Foxtails in Manville NJ. Why? Mostly because is was somewhat local to my workplace so I could sneak in a visit ever so often. ( and even closer when I lived in Bridgewater!) But also had some decent looking girls. Although a lot of larger so so girls as well you could generally find a couple of cuties here.
It had $30 dances that had decent millage, while not really extras and YMMV by the girl chosen it was a good value. There was also a $80 I believe "VIP" dance, although I never tried that here.
This place had a fair amount of trouble with the neighbors as it was smack dab in the middle of a working class neighborhood, I don't know of that was the ultimate reason it closed down, but its been gone for several years.

Al's in Newark, Club Celebration in Neptune, Stars and bars in Long branch, Fahrenheit in Asbury park. Phoenix in Asbury park.
all were wild party places. Anything was available. Phoenix might be the seediest place I've ever seen.