Why I love prostitution
Women are very complex creatures. Ever since the dawn of ages men have been trying to get sexual access from women. Many succeed but a lot more fail. Especially in this day and age of women having these ridiculous standards and expectations. Every woman wants this imaginary guy aka top 1% which leads the 99% of men to struggle to even pull a 5 or above
That’s when I discovered the simple cheat code to have your fantasies and sexual urges met. It’s to just simply pay for it. I mean think about, when you just buy pussy you skip right to the reward. No endless games, no having to jump the hula hoops, no having to waste time getting to know them. Just straight sex on demand, how great is that. No rejection, no weird awkward cold approach that does nothing but boost a woman’s ego. I don’t even bother with regular clubs anymore as it’s a waste of time.
With prostitution I can get what I want when I want & most importantly how I want. I do think it becomes an obsession/addiction because once you see how easily you can get laid with beautiful on demand, there’s no going back. Especially on my trip to Colombia. I have never seen so many beautiful accessible women in my life. All willing to please for an appalling small fee.
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last commentI'm not sure if this is a behaviorally induced preference, or a nascent one, but I kind of have a fetish for strippers and sex workers in particular. And it's not the idea they're banging other dudes, which kind of squicks me out if I let myself dwell on it. It's the idea that they're absolute pros at sex acts.
I also like them for all the reasons you mentioned. I need to go to Columbia. OP where do you recommend? Medellin? Cartegena? Bogota?
I am the exact opposite of the OP and always have been. What he finds wonderful (I am glad for him and anyone else who has something in life they enjoy) I would find meaningless, empty and a waste of time and money. I would miss 2-way sex where she turns you on because you have turned her on. I would miss talking afterwards over a nice bottle of wine and a fine meal. I would miss not feeling an immediate need to get the fuck out. Feelings and 2-way joy are absent in paid sex, 100% of the time, no matter what anyone believes.
I would agree with you, @Bum. Paid sex always leaves me with a hollow feeling, but I can only get meaningful sex from a decent looking middle aged woman who I’ve been banging for the last 30 years. If I want to fuck a smoking hot hard-bodied 20-something stripper, I have to buy it.
@iknowbetter your name is ironic to the subject but that’s the point. Of course if i could bang hotties for free I would but it’s not realistic. These dimes are high maintenance there not looking for a regular guy with a good job. They want rappers, athletes, rich guys etc. no shame in it
Everyone has their likes. Paid sex is like mediocre food. If you're hungry and there's nothing worthwhile, you settle. I've done it, but I try like hell to avoid it. Its easier to avoid because the idea that I have ever had paid sex that remotely came close to great free sex is just silly. I like 2 way sex, where both are into it, and as I said, that is paid sex 0% of the time. rather get a lap dance from the 10 and sex elsewhere, subject of course to alcohol consumption.
@bum I will never forget this video of this guy saying to be a woman is to be a prostitute, now I didn’t know what he meant but the more he explained the more I understood
“To be a woman is to be a prostitute” meaning that since the beginning of time men who are the providers, protectors and in charge of giving women what we call “resources”. Which women has been designed to look for exactly that which is Money, Provisions, Materialistics etc. basically anything that will take care of her and her potential offspring. They think ahead.
Now to get to my point after all that blah blah is to put it simply Men have the resources which “money” and women will give their sexual access to get it. Men want pussy so they trade their “resources” to get it and women want those said “resources” so they will trade their vagina aka their “prized possession” or bargaining chip to get it. So if you want to have sex with a lot of beautiful you will need to give them want they want. Just the way it is. That’s why when I understood this I was having so much sex, more so than I ever would trying to have “game” or getting it for “free”. They get what they want and I get what I want. Fair exchange
@bum it is true that you can get free sex but is it with the women you want? The thing about money is that it gives you the access to the 9’s and 10’s. Sure you can pull a fatty or a 2 but that’s not what I want. But I can reconcile with your view
^ Right now less than 50% of my male divorce clients earn more than their spouse, soon to be ex-spouse. When I passed the bar in 1982 and started practicing 90-95% of my male clients made more than their spouse. I predict that in 20 years 75% of women will earn more than men. The American left's war on men began with take your daughter to work day and has continued unabated to the point where a lot of young men don't work, contribute or fuck women. I am guessing that with any luck I will be dead and won't have to see it.
Hard disagree with OP. Anyone can bag 7+s every day and twice on Sundays if you are well-dressed, have a likeable personality, and make an effort in life.
First @gammanu95 total agreement, that (and it;s converse) have been both my observation and my personal experience
Second (and somewhat related to the above) - "to be a woman is to be a prostitute" - The quote and the explanation behind it are correct(ish).
What I mean by that is it's vitally important to stop thinking of prostitution and relationships are back and white, all or nothing, binary. There is always a spectrum, from 100% transactional, 0% emotional to 100% emotional, 0% transactional - and the actual 0%/100% extremes are in practice non-existent.
No human being can completely turn off their emotions, nor can they completely turn off their rational, calculating self interest. Deep down I think we all know this. We like to oversimplify but the discrepancy between our oversimplified model of the world and the reality is going to steer you wrong.
The corollary there is that you get out of a paid experience what you put into it - be it FS or just a LD or anything in between. If you put in only money and if you go in thinking of it as entirely transactional, you are going to get, at best cold fish sex, at worst a hate fuck from a woman who feels treated like an object but she needs the money enough to put up with you.
On the other hand, if you are making at least some effort into her enjoyment of the experience, as you hopefully would with a civvie girl, and if you have some level of skill at pleasing a woman, and/or have put some effort into making a connection, you are definitely going to get a much better experience.
In other words, you have considerable ability, through your own attitude and actions, to move any interaction down the scale from more transactional to less transactional.
Of course, you can only shift the scale as far as the provider is willing to be flexible. Allegedly, that's what sugaring is (or claims to be) all about compared to straight escorting or MPs. I would assume on average streetwalkers are probably the most strictly transactional, then MP's, then escorts, then maybe a tie between sugar babies and strippers, although I only have direct experience with MP's and strippers.
Importantly, not only does how much you put into it affect the quality and enjoyability of the experience, it will also affect the PRICE, either of this experience or of the next one with the same provider.