Sometimes I think pay to play is so much easier. Everyone knows up front what to expect and it usually is simple. Simple because I’ve learned what questions need to be asked before the meeting takes place.

I dance to meet older men. From this dancers view all ages are good but the older the better.

Any age when you have the discretionary income and personal freedom.

I'm 68 and have been going 50+ years. When I get tired of it I will stop but yesterday at Desires was fantastic.

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I never went to strip clubs until after I was married. When I was young and single there was enough civilian pussy to keep me occupied. But civilian pussy comes with strings attached, like someone calling you back and wanting to have a relationship - things that are just too complicated to manage when you’re married. Strip clubs provided me with the ability to have a 2 hour affair with a hot stripper and leave it all at the club, with no strings attached.

For most men on an average life course, mid 30s through 40s are the years. In those years:

• If you've kept yourself in shape, you still look good enough, especially to a 20-something with daddy issues

• By then you have had enough time to build a decent amount of wealthy with a decent amount of discretionary money

• You're old enough that, after a bad experience or two, you'll learn how not to be manipulated by a stripper

• You look to a stripper like safety and security, something many of them are looking for even if they don't know it. You're older (but not too old), represent financial security, can give them the approval by an older stable man that she didn't get growing up, etc.

A lot of my best stories, including ALL of my "became FWB with a stripper" stories, were in my 40s.

I should add to the above: all of that seemed to open things up for me as far as experiences with strippers, becoming her favorite customer, YMMV, etc. Both ITC and OTC, my best experiences came easily.