It's been 30 years since my dangerous liason soulmate had to break up with me

In the early part of the millennium I ended up bumping to an x stripper gf of mines. She didn't recognize me until I gave her an object I was carrying I bumped into her a month later where she started crying. I found out she was still married but this time with a child. If she was playboy material how do I let people know that I once dated a playboy bunny if she was unhappily married or at least she made me believe that.