Bar style clubs
Pyroxl
Yonder
Recently visited an area with bar-style clubs. I'm used to the no-alcohol states where you sit in the main area and wait for them to come to you. In the bar-style, I sat and it took a long time for someone to come.
If you're used to the bar style, what's the typical flow? Like do you talk to multiple or go straight to the one you want? I know they like to hustle for drinks and one time I got hustled for a shot and then a drink right afterwards. Then, once I expressed sticker shock at the dance price (wanted 4 figures), she excused herself to the bathroom and promptly returned with a whale-looking fellow.
If you're used to the bar style, what's the typical flow? Like do you talk to multiple or go straight to the one you want? I know they like to hustle for drinks and one time I got hustled for a shot and then a drink right afterwards. Then, once I expressed sticker shock at the dance price (wanted 4 figures), she excused herself to the bathroom and promptly returned with a whale-looking fellow.
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I try to make eye contact, and if that fails, I'll walk over and introduce myself. Life is too short to sit a stripclub just hoping your favorite dancer comes to talk to you.
Then try to make eye contact, if possible. Begin to move closer and judge her reaction. If she ignores you, she's not interested. If she acknowledges your presence, ask if the seat or space next to her is available. If she seems friendly, introduce yourself by giving her your "club" name. Try to make some small talk. Let her mention dances and cost, etc. If she doesn't, but wants you to buy her a drink, just chuckle and politely decline saying you don't know her. Move on, she's hustling drinks.
It's important not to appear desperate. Another one may show up that you want.
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