Why I love prostitution

I'm not sure if this is a behaviorally induced preference, or a nascent one, but I kind of have a fetish for strippers and sex workers in particular. And it's not the idea they're banging other dudes, which kind of squicks me out if I let myself dwell on it. It's the idea that they're absolute pros at sex acts.

I also like them for all the reasons you mentioned. I need to go to Columbia. OP where do you recommend? Medellin? Cartegena? Bogota?

I am the exact opposite of the OP and always have been. What he finds wonderful (I am glad for him and anyone else who has something in life they enjoy) I would find meaningless, empty and a waste of time and money. I would miss 2-way sex where she turns you on because you have turned her on. I would miss talking afterwards over a nice bottle of wine and a fine meal. I would miss not feeling an immediate need to get the fuck out. Feelings and 2-way joy are absent in paid sex, 100% of the time, no matter what anyone believes.

I would agree with you, @Bum. Paid sex always leaves me with a hollow feeling, but I can only get meaningful sex from a decent looking middle aged woman who I’ve been banging for the last 30 years. If I want to fuck a smoking hot hard-bodied 20-something stripper, I have to buy it.

@iknowbetter your name is ironic to the subject but that’s the point. Of course if i could bang hotties for free I would but it’s not realistic. These dimes are high maintenance there not looking for a regular guy with a good job. They want rappers, athletes, rich guys etc. no shame in it

Everyone has their likes. Paid sex is like mediocre food. If you're hungry and there's nothing worthwhile, you settle. I've done it, but I try like hell to avoid it. Its easier to avoid because the idea that I have ever had paid sex that remotely came close to great free sex is just silly. I like 2 way sex, where both are into it, and as I said, that is paid sex 0% of the time. rather get a lap dance from the 10 and sex elsewhere, subject of course to alcohol consumption.

@bum I will never forget this video of this guy saying to be a woman is to be a prostitute, now I didn’t know what he meant but the more he explained the more I understood

“To be a woman is to be a prostitute” meaning that since the beginning of time men who are the providers, protectors and in charge of giving women what we call “resources”. Which women has been designed to look for exactly that which is Money, Provisions, Materialistics etc. basically anything that will take care of her and her potential offspring. They think ahead.

Now to get to my point after all that blah blah is to put it simply Men have the resources which “money” and women will give their sexual access to get it. Men want pussy so they trade their “resources” to get it and women want those said “resources” so they will trade their vagina aka their “prized possession” or bargaining chip to get it. So if you want to have sex with a lot of beautiful you will need to give them want they want. Just the way it is. That’s why when I understood this I was having so much sex, more so than I ever would trying to have “game” or getting it for “free”. They get what they want and I get what I want. Fair exchange

@bum it is true that you can get free sex but is it with the women you want? The thing about money is that it gives you the access to the 9’s and 10’s. Sure you can pull a fatty or a 2 but that’s not what I want. But I can reconcile with your view

^ Right now less than 50% of my male divorce clients earn more than their spouse, soon to be ex-spouse. When I passed the bar in 1982 and started practicing 90-95% of my male clients made more than their spouse. I predict that in 20 years 75% of women will earn more than men. The American left's war on men began with take your daughter to work day and has continued unabated to the point where a lot of young men don't work, contribute or fuck women. I am guessing that with any luck I will be dead and won't have to see it.

Hard disagree with OP. Anyone can bag 7+s every day and twice on Sundays if you are well-dressed, have a likeable personality, and make an effort in life.

I like the access to young hotties. In my real life that would be a very rare occurrence. at almost 75 I have no interest in 99.9% in my age bracket.

I mean think about, when you just buy pussy you skip right to the reward. No endless games, no having to jump the hula hoops, no having to waste time getting to know them. Just straight sex on demand, how great is that. No rejection, no weird awkward cold approach that does nothing but boost a woman’s ego. I don’t even bother with regular clubs anymore as it’s a waste of time.

👆🏻Mr Monger - Me too, I am also a firm believer of ‘ You Pay & Play ‘, on demand whenever I want it and without any strings attached👌🏻

From the great HBO show Rome when Centurian Verenus was explaining to Legionare Pullo why he got married:

"Pullo, when was the last time you had a woman that wasn't crying or demanding payment?"

Pullo, as he’s paying the madame for a whore he picked out for young aristocrat Octavian’s first time:

“The girl better fuck him like Helen of Troy with her ass on fire 🔥 Or I’ll know the reason why.”

Damn dude. You don't know how to serenade women without cash huh? That's a problem my friend. Otherwise.....I'm opposite bro. Strippers and escorts are cool and all, but that's not gonna keep the other side of the bed warm in the morning. Plus knowing that they don't care about you, just what's in your wallet leaves you feeling empty. At least I know it does for me.

Estafador thats merely an assumption, that “they dont care about you just whats in your wallet”. Not necessarily true. You could say that about women and men in general too.

Also, regarding skibums point it is incorrect. There are some, even many escorts or dancers or others who provide p4p sex and are cold, mechanical etc. but thats the entire point of the vetting process, looking for not just gfe providers but providers who dont have a boyfriend already. Then the encounter is at least like more of a genuine hookup. If youve only been getting mechanical and hollow experiences from sex workers, its because youre looking in the wrong place, or keep running into pimped women. Even the ones with boyfriend pimps can get passionate if they like the client enough.

Unless youre using dating apps and specifically lying about your net worth and career and pretending to work at a gas station, any woman in any scenario could potentially be with you for the money

I want to see an example of someone getting a hot chick for free, where the chick isnt somehow benefiting either monetarily nor from associating with the guy. It doesnt exist, even if you have a ripped physique and look better than the average guy.

It actually starts all the way back in highschool. Money isnt much of a factor, but fame and status is. Any of the athletes had little issue getting girls, unless you were into some nonsense like archery. I would actually say the only time you see girls go after guys purely for their looks with nothing else in the picture is elementary and middle school. But once you get to higschool and beyond, status comes massively into play, and starting in college, money starts to really matter. Its just part of life. In highschool there are literally chubby, ugly football or basketball players who get more girls than anyone else. There were drug dealers who the more ghetto girls saw as a very cool high status thing. It continues in college, too. The best way to get girls in college is if youre a college athlete or in a fraternity. Just looking good, being a bodybuilder or even a well conditioned athlete, wont give you jack shit. You need to actually be on a sports team or fraternity to have the best chances. Money starts to really help too in college

1. Women you pay to be with you are doing it for the money. We hold this truth to be self evident.
2. Many civilian women are looking for guys who they think would make good husbands and fathers. If you’re an average middle class guy, it’s not that hard to find an average middle class woman.

Just reading this. Mr. Monger you are 100 % correct in your analysis.

marriages/relationships/dating are just legal prostitution

good rock or country musicians get the pussy free... as well as the popular athletes.

and certainly lots of money and a good celebrity personality also get it free.

Although all those celebrities and athletes need to be very careful they don't get baby trapped.

@jascoi nothing is free either you pay flat out or you pay later. I guarantee any celebrity or athlete getting loads of kitty is because women see potential for them to get provided for in the future. Why do you think these women try to trap them with a baby ? They are trying to secure the bag. It’s hardwired in a woman just like it’s hardwired for us man to want to screw as many women as possible. We are designed to spread our seed.

@rick is right those days of women giving out free coochie because your cute is over. Ever since high school women have been hypergamous.

Just think about this guys why are there more men paying for sex than women paying men for sex? Because us men value sex and women value money/resources. This is why I say “to be a woman is to be a prostitute”. Once you understand what women “truly” want there’s no woman you can’t bang unless she’s already well taken care of of course

@monger right on!

Iceys approach still involves money and status, he according to his descriptions doesnt pay per sexual encounter, but he mentioned having a girlfriend who he would buy lavish gifts, and even paid for her parents rent bills and more…

Celebrities are literally paying women most of tbe time. Yes sometimes they may bang a fan girl and even then the girl is doing jt because of bragging rights, status, clout, a lot of times just by default hanging out with the celebrity means they will get free $500 or even $2000 champagne, fancy restaurants, and an outing easily worth $500+. Despite celebrities capability to bang a bunch of fan girls for free they still usually just pay escorts, pornstars, IG and onlyfans girls.

Iceys approach supposedly he doesnt pay directly but he gets them drugs and drinks, tips thousands of dollars.

Some of the hollywood stars look very good, but if your talking about a girl liking drake, or a random nfl player or nba player, its absolutely not because of their looks. You can go to any shopping mall any day of the week and find guys more attractive than drake. Now guys as hot as chris hemsworth, henry cavill etc are much harder to find but even then you could probably find at least one guy on their level at any big college campus