Have you ever had a dancer mistake you for someone else?

Repeating from 3 months ago:

This was my 3rd visit to the “new” Follies and this time I was on the quest for VIP. The previous trips were just exploratory. So I arrived around 2PM on the Saturday of Labor Day weekend. The parking lot was almost empty. Paid $5 to park and $5 door fee. I was met by a thin white girl that I remembered from my last trip. Ok but not VIP material. 2 or 3 other dancers and the same amount of customers. I got a coke from the bar and moved over to one of the booths on the black wall. A good looking white girl that I remembered from my previous 2 trips said “I’ll join you shortly”. Gave the thin white girl 2 mercy dances and then waited and waited for the other white girl. Did 2 meh dances with an ok black chick while I waited.

Finally the good looking white girl came over, jumped in my lap facing me and grabbed my cock. She got my attention real quick and things were looking real good. Then she hit me with “When is the allowance going to start?” WTF? What allowance are you talking about? She replied “The one you promised me to help pay for my apartment in exchange for VIP benefits”. I never promised you that. “Yes you did”. No I didn’t. “Aren't you XXXX?” No but I might be interested in VIP. How much do you charge and what is on the menu. She said $600 for 30 minutes and that included the extras. I told her that was out of my league and she then asked what am I used to paying and I told her $200 for oral. She said NO to that.

So OK. I handed her a $20 for the one song she spent sitting on my lap. She said I owed her another $20 because we did two dances and they are $20 each in the booth. I called bullshit. I have never paid more than $10 each including the 2 previous dancers today. Now get off of my lap. She still demanded another $20 and I said no, call the manager. She didn’t call the manager but then started in with “are you poor?” She repeated that several times in an attempt to embarrass me. She finally got up and walked away. I finished my coke and walked out. Had Dan, the manager been there, I would have talked to him. I doubt that I’ll be back. I don’t think this club is going to make it and is an insult to the real Follies.

The dancer’s name is Rain.

A few times they think I am someone famous.

It's a scam that most dancers use.

@skibum609 what is the scam? How do they benefit? I am interested to know what the trick is?

I’m not sure I’d quite call it a “scam”.
Probably more along the lines of “stripper shit”.

@dogchain: How do they benefit? Her spiel convinced you to spend money on her rather than another dancer. That’s the benefit to her.

Given that you enjoyed your time with her at what I’m guessing was a reasonable cost, no harm done. Hence my rationale for SS rather than scam.

I’ve heard that line several times over the years. In most cases, she’s wrong.

If I’m interested in her, I’ll gently challenge her assertion. Ask her where else she’s danced and let the conversation go from there.

If I’m not interested, I’ll quickly correct her and immediately follow up with a polite “No thank you. Not tonight.”

I've had it happen several times. I have usually told them they must be confusing me with someone else. I had to get rid of one favorite just because she kept calling me Kenny. It was too bad because she was as close to a sure thing that I had then.

I had a stripper call me "Alfred" whenever I did lap dances with her even though that is not my name. I think she confused me with another customer. I never bothered to correct her. She did not last long as a stripper. Most strippers try to make an effort to avoid mistakes like that.

I had one use this line on me. Always thought it was bull until randomly got a message asking why ignored her in public. Advised to quote shaggy “wasn’t me”. She was either playing a sophisticated long game or we all look alike !

I've had that happen several times, but in my case it probably was me she remembered me and I had forgotten her. The perils of being a high-volume PL.

A stripper once mistook me for that guy who has the world's largest dick. I had to remind her I only have the second largest.

I am always being mistaken for Brad Pitt .....NOT?😂

Several times. I do feel it can be a ploy to avoid you saying go away. I always roll with it, unless stripper is low rate in my book. But you never know who her friends there are. Always watch your back even with friendly lady! Alcohol also can help this go a long way

Dogchain - a scam in the sense you never met her, but she remembers you and now has an "in" with you.

She's counting on you feeling bad on the off chance you have been in her club previously, and may have crossed paths with her but don't remember her. Her play is that you will give pity tips for feeling bad over her remembering you, but you not remembering her.

Another take is that she's playing into the theory that people tip more when there is an aura of familiarity and personalization. If she can create a bond with you, even if incorrectly establishing familiarity, you will be more inclined to tip her.

It doesn't really work on hardened and cynical PLs, though.