How often do you find yourself wanting to go to strip clubs? I mean, in addition to the literal frequency with which you attend, what is your rate of DESIRE to attend?
For a lot my life I was kind of a two- or three-month man -- I would want to go five or six times, for five or six good full long nights, but then I would not want to go at all for about two or three months or so. Then the bout of desire would return. As I've gotten older the lapse between bouts has extended. Now I go years at a time being very uninterested in attendance; then I suddenly develop an urge and binge for several days a week, for a month or so. I don't know what causes the binges to get instigated. This seems to be how it's going, in my late adulthood.
I had other systems at other times in my life. When I was young I could be interested every night of the week, every week of the year but I couldn't always afford it. All that really mattered was whether other things were going on in my life. If I had a girlfriend (and hadn't yet tried to take her with me) I would pause on strip-clubbing. If the sports teams I played on were competing hard, I would want to stay fit so I wouldn't want to drink. And so forth. Even when I could afford it, I would often be trying to talk myself out of it, but then egging myself on with alcohol.
Also, a weird final note, when I was clubbing in an intermittent manner, I noticed that my desire to attend went fairly predictably with the phases of the moon -- really! -- feeling horny when the moon was full.

