What's your Rhythm
Book Guy
I write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
How often do you find yourself wanting to go to strip clubs? I mean, in addition to the literal frequency with which you attend, what is your rate of DESIRE to attend?
For a lot my life I was kind of a two- or three-month man -- I would want to go five or six times, for five or six good full long nights, but then I would not want to go at all for about two or three months or so. Then the bout of desire would return. As I've gotten older the lapse between bouts has extended. Now I go years at a time being very uninterested in attendance; then I suddenly develop an urge and binge for several days a week, for a month or so. I don't know what causes the binges to get instigated. This seems to be how it's going, in my late adulthood.
I had other systems at other times in my life. When I was young I could be interested every night of the week, every week of the year but I couldn't always afford it. All that really mattered was whether other things were going on in my life. If I had a girlfriend (and hadn't yet tried to take her with me) I would pause on strip-clubbing. If the sports teams I played on were competing hard, I would want to stay fit so I wouldn't want to drink. And so forth. Even when I could afford it, I would often be trying to talk myself out of it, but then egging myself on with alcohol.
Also, a weird final note, when I was clubbing in an intermittent manner, I noticed that my desire to attend went fairly predictably with the phases of the moon -- really! -- feeling horny when the moon was full.
For a lot my life I was kind of a two- or three-month man -- I would want to go five or six times, for five or six good full long nights, but then I would not want to go at all for about two or three months or so. Then the bout of desire would return. As I've gotten older the lapse between bouts has extended. Now I go years at a time being very uninterested in attendance; then I suddenly develop an urge and binge for several days a week, for a month or so. I don't know what causes the binges to get instigated. This seems to be how it's going, in my late adulthood.
I had other systems at other times in my life. When I was young I could be interested every night of the week, every week of the year but I couldn't always afford it. All that really mattered was whether other things were going on in my life. If I had a girlfriend (and hadn't yet tried to take her with me) I would pause on strip-clubbing. If the sports teams I played on were competing hard, I would want to stay fit so I wouldn't want to drink. And so forth. Even when I could afford it, I would often be trying to talk myself out of it, but then egging myself on with alcohol.
Also, a weird final note, when I was clubbing in an intermittent manner, I noticed that my desire to attend went fairly predictably with the phases of the moon -- really! -- feeling horny when the moon was full.
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If the women are hot and at least 7/10 and I get extras then 5 days a week, if I go to a club and don't get any extras maybe 2 nights in a row then I take a break and go into strip club hibernation for maybe 2 months or so and try to go somewhere else out of town/state.
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I'm on a nearly year-long hiatus but taking a buddy who's just out of jail clubbing in 3 weeks.
When there's no regular OTC, quite often. Once a week or more, and hitting multiple clubs.
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Almost never. There are few strip clubs that I actually enjoy as a place to "be". Until recently I didn't give it much thought, but a couple of times this year I've found myself skipping opportunities to go when it was convenient and likely would have ended with a stripper at my hotel. Point? The grind of the process now outweighs the gain (potential and actual).
It's not just enough for me to get a nice view, a hot time in VIP, or getting in the pants of a hot stripper. It needs to be *the* experience I want with *the* girl I want in *the* place I want or I'd rather not do it. Strip clubs are a means to an end, and I'm realizing now for me that's been the case for a long time now.
When I only did ITC then there was still the puzzle of what I could get done in club x, but after I made the jump to OTC club rules became almost irrelevant. I just need the place to have a decent lineup to work with. So as I think back now over all the strip club's I've seen, there are really only a few I enjoyed being in regardless of the girls.
I personally find that I really value ITC, particularly for the comparison aspect. I really liked being able to see a line up of beauties AND PICK AMONG THEM. This was enjoyable to me similarly in the Red Light Districts of European cities, where I could stroll past umpteen girls in the Kamer or window and pick one girl slowly by comparison, or even pick none of them for that period of time. I didn't like comparing and picking from a website -- Eros, or another escorts-compendium site, f.e. -- half as much, partly because the girls won't be actually at my door for several hours (or days!) after I do the picking and choosing.
I also just value the experience of being in the "anonymous" zone of strip-club patron. I'm in a room with blinking lights, nobody knows my real name, I can make people go away or come over here automatically just by asking for it, I have no agenda, I have no place to be. The thing that bugs me the ABSOLUTE MOST is when a girl invades my space but is unwanted (that much is excusable, it's her job, I'll tip her and politely decline, maybe get her the drink if that's the way her club needs her to operate) and then fails to depart (that is inexcusable). The fact that this is my maximal annoyance, indicates to me that it contradicts my main reason for being there, and thus helps me identify what that reason is -- solitude. I am a rock. I am an island. Solitude with tits, please.
If I were after the OTC experience I believe I might indeed do it like you do. But I guess you can see why I'm still into the strip clubs, since it's a type of modification on the ITC experience that I'm seeking. To each his own!
Just had that last week on a trip to Miami and my expectations were met.