What's your Rhythm

Book Guy
I write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
How often do you find yourself wanting to go to strip clubs? I mean, in addition to the literal frequency with which you attend, what is your rate of DESIRE to attend?

For a lot my life I was kind of a two- or three-month man -- I would want to go five or six times, for five or six good full long nights, but then I would not want to go at all for about two or three months or so. Then the bout of desire would return. As I've gotten older the lapse between bouts has extended. Now I go years at a time being very uninterested in attendance; then I suddenly develop an urge and binge for several days a week, for a month or so. I don't know what causes the binges to get instigated. This seems to be how it's going, in my late adulthood.

I had other systems at other times in my life. When I was young I could be interested every night of the week, every week of the year but I couldn't always afford it. All that really mattered was whether other things were going on in my life. If I had a girlfriend (and hadn't yet tried to take her with me) I would pause on strip-clubbing. If the sports teams I played on were competing hard, I would want to stay fit so I wouldn't want to drink. And so forth. Even when I could afford it, I would often be trying to talk myself out of it, but then egging myself on with alcohol.

Also, a weird final note, when I was clubbing in an intermittent manner, I noticed that my desire to attend went fairly predictably with the phases of the moon -- really! -- feeling horny when the moon was full.

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TravelingBoredBusiness
6 months ago
My desire correlates with how many extras I can manage to get and quality of women.

If the women are hot and at least 7/10 and I get extras then 5 days a week, if I go to a club and don't get any extras maybe 2 nights in a row then I take a break and go into strip club hibernation for maybe 2 months or so and try to go somewhere else out of town/state.
stripperlover777
6 months ago
👽 Interesting About 🌙 Moon Effectiveness With The Body. That's A Good Tip For Us & Strippers @ OTC Some Where To View The Full Moon. May B It Would Add Stimulation For Strippers As Well!
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Puddy Tat
6 months ago
Very episodic. Twice a week for a month, then not at all for 6 months.
I'm on a nearly year-long hiatus but taking a buddy who's just out of jail clubbing in 3 weeks.
georgmicrodong
6 months ago
Depends in large part how much I'm getting outside the club. Like now, with my SB, not very often. Once a month, maybe twice, and not all night. Same was true with my ATF.

When there's no regular OTC, quite often. Once a week or more, and hitting multiple clubs.
rickthelion
6 months ago
Book Ape, were you bit what you perceived at the time to be a large dog? And, since that time, have you noticed yourself growing additional hair during the full moon?

Because, based on this post, I think it is possible that you are a werewolf. FYI, get yourself the werewolf cure. Werewolves suck. Always humpin’ the couch and shit like that. ROAR!!!
shadowcat
6 months ago
When my health allows me I'll resume once or twice a week unless I am seeing one of them OTC at my home. Then I won't go that week.
skibum609
6 months ago
All or nothing for me. I have been 4 out of the last seven nights and will now take a break for a month. Last 4 trips have been top 5% lifetime.
Context21
6 months ago
Whenever I do an intense leg workout. It cause your body to release more testosterone. I’ve got a couple of regular dancers who are more than eager to take care of me.
Book Guy
6 months ago
@rickthelion ROFL yes I'm a werewolf. PS should I call you RicktheApe or ApetheLion?
azdd
6 months ago
My rhythm is typically every week or two, but for me it’s also driven by spending levels. If I go a month with no club visits I get cranky, and start finding a way to get to a club, which suggests that this is a true addiction. After I’ve been away for awhile, when a favorite gets in my lap, when her ass backs up against my cock, or that nipple first brushes my lips, and my hands cup an incredible pair of tits, I feel a true sense of euphoria which is likely a dopamine rush to the pleasure centers of my brain. The need to repeat that effect drives my clubbing rhythm more than anything else.
wallanon
6 months ago
"How often do you find yourself wanting to go to strip clubs? I mean, in addition to the literal frequency with which you attend, what is your rate of DESIRE to attend?"

Almost never. There are few strip clubs that I actually enjoy as a place to "be". Until recently I didn't give it much thought, but a couple of times this year I've found myself skipping opportunities to go when it was convenient and likely would have ended with a stripper at my hotel. Point? The grind of the process now outweighs the gain (potential and actual).

It's not just enough for me to get a nice view, a hot time in VIP, or getting in the pants of a hot stripper. It needs to be *the* experience I want with *the* girl I want in *the* place I want or I'd rather not do it. Strip clubs are a means to an end, and I'm realizing now for me that's been the case for a long time now.

When I only did ITC then there was still the puzzle of what I could get done in club x, but after I made the jump to OTC club rules became almost irrelevant. I just need the place to have a decent lineup to work with. So as I think back now over all the strip club's I've seen, there are really only a few I enjoyed being in regardless of the girls.
Book Guy
6 months ago
@wallanon Interesting view, seems you've redirected your energy to OTC. I wonder if I'll move in that direction.

I personally find that I really value ITC, particularly for the comparison aspect. I really liked being able to see a line up of beauties AND PICK AMONG THEM. This was enjoyable to me similarly in the Red Light Districts of European cities, where I could stroll past umpteen girls in the Kamer or window and pick one girl slowly by comparison, or even pick none of them for that period of time. I didn't like comparing and picking from a website -- Eros, or another escorts-compendium site, f.e. -- half as much, partly because the girls won't be actually at my door for several hours (or days!) after I do the picking and choosing.

I also just value the experience of being in the "anonymous" zone of strip-club patron. I'm in a room with blinking lights, nobody knows my real name, I can make people go away or come over here automatically just by asking for it, I have no agenda, I have no place to be. The thing that bugs me the ABSOLUTE MOST is when a girl invades my space but is unwanted (that much is excusable, it's her job, I'll tip her and politely decline, maybe get her the drink if that's the way her club needs her to operate) and then fails to depart (that is inexcusable). The fact that this is my maximal annoyance, indicates to me that it contradicts my main reason for being there, and thus helps me identify what that reason is -- solitude. I am a rock. I am an island. Solitude with tits, please.

If I were after the OTC experience I believe I might indeed do it like you do. But I guess you can see why I'm still into the strip clubs, since it's a type of modification on the ITC experience that I'm seeking. To each his own!

captainfun
6 months ago
I’ve been going clubs consistently for 15 or so years. More than ever in the past couple of years. Even though I go every couple of weeks I’m almost always ready for the next adventure as soon as I catch up sleep. Often times I’m so amped about an upcoming trip that I’m like a kid on Christmas Eve the night before.

Just had that last week on a trip to Miami and my expectations were met.
JamesSD
6 months ago
I honestly go through phases, but those also are related to how much civvy action I'm getting. If women are keeping me drained outside of the club, I'm less keen to go to the club. I also go through periods where I want to go several times a week. Work stress also makes me want to go more, since it's a great way to blow off steam.
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