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horndogs be aware there is no nudity by traci lords in this movie, just another actress (or two) harmless comedy, definitely had its moments but i would say orgazmo was slightly better, as was "nacktschnecken" (austrian version of the same kind of movie, can be pulled off of bittorrent depending on seeders)

That's interesting what you said about nurses/nursing students. It makes a lot of sense, although my theory was something more along the lines of having a job (nursing) which requires an almost complete suppression of one's sexuality if not emotionality translating into having a part-time job which requires almost the complete opposite. I would not have thought nurses are so needy to feel useful, although I think many doctors are somewhat the same way so maybe it's something peculiar to being a medical professional.

As something slightly off-topic do you guys have any precautionary procedures for afterwards? I'm asking because there's a dancer I'm thinking about asking to do this with, but a few months ago I noticed a cold sore on her (facial) lip and it freaks me out a little bit. (I know there's different kinds of herpes viruses but I've never done DATY ITC before.) My current somewhat half-assed plan, taken indirectly from the Ron Jeremy school of hygiene (which nevertheless seems to have worked for him), is to order a vodka on the rocks as soon as I'm done and gargle with it and spit it back in the glass while hopefully not looking too odd, to kill potential cooties. I don't particularly want to bring a dental dam with me into a SC and please, no "spitter" jokes.

I would say it depends on what you want out of your relationship with her. If you're ok with just getting action and not knowing the truth then continue on like you never heard otherwise. If you *have* to know for whatever reason then confront her about it (in a non-threatening way). Just make sure you're ready for her response, whatever it turns out to be. Other things you might want to think about: Who do you believe right now? Your S or the one from the old club? Did the other one know you are dating the one who left? How did the topic come up? A lot of interpretation can be made from the way a woman says something. Also, which bothers you more--the fact that she might have lied or the fact that she might be doing the nasty with customers in the present? (I know they're related.) How would you feel if she admitted she was doing it, but really cared for you? (and you believed her) A lot of questions I know but there are a lot of angles to this one. Whatever else you do I would not break up with her without finding out what the deal was first (to your own satisfaction). I have a tendency to do things like that, and it can lead to regrets. I don't envy you right now. I'd be interested in hearing what happens, if you're comfortable sharing. Good luck

I don't give them unless there's at least an element of truth to it, I figure they hear so much BS that their radar is fine-tuned to the point of absurdity. Also I try to give compliments which are as unusual as possible, without being weird, things other posters mentioned like hair, eyes, smell, etc. I read an online article about how to talk to strippers one time and the guy recommended constructive criticism as the best way to get real with them--like saying oh that color dress is too bright against your skin or whatever. Apparently his theory was that they hear so much positive BS that some non-hostile critiquing is refreshing and interesting for them. The only absolute no-no I think is anything related to breasts, even the most positive compliment you can think of. Women in general tend to think men are weird for being obsessed with breasts (IMO) and strippers are 10x more so.