What do pimps provide

The pimp is often a drug dealer and they get their ho(s) addicted so they become dependent.

Unrelated to your question but my first thought was your ATF may be just telling you baloney so you’ll dislike the other two girls and only spend money on her.

Re: drug dealer - makes sense. Hadn't thought of that.

Shailynn - I've spent more money on this girl than the others though I suppose that's possible. She has also willingly spent time with me when I had little to nothing to tip her with and seems very kind so who knows

Nothing more retarded than a grown man getting involved in stripper drama.

I asked my ATF (Cuban - 6 years dancing in Dallas) a similar question and she said 75% of the Cuban Dancers she knows, willingly have a Chulo (Pimp) because it is easier for the Dancer. The dancer doesn’t have to worry about managing money for a place to live, eat, clothes, transportation and they provide a bit of security inside and outside of the club. She also said “even outside of dancers, there are regular civilians out there that do the same.” My ATF said she doesn’t like that situation but understands it for others.

She was quick to point out for those that are being trafficked/forced/coerced that is just wrong and law enforcement/federal government has to stop that situation with severe punishment.

^^ Stockholm syndrome

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There doesn't have to be any motivation or benefit because they're brains are fucked up.

Pimps essentially brainwash vulnerable women into thinking their lives would be better and earning potential higher with them. I once had a "pimp" at an upscale club try to recruit me when I was in my early 20s, and was promising me that I'd live in such a nice house and drive in such a nice car and I laughed in his face and told him I can already afford those things and manage my own money. After that I'd never even speak to a man if I thought he was a pimp. I also generally stayed away from dancers who were known to have pimps. They can be very desperate, because pimps are expecting them to come home with a certain amount of money.

Pimps talk a very smooth game to vulnerable girls to recruit them. They really make them think they will make their lives better and help them "manager their money" (ie take it all and tell them how they can spend a portion of it). They make it sound glamorous, and they might have one or more of their other hoes with them dressed in designer handbags and whatnot to create the illusional of fabulous wealth. Generally, they will have a "nice car" to drive around in to keep up appearances, but it is shared with all the other of the pimp's hoes and none of them actually own it. Same for the house all the hoes live in, whether or not they live with the pimp or not varies.

Then the pimp will obviously make the hoes work. You have to work x days a week and bring home x amount of money. Let's say there's a pimp who has four hoes. He's nice and lets them each take two days off. So they have to work five days a week and make at least $1K per day each. So let's say each of them are making 20K per month minimum and giving it all to the pimp. The pimp in turn pays for their housing that the hoes all share, and pays for the car that the hoes also share. He takes them to get their hair and nails done so they feel pampered. Might take them out shopping once or twice a month and buy each of them maybe a $1-2K handbag each month, and some designer shoes, belts, etc to match (but remember, they will share a lot of these accessories). Still, the hoes feel spoiled when they see the pimp drop 6K or so on a monthly shopping spree for them, even though if all four hoes are making their weekly quota, they'd made the pimp 80K for the month so that 6K is a drop in the bucket. They don't see it that way because they have no idea how to budget and are indoctrinated by the pimp to think they're being lavishly taken care of.

And yes, for girls who are already prostituting themselves, pimps are obviously an added layer of security. But pimps pray on girls who again are vulnerable. Often times these girls come from poverty and/or don't have supportive families, so the pimp recruits girls who are easily swayed by designer bags and shoes and shiny jewlery, nice cars, and the idea of having a "family," like a "father figure" in the pimp and a "sisterhood" with the pimp's other hoes. That way they're completely reliant and think they have it made while the pimp collects all their money and has complete control over them.

^prey* on, sorry if there's more typos, I typed this pretty fast.

Sounds like strippershit.

Nina this is probably the best explanation I've heard. Still doesn't make sense as to why they would do it. To me anyway. But it's their choice.

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^ good grief who even allows you to post on here?

To OP: Do you really think other girls were talking shit about you on a group chat? That just seems highly unlikely to me. I’d believe they would talk shit about each other and other dancers, possibly management, and other club employees, but customers? That just seems odd - even if you were a regular whale.

Maybe? I don't know. I found it interesting more than anything else. I don't doubt that the girls discuss customers with each other so a group chat isn't much of a stretch. I'm not bothered by it either way.

^^^ "But pimps pray on girls who again are vulnerable."

@NinaBambina you called it!

You get a different perspective, when you consider what landscaping and cleaning companies charge for the service, versus what they pay the people who do it. The key difference is that a lot of sex work is illegal or quasi-legal. Making it hard for the people doing it to get even minimal legal protection.

I had a fav who told me her father had pimped to save up money to start a legit business. She claim he was benevolent to the women, looked after them even after he got out of the game. But she said it was always women who were so bad with money, they would have been worse off on their own. Good chance there are pimps who compare favorably with the worst of the leech SOs. Probably we all know of couples where one member is the bread winner and the money manager, but they still accept a life of emotional and even physical abuse. Nothing unique to sex work.

I'm a gay faggot. My pimp makes me take it up the ass.

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No one can really understand why anyone does anything unless they are in the same spot in life. Most people in the same exact circumstances react the same exact way.

Watch this clip from Idiocracy to understand the Pimp game. You’re welcome. m.youtube.com

^ Possibly the most underrated movie ever, but in retrospect it appears to be a documentary about the world and the future. youtube.com

Pimpin for Dummies: youtu.be youtu.be

"^ Possibly the most underrated movie ever, but in retrospect it appears to be a documentary about the world and the future."

^ Yes, to both.

^^^LMFAO so says the co-dependant "pimp"

Insecure pimps will tell themselves they are trying to help their ho because they just don't want to face the fact that they are exploiting her. At the end of the day, that's ultimately what it's about - exploitation and manipulation of a vulnerable woman.

Nina - thank for sharing your insights on this topic

A prostitute exchanges sexual favors for money and a pimp is one who lives off the proceeds of one or more prostitutes he controls.

The ideas most people have regarding the relationship between prostitutes and pimps is mainly based on media stereotypes

From the prostitute with a heart of gold in movies such as Pretty Woman, to images of drug abuse as in taxi driver, very few times the media provide an accurate portrayal of prostitution or the pimp-prostitute relationship

However some pimps have shown some willingness to tell it as it is:

“When verbal instruction and psychological manipulation failed to keep the women compliant, he beat them with wire hangers; in his autobiography he concedes he was a ruthless, vicious man.”

~ From the book Pimp: The Story of My Life, by “Iceberg Slim” published in 1967

Pimping is an example of exploitation in the economic system prevalent in the USA.

Pimping is violent, opportunistic, and abusive, just like the owner-worker (Owner-Slave) relationship practiced in the USA since the beginning.