Compliments? Do you feel good giving them and or receiving them or are they just
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
When you tell a dancer that she is beautiful and has a great personality and she says "Thank you", What is she really thinking? Fuck you ass hole. just give me your money? I think not. Dancers are first of all women and women love compliments.
Yeah,they like my money but I also appreciate the compliments. "You do not look your age", "You smell good. Is it Curve?", "You have the chest of an eighteen year old", "I love your smooth hairless legs", "you have a nice sized dick" or maybe bullshit "You have a big dick", "I just realized that you have a nice ass." It can't all be bull shit. They are already getting my money.Compliments work both ways. Keep doing it.
Yeah,they like my money but I also appreciate the compliments. "You do not look your age", "You smell good. Is it Curve?", "You have the chest of an eighteen year old", "I love your smooth hairless legs", "you have a nice sized dick" or maybe bullshit "You have a big dick", "I just realized that you have a nice ass." It can't all be bull shit. They are already getting my money.Compliments work both ways. Keep doing it.
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I do try to find something less obvious to compliment though... although I must say complimenting a woman's eyes never fails!
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I won't say I don't like them, but they sometimes make me feel uncomfortable. It's like I need to return the compliment and that puts pressure on me to come up with something to compliment. Hope that makes some sense.
When I receive a compliment from someone I've just met I usually ask in a teasing manner, "Is that the stripper talking?"
I thought the big dick compliment was standard.
It is almost universally used by dancers. Some times they say you have one and others, you are one.
I don't care for the you one because it just sounds so phony and coarse.
I read an online article about how to talk to strippers one time and the guy recommended constructive criticism as the best way to get real with them--like saying oh that color dress is too bright against your skin or whatever. Apparently his theory was that they hear so much positive BS that some non-hostile critiquing is refreshing and interesting for them.
The only absolute no-no I think is anything related to breasts, even the most positive compliment you can think of. Women in general tend to think men are weird for being obsessed with breasts (IMO) and strippers are 10x more so.