Man no racist shit but y’all be doing the most when it comes to these whores lol. I’ve talk to various of strippers n hookers all they say the same thing u guys overpay, send hoes money for nothing or for some weird ass requests, paying chicks rent n car notes just be over doing it, this simp shit be making harder for the brothas cause that’s what they all expect now(brings more crazy entitlement) Luckily I can I still fuck these whores for 200 n under with a little mouth piece n game but y’all gotta bring it down a couple notches. I’m too cheap for that shit lol
That's want the SPLC calls white privilege. Getting educated, working hard, saving money, having discretionary income, and using it to pay women for sex. Don't hate the player, hate the game.
So you’re unaware of the cabal of White mongers who voted that this was the best way to keep the Black man down? They meet every couple weeks at a Stuckey’s
To be honest, this is a problem with inexperienced mongers. If you're paying her for nothing then you really need to reevaluate yourself.
I just want to understand the context, are men paying the bills of strippers directly or indirectly. If I agree to pay 400 for sexy time, then the dancer uses that money for bills, then that's not my problem. It's her money. I got what I paid for.
The issue is if you a paying her bill directly and getting nothing for it. At that point just become a sugar daddy.
I do agree some of the PLs on here take it too far, and creates an artificial ceiling. The sex market follows the same rules as the regular market. If guys keeping paying these dancers 800+, then they are always going to expect it.
It's gotten to the point where I have had to tell dancers that going over 500 is ridiculous. I can get full service for under 400. The ones asking for 500+ are basically the ones who don't want to do anything, they just want you to stop asking. They also feel like they shouldn't have to work if they are doing more than dancing.
Under 200 is basically escorting. It's tough to get a dancer to go that low unless she's really desperate.
It's not as much of a flex as people think. We are all paying to party, paying more is actually a bad thing.
I think Mr. Monger's post is partly tongue-in-cheek and partly observations about the control of the market. I've heard similar things from the ladies. Market prices also have a lot to do with the are. Prices in Vegas, NYC, and parts of Mass. can be very different from spots in Texas, parts of Florida, and Chicago. California varies from Northern to Southern areas. We will always have folks who will spend a lot, girls who demand a lot, and women who are savvy and play a longer game (repeat business) as well as those who adjust to the customer.
I'm in southern California and have been around long enough to know how to negotiate and when to negotiate and when to walk away. Bottom line is always am I having a good time?
I get OP’s sarcasm, but he makes a good point. We shouldn’t be overpaying- it just leads to inflation and entitlement.
However I don’t think this is an old white guy issue, at least not in the S. Florida clubs. Its usually a black pro athlete, rapper, or celebrity who’s entourage is making it rain big stacks of money and drawing all the girls away from the normal PLs in the club. Also, why didn’t I get invited to the white Mongers meetings?
I never overpay. When I go to a club, I take the amount of cash that I'm willing to spend. ATM and credit cards are left at home. When the dancer and I agree on both the service and the amount and both parts of the contract are delivered, then no one has any reason to complain.
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last commentTo be honest, this is a problem with inexperienced mongers. If you're paying her for nothing then you really need to reevaluate yourself.
I just want to understand the context, are men paying the bills of strippers directly or indirectly. If I agree to pay 400 for sexy time, then the dancer uses that money for bills, then that's not my problem. It's her money. I got what I paid for.
The issue is if you a paying her bill directly and getting nothing for it. At that point just become a sugar daddy.
I do agree some of the PLs on here take it too far, and creates an artificial ceiling. The sex market follows the same rules as the regular market. If guys keeping paying these dancers 800+, then they are always going to expect it.
It's gotten to the point where I have had to tell dancers that going over 500 is ridiculous. I can get full service for under 400. The ones asking for 500+ are basically the ones who don't want to do anything, they just want you to stop asking. They also feel like they shouldn't have to work if they are doing more than dancing.
Under 200 is basically escorting. It's tough to get a dancer to go that low unless she's really desperate.
It's not as much of a flex as people think. We are all paying to party, paying more is actually a bad thing.
I'm in southern California and have been around long enough to know how to negotiate and when to negotiate and when to walk away. Bottom line is always am I having a good time?
However I don’t think this is an old white guy issue, at least not in the S. Florida clubs. Its usually a black pro athlete, rapper, or celebrity who’s entourage is making it rain big stacks of money and drawing all the girls away from the normal PLs in the club. Also, why didn’t I get invited to the white Mongers meetings?