Boobie sucking...Is it an extra?

Boobie sucking. Personally I think it's both harmless and not an extra. But it's strictly precluded by the official rules for brothels and window-girls in Amsterdam, Frankfurt, and other typical monger destinations in Europe. Plenty of girls break that rule but there must be something to why they made the rule against it -- maybe so many girls objected (guys being too toothy?) that it was a concession to the girls' lobbyists; or maybe it really is a major disease-transmission vector, sharing saliva. I really don't see the latter of those as reasonable, the swab-off for hygiene would be so simple.

I like it and want it and therefore do not consider it an extra, it should be definitely an assumed part of the package with no extra fees or special services implied.

Not an extra, closer to a requirement.

To a normal citizen, yes....it's an extra.

To us demented TUSCL member strip club addicts, nothing short of balls deep in a dripping pussy is an extra.

When I'm being straddled and have the tits in my face, I let them come to my mouth and with my mouth slightly open I give the nip a few flicks with my tongue. Though I make it a habit to never watch other guys get dances, I've glanced and seen some guys basically attacking the tits. It looks needy and juvenile. Just like kissing, never be too eager. If (1) she lets them linger, (2) she looks down to watch, (3) the nip gets firm, or (4) she presses them forward more, those are all go-ahead signs to grab and explore more fully including gentle sucking. If she does not seem eager and is shy about my mouth around her nipples, I don't press it, and I know I won't be VIPing with her.

"Boobie sucking...Is it an extra?"

No, but I'm ok with a girl saying it's off limits. There's a girl I've been with a lot who doesn't really like it because her nips are really sensitive, but she let's me do it. How much I can do depends on her mood (and how horny she is) lol.

An extra is anything the dancer wants money for in addition to the cost of the dance. It's different for each dancer and YMMV with the same dancer. Boobie sucking is an extra if she wants money; it's not an extra if she doesn't want money.

I've had dancers try to charge extra for it but I've also had dancers specifically ask me to do it

an extra? if she teases with her boobs i feel invited to enjoy them. not an extra but maybe worthy of a tip!

Tit sucking an extra? No man. Hell no. It's only an extra if my dick gets wet, or at a minimum get a hand job.

I thought "extras" were HJ, BJ and FS. I'm continuing to stick by that terminology and not consider oral breast stimulation an "extra". It's definitely at the dancer's option, though and can't be assumed to be automatic. And the way I go after it is disturbingly similar to what 5footguy said.

Nah. It’s not an extra unless she actively engages with your bare dick.

@wallanon if youre not literally treating her nipples in a painful way, thats a pimp/boyfriend rule. “Sensitive nips” actually means the girl can orgasm if the nips are played with enough. Some dancers dont want to have an O with clients usually its if they have a bf. Even actual hoes have that rule if theyre pimped by a SO

I think only in stripper forums would titty sucking be considered an "extra."

Its an extra in the sense that it’s not part of a standard lapdance. Caressing and touching the nips or tits is included, but sucking anything is beyond that. But its not an extra that should warrant an extra charge.

Some dancers do believe its a disease risk. Supposedly you can get herpes on the nipple. But im fairly certain they need to have torn skin on the nipple in order for herpes to possibly transmit. The more likely options a girl would refuse nipple sucking are either if shes worried you will pinch or bite too hard, or she has a SO and it breaks her boundaries to have a guy suck the boobs.

I agree with wall and wise too. Damn we need those like buttons back.

So we can comfortably connect names with this act in reviews, right or na. Where are we on that, what’s the standard here?

"@wallanon if youre not literally treating her nipples in a painful way, thats a pimp/boyfriend rule. “Sensitive nips” actually means the girl can orgasm if the nips are played with enough."

Actually I know what the reason is but literally everything posted here gets over analyzed so I try to keep things simple. The point was even girls you know well can be quirky about things.

"Tit sucking an extra? No man. Hell no."

Agree with the guy who likes orange. I'm not ever going to pay extra for that (again). Can't say I haven't ever in the decades I've been doing this hobby, but unless she's so hot I'd drink her piss that's an upsell I'm passing on.

rickmacrodong, please get off the "if she has a bf" nonsense. If she's going to suck dick for bread, she will do it regardless of whether she has a bf/husband. She's not going to tell her man, "sorry babe, I didn't make much money, as I didn't swallow cum".

Agree with WiseToo. It will depend on the dancer and the venue and what's considered standard there. For review purposes, I would advise discretion if this detail might get the girl or the club in trouble.

All that said, boob sucking is pretty common and one of my favorite activities. What a joy feasting on a set of great DDs for 5-10 minutes and not only are you loving it but she is too. I'll tip a 20 under the right circumstances if we're not doing more, but usually it's part of the warm up and included.

It's not an "extra" in terms of this forum. It's not something that's illegal like a BJ or FS. Well, it might technically break the law in some places but you're not going to get in trouble for it. Now some girls may ask for a tip in order to suck her nipples, just like I've occasionally been asked for a tip to touch. That doesn't make it an extra; it just means the dancer has self-identified as someone that I shouldn't dance with.

I should add: I might still repeat with a dancer who says she doesn't want her nipples sucked or simply never puts them in range. It's the tip demand for that commonplace element of a lap dance that ticks me off.

It's an EXTRA if the nipples are pierced. Because you are getting more for your money. :}

Agree with most that tit sucking is not an extra, especially in eyes of most TUSCL members. In my opinion extras start with HJ. Anything less than HJ should be considered part of lapdance at any decent club. Stick shifting should also be a non extra at a decent high mileage club.

^^ Pierced nipples or sensitive nipples are a deal breaker for me. No way.

Agree with most that tit sucking is not an extra. Also that starting point for extra is a HJ, or FIV. I can understand some dancers not wanting nips sucked if they have pierced nipples or a recent boob job. In that case, there'd better be some offsets in other factors, otherwise it's 1 and done.

I don’t see FIV as an “extra” per se, but it is even less automatic than boob sucking and has to be approached even more gingerly. It also deserves a generous tip

I personally don't consider anything not involving genitals an extra. For me tit sucking falls under High contact lap dance, below Very High Contact.

I’m also in the group that doesn’t consider it an extra, but understand that it’s not available in all clubs or with all dances. It’s one of my favorite parts of a dance so I’m always looking for it. For a nasty thought and recognition of an assumed risk, there’s a good chance I’ve unknowingly tasted some other tuscl members’ spit and/or they’ve tasted mine. 🤮

Or with all DANCERS. Where is the goddamned edit button?

Funontheside i don’t understand your point. There are definitely some dancers who dont offer extras because of being in a relationship. Some of them even do air dances for that reason.

Though I don't consider it to be an extra by default, if a dancer says "You need to pay extra for that.", then it's an extra.

I’m not into licking doorknobs, who knows how many people have handled and licked the door handle, as far as I’m concerned it’s just gross.

No door knobs for me, but nipple kissing, oh yeah.

Sadly, the gals at my main club seems to be withholding nips more.

Anyone who has, in a strip club licked a pussy, sucked a nipple, licked a boob, kissed a dancer etc. has licked kissed or sucked some other guy's saliva, sweat and/or semen. If you think you have not, I have some beachfront property in Moab to sell you. None of you should ever consider swinging lol.

Great sex should not only be disgusting, but it should also require two showers, one before, one after.

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Great sex should not only be disgusting, but it should also require two showers, one before, one after.<<<

That’s why I prefer OTC, because I believe great sex doesn’t have to be disgusting and a shower and a bed makes the sex soooo much better

What about licking an escorts pussy? I assume they rinse out their pussy since they have a shower available in the room?

Ive never had an issue sucking a nipple besides one nasty escorts nipple had such a salty yeasty taste to it i wonder what happened there. She even had used dominos pizza boxes stacked up on the desk in her room.

When I'm "playing the field", I generally observe the girl in whom I have interest to see if she goes into the dressing room to "freshen up" or right back to work on the floor. In the dressing room there are hand sanitizer and baby wipes to clean up the "affected area" When I'm with the ATF, there's no need because I know her rules and hygenics.

BTW...NOT an extra but not automatic.

From 20 years ago: Kinky things you've done at a club.

IDleStripper FRIDAY, APRIL 30, 2004 1:34 PM When I was still working at a club, during the last year, I would have my boyfriend produce seed and then I'd rub it into my boobs. I would spay a little vanilla just to enhance the aroma. Several times I went to work immediately after.

"I’m not into licking doorknobs, who knows how many people have handled and licked the door handle"

If I thought licking a doorknob would get me half the action putting my tongue to work on some nipples has I'd consider it lol.

@Puddy Tat yes, as I said, "Plenty of girls break that rule" but I was investigating why they made the rule in the first place. In my experience, if you ASK the rules, in may places you'll get (among a bunch of other palaver) something explicit about no titty licking or sucking, for which the level of pro-active rule-making detail surprised me. Didn't mean to say you couldn't (nearly always) still get away with doing it.

@skibum609 I'll buy that property in Moab thank you.

Agreed on the "real" rules.

Certain pimped girls, or girls with a boyfriend or husband pimp, can have that no nipple touching rule. Theres been threads posted throughout the years on the stripper forums about how some think it crosses a line because its too intimate to do it with a client Or because they can easily orgasm from it and dont think they should be reaching O’s with clients. The important thing to note is its not just strippers but even some hoes who have that rule. Imagine paying for an hour appointment and you cant do something as basic as playing with the nipples. Basically getting scammed

My experience is all over the map. I have had some say "please don't their tender, I just had them pierced" even though she said the same 6 months ago. I have had a few dancers shove them in my face and say "Open your mouth" if I didn't start sucking on them. Some dancers don't like it because it gets them horny and other dancers like it because it gets them horny. I don't consider it extras but I let the dancer set the boundaries, and if its a no go, then I don't get a lot of dances or go to the VIP with her. As to the hygiene of it, remember many of the micro-organisms in our saliva are actually beneficial to our stomach and overall digestive system health.

It is against the law everywhere but it's more about house rules and the individual girl. I think just about every time they initiated it along with anything more intimate.

I mean, even grinding on a customer is illegal in Austin TX and TABC (the liquor board) can and does make prostitution arrests and club managers do take them seriously. So in my opinion, it’s best to not write about that stuff in a review. Or if you absolutely must, then at least don’t name/describe the dancer in question and call anybody out.

No. But titty fucking or “Russian” is an extra.

But, her rubbing or slapping your Johnson on her nipples and tits is not an extra.

IMO a dancer who doesnt allow nipple sucking, wont provide extras in general, or may provide some but in a very mechanical way. Its one of the ways you can determine if the dancer is pimped or a scammer

Another way is DATY- it has zero risk to the dancer, some risk for the person doing it.