Is she a lesbian stripper or just Bi?

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shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
A favorite stripper of mine told me that a co worker stripper was lesbian and had a really butch lover. I accepted it as true because I had known her for a long time but a recent event made me question it.

I spent some time chatting with and got 4 dances from the reported lesbian. She told me she had a 16 yo son and a 5 yo daughter. She did complain about her room mates dog shedding hair. When the first song started she immediately got completely naked and gave me 4 dances that could only have been better in the privacy of VIP and she let me know that was on the table.

These actions do not sound like a true lesbian to me. So I'm guessing Bi.

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ww
10 months ago
It really doesn’t matter.

You can classify yourself whatever you want and switch to a different classification whenever you want at any point in time.

Be heterosexual yesterday, switch to lesbian today and be bisexual tomorrow.

Plenty of lesbians take dick for about 30 minutes a day and go right back to their lesbian activities.
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shailynn
10 months ago
Well we all have to put on different hats or act a certain way which may be out of our comfort zones while at work to achieve requirement/goals.

I guess being a lesbian and giving blowjobs may also fit into this category. Thank goodness I don’t have to give blow jobs at work.

I was thinking did shadowcat just get a lapdance from blahblahblah but then I realized he’s still alive so it definitely wasn’t her.
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Call.Me.Ishmael
10 months ago
There are porn actresses who identify as lesbian and are only turned on by (or attracted to) women, but do scenes with male actors because $$$.

But they make it clear that, except for work, they have have nothing to do with guys romantically or or sexually.

I imagine the same dynamic exists for dancers.

I also imagine that it's none of my business.
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funonthaside
10 months ago
Dancers can be 100% lesbian, yet engage in the activity as they view it as a good money source.

Many male dancers are gay, yet they dance at bachelorette parties.
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wallanon
10 months ago
Yeah my second ATF thought she was a lesbian (and had a very butch girlfriend) but we fucked all the time. Her girlfriend didn't like that and kept telling people she was going to stab or shoot me, but then when we actually met she thought I was ok so decided not to kill me lol. I looked her up a little while ago and she ended up married with children. And fat.
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wallanon
10 months ago
No wait, that was the third ATF. I get them mixed up lol...
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shailynn
10 months ago
^^^ did the stripper end up married and fat or the butch lesbian?

Craziest thing I ever saw - a guy I knew, was married, his wife left him and became a lesbian. Then, he starts dating a lesbian and marries her. He sent one away, and brought one back so to speak.
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jackslash
10 months ago
Maybe we drive dancers to lesbianism, like George Costanza.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehKShcCw…
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funonthaside
10 months ago
....and Kramer brings 'em back. Didn't even need to watch the video...somehow certain lines from that show are permanently engrained in our minds.
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Brahma2k
10 months ago
I dated a former stripper (she’d been out of the business 8 years). She said a lot of strippers had female-female relationships (including her). She also said the conventional wisdom was not to let that become known ITC
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DandyDan
10 months ago
There was one definite favorite I had who everyone at the club she worked at would tell me she's a lesbian. She seemed to be all right dancing for guys, though.

Outside the strip club scene, I knew a lesbian couple once where both of them could and would have sex with men. It was an odd situation in retrospect, but it was clear they were devoted to each other. Riding the double dildo may get old after a while and then they need the real thing.
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doctorevil
10 months ago
Who knows? There was a lesbian couple at Follies that took a liking to me. Did a few VIPs and OTC with them. They definitely loved having fun with each other, but liked to pleasure me as well.
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RTP
10 months ago
There is a dancer at my local club, late 30's, very pretty and well built, and divorced. She has two teenage kids. She tells me that she is now exclusively lesbian. I asked her what made her realize this? She said that she always got men who treated her poorly and her current partner never does that. I think she just has really bad taste in men, but who am I to understand what she really feels?

Her dances are not as good as they once were, but that may be age, changes at the club, etc.
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skibum609
10 months ago
I don't care if dancers are lesbian, but when they start telling me, I go soft. Having said that, doing a threesome with 2 bi/lez women is fucking amazing; well the first 100 or so times are.
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ilbbaicnl
10 months ago
There are two kinds of strippers:
1. The ones who think you're gross cause you're not a chick.
2. The ones who think you're gross cause you're you.
I like them both, as long as they don't say I'm gross to my face.
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stripperlover777
10 months ago
Strippers R Hot As Fire As Long As They Have Good Body!
☀️ 🔥 ⚡
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wallanon
10 months ago
"did the stripper end up married and fat or the butch lesbian?"

The stripper. I forgot the name of the butch one, but if she grew her buzz cut out and stopped dressing like Vanilla Ice (or Hip Hop John Cena for the younguns) she might've been a passable girl.
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