Strip Club Bucket List #1 vs Achilles Heel

@wallanon

I will play along and comment on your discussion.

You wrote and I quote:

“wallanon✪✔
May 14, 2022
Hey gawker.

Looks like the guys brought their wet blankets.

Have fun.

If a brother or cousin shows up on the scene after she moves in just watch your back.

But if you've got the means and the engine still revs up then carpe diem.”

I would add that you should:

Enjoy, Life Today,
BECAUSE
YESTERDAY IS GONE AND
TOMORROW IS NEVER
PROMISED

It doesn’t matter what kind of drama might happen, you should be man enough to handle it and keep the drama at a minimum.

The key to a happy “relationship” is to have realistic expectations from both parties.

Remember what Rogan Regan was told that the Russians said when he meet Gorbachev:

“Trust but Verify”

One last reminder HAVE FUN! BE HAPPY!

You are living the hobby doing what most men just fantasize about.

If you can afford it and have the he time to invest on the hobby item, then you should get it.

Let’s just be careful out there.

@wallanon you know I believe in you! You know I know you can do... BOTH!

What is the downside? if one precludes the other, go for the higher risk vs reward.. because... you are a man who will get to bat again, even if you fail.... this is not a one-time shot at greatness! You are a grandslam hitter!

Choke up on the bat and swing for the fence!

How is my sports analogy coming so far???

In short, go hard.. or go home... go for the double! as you know.. 2 are always better (and more interesting) than 1!!!

why not both?

@grrlgonebad: Not too well. If you choke up on the bat you're going to lose power so it doesn't make sense to do that and try to hit a HR. Choke up when you're just trying to make contact and get a base hit.

Sorry, it's the baseball playoffs. This time of year I take these things (too) seriously!

See... I have watched too many baseball movies! Let's just be honest... I only watch them for the Kevin Costner content...

I probably do a bird in the hand worth two in bush route. outside chance means that shit probably falls through. But if you an idea that you could count on that somewhat, then I'd probably just wait.

@wallanon

Without the backstory, I'd be hesitant to guess what I would do in that situation, let alone make a suggestion to someone else. So this isn't advice, but I will say this...

In my time going to clubs, the ONE girl that I can say I've been the most physically attracted to, more than any other girl I've ever seen in person, I shouldn't have been able to even daydream about seeing her OTC. She was way out of my league physically, a total sweetheart, and was strictly against ever seeing a guy outside the club.*

I'll give you three guesses who became the first customer to see her OTC... :) I'm nothing special to look at, so I had to win her over with kindness. I was up for the challenge, though, and fortunately for me, she responded to that kindness. It doesn't always work out that way, but I guess the universe decided to throw me a bone for once in my life...lol

* This ain't my first rodeo. I know full well that girls make shit up to make guys feel special...lol I've been on the receiving end of that BS too! I really was the first guy she ever saw OTC...

@wallanon I meant to also ask, did you already have to make this choice, or are you still debating it?