I have been visiting strip clubs every two weeks for about the past year and has been a great hobby that I have discovered that brings me peace and I can go unwind with a drink and hot girls after a long week. I have come across many spectacular women that I am intrigued and turned on by but for the first time while having sex with my gf all I could think about was making sweet love to this new, young Puerto. Rican curvy chick that currently has my wallet and dreams in my local club. In fact these thoughts almost gave me more of a rush. In other sessions I am only thinking of my gf and her sexy body while doing the deed. Do you also find your mind fantasizing about your CF/ATF when with your wife/gf?
Ummmm… The first pic (playboy fir me) you see and the years of the rare good porn videos…the neighbor’s wife out at the pool to the cashier at the store….certainly one’s first love to the successive girlfriends and relationships…and strippers. That whole journey has been much about building one big mental photo and video app to be browsed through at times such as being ‘with’ your wife or girlfriend. And no guilt needed about it, she is very likely doing it too. (Pro tip: turn up the stereo volume when you’re with your girlfriend. That way if either of you yell out the wrong name, the music covers it).
Not judging because I’ve done it, but it’s a terrible practice. Not sustainable. Youve got to be in the moment, present with your partner. If you can’t do that, it’s over.
Horse is already out of the barn, if OP (a) is hitting SCs am every 2 weeks....but still a long way to go to catch up with other PLs and (b) having "sex" with girlfriend, but "making love" to his PR CF.
Tread carefully, my friend....you're beginning a dangerous (but super fun) journey.
Occasionally. One doesn't spend 40+ years in bed loving one woman (no matter how compatible) without sometimes spicing it up a bit with some fantasy between the ears. Like wife doing the initial kissing start, while 'Amoura' gets little steph up to full attention. And when wife switches places and 'Amoura' AND 'Tiffany' offer their amazing nipples for some serious sucking 😋 . What ever floats your boat. Course if you can't do it ever without stripper fantasy, perhaps the relationship needs thought/adjustment.
If I'm balls deep in one woman, it's hard for my attention to drift to another. But I've had a couple lovers that were so bad I thought "man, I wish I were jacking off right now."
Perfectly normal. Just don't give your partners a std or the social sigma of being a cuckold. Definitely don't find yourself being blackmailed by said Puerto Rican. But otherwise, hypergamy is just a normal fantasy.
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The first pic (playboy fir me) you see and the years of the rare good porn videos…the neighbor’s wife out at the pool to the cashier at the store….certainly one’s first love to the successive girlfriends and relationships…and strippers. That whole journey has been much about building one big mental photo and video app to be browsed through at times such as being ‘with’ your wife or girlfriend. And no guilt needed about it, she is very likely doing it too. (Pro tip: turn up the stereo volume when you’re with your girlfriend. That way if either of you yell out the wrong name, the music covers it).
Not sustainable. Youve got to be in the moment, present with your partner. If you can’t do that, it’s over.
Tread carefully, my friend....you're beginning a dangerous (but super fun) journey.
If you can only get/stay hard with your gf by thinking about other pussy, you've lost interest and should probably move on.
Like wife doing the initial kissing start, while 'Amoura' gets little steph up to full attention. And when wife switches places and 'Amoura' AND 'Tiffany' offer their amazing nipples for some serious sucking 😋 .
What ever floats your boat. Course if you can't do it ever without stripper fantasy, perhaps the relationship needs thought/adjustment.