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Sitting in desires with a dancer I will call a "cf' although she was just the dancer I danced with the most. We are sitting at the bar and some guy is glaring at us. I mention it and she professes to not know why. They call her to the stage, so I say let's do a room and for the first time ever a dancer says "no" I can't. Desires is automatic about letting dancers skip stage sets and this is my first "no" so I say ok and she says she'll be back. She gets on the stage and Mr. Glare sits down and they engage in animated conversation for 3 songs.
I am now praying she doesn't come back, but of course she does. This is our conversation: Her "I don't have your number so I couldn't text you and let you know that all my OTC (never done it) and ITC is by appointment only. I am going to do nothing but appointments and stage dance, starting 3 days ago. My brilliant response? "ok, is that why Mr. Glare is pissing himself?" Her - He's my next appointment, he knows he is the first one of the night and he is mad because he thinks I am making a rule exception for you, when I wouldn't for him. Me - Go dance for him, you want to keep good clients. Her - I will right after I get your number so we can make an appointment for next time. Me - I don't give out my number or schedule appointments to see dancers and that means all dancers, not just you. Her - if you don't make an appointment, you won't be doing rooms with me and you know you will be missing out. Me - I understand. I wish you the best, take care. Her - Fuck you. Walks away. I laughed and she heard me. I feel bad. I have known her a long time and know she has self-esteem issues, and I didn't mean to laugh at her. I just find this whole appointment idea or the idea of having a regular you set up "dates" with to be ridiculous. To each their own, but to me the idea of strip clubbing is the excitement of new and different, not paying to have a girlfriend who thinks I am a chump, no matter what they might tell you. Why make a pretend romance out of a business transaction?
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last commentI’ve had similar experiences my response to her would be I don’t need a strip club wife, I come here to enjoy variety, if you can’t accommodate me…
SkiI know your old school but would it kill you to give a CF a number, it is 2022. Even some text app bullshit. I could see…
PM me with whomever this stuck up bitch is.
I tell every girl, I might like you, but it might not be your day.
And still some guys insist they are somehow "special" or "better than the other guys" - a PL is only as good as his $$$ and only as…
"Fuck you" would have gotten more than a laugh out of me. I can think of one dancer in particular that I have know for many years. Almost…
Wonder if she charges more to be first customer of the day? Guess that could be considered an extra “extra”.
Though one sometimes has to try and see things from the dancer's perspective - good chance that an established dancer at a club may have a good #…
Muddy - Have to say I'm in total agreement with Ski on this. I have a strict will not give my number to a stripper policy. …
Out of curiosity, what’s the bad outcome from giving out a phone number? (From a burner app)
The most stupid or creepy or insulting or whatever messages just…
I assumed that these days most folks in the SC game would be using burn #s instead of giving out one's real # - the burn-apps also should…
Wow! Good for her! She is figuring out her value and has stood up for herself! This is her way of getting rid of bitchy ungrateful customers.
Sounds…
pizza hut. lol.
my first take is vip appts are fine, especially if she's fined for not showing. depending on price i'd go right for the otcs appts.
they're all just…
In my experience, more and more extras dancers want regular appointments. It makes sense if they can get it: less sexual risk, more dependable income, and if…
I would try to avoid Mister Glare. He is that club's problem and that dancers's problem. Don't want pointless conflict in a strip club, or to…
I carry two phones. One that is work related and one that is personal. I don't mind giving my number or taking a number. I…
Exchanging numbers led to something funny just yesterday. My instagram account said one of my contacts had just created an instagram account. Not sure how this…
48-Cowboy is so stupid he has yet to figure out that old guys were young assholes once; just like him. We know a loser like him ain't…
I generally like exchanging numbers with a stripper and making an appointment to see her, if that's what you wanna call it. I don't see how…
You'll be missing out line shows she must still be learning to perfect her hustle game. I'd probably laugh my ass off honestly
Skibum, it sounds like you are very irresponsible and a bad time manager. No wonder your clients are low income bottom of the heap types. Just like you…
"A dancer's phone got hacked and I still get scam calls and spam because of it."
^ This is very unlikely. It's coincidence. Most scam/spam calls are…
If giving dancers one's #, one should use a burn #/app - I believe changing the burn # is fairly-easy if it becomes compromised/hacked
She’s a cunt