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Is buying dances really a chumps gsme?
Apr 24, 2022, 6:05 PM
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All that SJG says is that if you go to s strip club for sexual gratification you're better off seeking out extras than lap dances.
Tet why are you feeding the trolls?
Buying Dances is indeed a Chump's Game, and this should be obvious.
SJG
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Posted by a world class C H U M P!
Not if it leads to a bj.
Makeout Session and FS and then out the door with her will have much more effect on a girl.
SJG
SLD, need I remind you again that my F2f life is firewalled off from my online life, and it is extremely well protected. You know absolutely nothing about me.
SJG
You relate to women, weather they are coming out of a strip club our otherwise, without buying dances. Buying Dances is a Chump's Game.
SJG
I'm not taking strip club advice from a creepy guy who can't get an internet connection when the library closes.
That you don't know the difference between "weather" and "whether" also doesn't bolster confidence.
You relate to your women, but without buying dances, as buying dances is a chump's game, it is a stupid way to relate to women.
SJG
You're only attacking sjg for being sjg.
As his fellow tricks and whoremongers all of you have expressed disappointment in going to a club unable to find a prostitute and disappointed you only had dances.
Didn't that make you feel like chumps? Spending money on strippers you could have spent on hookers.
You basically agree with SJG
In a strip club there are plenty of better ways to relate to the women than buying dances.
How much really can happen in the club will depend on the club and the girl, but buying dances is never a smart move.
Welcome Eltriste to TUSCL.
SJG
Again SirLap, you are acting like you know something about my f2f life. You don't. You are just building siege scaffolds to try and attack my privacy wall.
Buying dances is really stupid, only chumps go along with it.
SJG
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SLD you're belittling and harassing a man on the internet for not telling you the last time he paid a young woman to grind on him for sexual satisfaction. Let that sink in
SLD does paying young women to grind on you for sexual satisfaction make you feel superior to other men?
SLD why do you spend your whole day harassing SJG on here? For being an old grown ass man you have too much free time. Do you get satisfaction from following him from thread to thread attacking him all day? Does ruining every thread give you satisfaction? You're the worst troll here.
How many years have you been attacking members jn every thread?
SJG said "Welcome Eltriste to TUSCL."
SJG has been on this site since 2014 (minus the time that the library was closed during the COVID shutdowns...), but yet remains clueless about how the site and its inhabitants operate. Don't worry, man. In roughly 3 to 5 additional years it'll dawn on you that Eltriste is Icey's alternate account.
Though everyone else here figured it out in moments.
SLD so you refuse to answer and reply with the very actions you're accused of. Ie following members from thread to thread for years making inane personal attacks.
SLD why do you follow members from post to post every day for years and attack them? Does ruining the forum give you satisfaction? Are you autistic and retarded so you're home on disability just doing this for years?
SLD, you don't get anything when buying dances, except for that endorphin rush. And you demonstrate in front of beautiful young women that you are an imbecile and someone who does not have the personal integrity or character to honor your marriage vows.
You have stupid idiotic practices.
And CMI, you know nothing about my, my f2f life is firewalled off from my online life and extremely well protected.
SJG
THe choice is to engage with you women, in strip clubs or outside, in better ways.
Once you meet them in a strip club, of course you want to get them outside ASAP. But even for that first meeting there is no reason to buy dances. If it is impossible to do anything else with her, then DATYing her in the dance booth has always gone over well. Lets her see you are saving your load for her.
SJG
SJG said "And CMI, you know nothing about my, my f2f life..."
I didn't say anything remotely connected to your "F2F" life, you muppet. I pointed out that you're clueless about how this site works, though you've been here since 2014.
SLD, you need to learn to read.
A long time ago you were a Troll. But now you are a Zombie. Go back to your grave.
And CMI, the board goes better when you are absent. That is very obvious.
SJG
SJG said "And CMI, the board goes better when you are absent."
It's interesting that you say that. Because TUSCL is great on Sundays.
SLD you are a drugged up zombie. A disabled man sitting jn front of a computer posting the same bs after SJG posts for years now.
CIM do you actually contribute anything on here other than posting after anyone you don't like just to call them a troll?
Eltriste why did you make this new account? Yoi can’t post from the main?
Eltriste, just like icey you spelled it CIM instead of cmi
All this over a misspelling!
SJG had amorous desires for monkeys before he turned to goats.
Sadly, a monkey cheated on him with a stripper.
His anger caused him to post - buying dances is a chimps game.
It has nothing to do with us. It’s his misguided anger.
Sirlapdancealot Thwts crazy what did she look like. I have never seen a middle eastern dancer. Middle eastern dancers seem extremely rare, maybe due to cultural norms or stigmas. Some on here were saying many of them deny being middle eastern and claim to be latin. What was the mileage in your dance, did you rub her pussy?
@SJG What is F2F?
Face to face
She's a middle eastern stripper hoe...
Not a fan though
@Eltriste jeez one middle eastern pornstar opened the floodgates for the rest and more women's rights really let it loose.
Weird way for SJG to phase he seperates real life interactions from online persona.
SLD, if you are saying that you only have options A and B open, so you either have to get nothing or make and imbecile of yourself buying dances in a strip club, I can see how that could be.
Guys with an SO should not be in strip clubs. You have conveniently convinced yourself that LDKing is not marital infidelity. And your wife goes along with it because she feels that she has no choice.
Well, you can't go thru life married, but pretending that you are not. It doesn't work.
Women can smell you out at 50', and so can everyone else. You are a guy with no personal integrity.
So we have Swingers Clubs, and they are good for many married couples. And we have Marriage Counselors, and we have Divorce Lawyers. At some point you have to stand up for what you really believe in.
SJG
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Buying dances is pretty great.
"Guys with an SO should not be in strip clubs. "
Says who? This is what you just can't seem to get. Some people go to clubs not to find girlfriends, not to cheat on their wives, not to cum in their pants, but just to have a good time. If they have a couple of drinks, spent time in the company of a pretty girl, got a couple of dances, and left feeling they had a good time, it was just a form of entertainment. Same as going to a restaurant, a play, a concert, Disney World, or anything else. It beats sitting at home or a hotel room watching TV. Couples define their own relationships. If the SO is okay with it, who are you to judge.
^ If you have absolutely no idea how to engage with women you might say that.
SJG
"This is what you just can't seem to get. Some people go to clubs not to find girlfriends, not to cheat on their wives..."
But it is cheating. Even spending time or money in a strip club is cheating.
A GF might not feel that she can enforce against it, but a wife will.
People define their own relationships, but not with covert cheating. Some people do have open marriages. And some people do this via swingers clubs. But this is all out in the open relative to the spouse. The women are more crazy about it than the men are. There is no coercion to go a long with it here.
Strip clubs are too expensive just to kill time in, and not really try to engage with the women. That is, unless you think the women who dance in strip clubs are some special lower category of women.
SJG
"Strip clubs are too expensive just to kill time in, "
Trust me, I can afford it.
You can afford it, you can afford to burn money in a brass offering bowl. It is still really ridiculous.
SJG
Look, I'm not trying to be mean here, but I don't believe you have ever had a meaningful relationship with a woman. I don't think you were ever married. Your fantasy about women falling for you if you talk to them like they're civilians, feed them money, get them to kiss you is child-like in it's naivete. I really hope for your sake you find your Squeaky Fromme soon.
^^ datinman, he is you just treat women like ordinary people, things can go real well.
^SLD, you are a pathetic clown. I can guess how it worked for you, married before you had much experience with women, probably friends introducing, church groups, matchmaker girl cliques, etc.
Fast forward to the present you convince yourself that LDKing in strip clubs is not marital infidelity and you are completely unwilling to live up to your commitments and obligations.
Buying Dances is a Chump's Game, and we have clubs like that because there are lot of chumps out there.
SJG
For me, things go great when I buy dances.
CMI, you mean you cum in your pants.
SLD, you know absolutely nothing about me. You used to be a troll, now you are a zombie. Go back to your grave.
SJG
SLD, you are the one who sees the choices as Buying Dances in Strip Clubs or Nothing. I have never lived like that and I never will.
SJG
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SJG said "CMI, you mean you cum in your pants."
Nope.
SLD, buying dances is a chump's game, and you are the only one, you and CMI, who lives with that as your only option.
SJG
SLD, fully nude so her nude pussy grinding on your cock? She played with your cock and balls from outside the pants? Is that considered an extra? Isnt grinding the pussy on the cock a normal part of lapdance?
SJG do you think its cheating if a stripper in a relationship is giving lapdances etc?
Bigger question is "why should one listen to SJG on this matter?"
I can't come up with a good answer, either.
SJG said "SLD, buying dances is a chump's game, and you are the only one, you and CMI, who lives with that as your only option."
The guy who shouldn't lecture anyone about a lack of options is the guy who can't get to the internet on Cesar Chavez Day because the library is closed.
Buying dances is great because it gives me the option to choose a sexy woman, have a great time with her, and then go home without any complications.
Which is what 99% of the guys here do, and the dancers are thankful because it covers their bills. You're the one living in a creepy rape cult echo chamber for 8+ years.
Also, buying dances is awesome.
As far as a woman in a strip club cheating, that is up to her.
Buying dances is a chumps game, most of the guys who do it are just cheating on their wives so they can really engage with the women who dance in strip clubs.
CMI, you know nothing about me and are just a pathetic creep.
SJG
^ Why should we listen to you on this matter?
It's completely obvious, you should be able to see for yourselves that Buying Dances is Always a Chump's Game. You just have to think it through a little.
In other countries where the rules are looser, people don't "buy dances".
And in looser US clubs people don't "buy dances".
SJG
@SJG, you could have just been honest and succinct and said "I don't have a good answer, and my broken life has nothing worth emulating."
Buying Dances is a Chump's Game.
In our underground places you don't buy dances, they just start dancing for you and you give them tip money. At the most extreme of these, the girls were getting your willy out and climbing on to it, front room.
In a more moderate place, you can give the girl front room money and lead the interaction and get her softened up and into a Front Room Make Out Session. THen when ready you invite her to the back room.
SJG
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^ You're buying dances, you nitwit.
I'm sure no one actually follows SJG's advice. The problem is that he types it out everyday like someone asked for it. No one else here types out daily what they want to happen in a strip club. And then tries to force those preferences on everyone else.
People talk about having a great time when they bought dances and here comes this fool SJG to say that same tired ass line, followed by his tired ass advice that he himself has never done. It's annoying, insulting, and why he will always get the responses he gets.
^ SLD, you are still trying to build siege scafolds to attack the privacy of my f2f life. My f2f life is private and very well protected.
Go back to your grave and let decomposition run its course.
Only after Deja Vu got going did buying dances become common. Original lap dancing was all front room. Girl just jumped onto your lap. You have a greater ability to lead it that way.
And guys who look down on the women who dance in strip clubs, or who are covertly cheating on their wives buy dances.
SJG
The way this dude pulls shit out of his ass and writes it as if it's a fact is funny. Here let me try that:
Guys who never write reviews are virgins who have never even seen a vagina. Perhaps they should visit a high mileage club to change that. I would suggest going to Tijuana. But people who don't write reviews are also broke, so they can't afford plane tickets.
TFP is unable to even read. All he can do is try to attack the privacy of my f2f life.
SJG
So you can pull shit out of your ass all day but when someone else does it it's an attack on your privacy? You can call people you don't know cheaters and accuse them of looking down on dancers? But when you are called out it's an attack on your privacy?
There are more retards in this thread than there are on the short bus I just passed in traffic.
TFP said "I'm sure no one actually follows SJG's advice."
If we're being realistic, I'm pretty sure that SJG doesn't follow SJG's advice.
TFP, my F2F life is private. You know nothing about it. What you have demonstrated in times past is that you like giving yourself a concussion by running into my privacy wall.
That's right, Shailynn's mom is a graduate of the Bob Bondurant School of High Performance Driving, and with their new Pacifica with an 8 speed automatic transmission, coupled to the engine control computer and computerized variable valve independent for intake and exhaust, she passes truck and busses and a guy from CA driving a FIAT all the time.
That is the only way she can get Shailynn to all the gigs for the West Texas Christian Glee Club.
SJG
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^^ SJG, I don’t even think you know wtf this means and you wrote it! I’m sure nobody else knows what the fuck you’re talking about either, just like nobody knows wtf you’re talking about in all of your other threads, and that’s not even threatening your privacy wall. That’s just what we know about you as a member who’s never written a review about being inside an actual strip club!
Zombie SLD, I only respond to what people post.
You know nothing about my f2f life. If you did you wouldn't even be a Zombie, you'd be burned down to carbon cell by cell.
SJG
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You know nothing about my f2f life. I would say that you are suicidal, but then you aren't even alive any more.
I had thought an open hearth 2800 deg F cremation was the best way to deal with a Zombie. Fortunately this doesn't happen every day.
But now I read that a military grade flame thrower with full take of oil will do the job.
SJG
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SLD: blogs.icrc.org
You know nothing about me and you never will, alive, dead, or reduced to carbon.
And nothing could persuade me to become like you, someone who makes an ass of himself with beautiful women.
SJG
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Would do you good?
People say the same thing about marijuana.
SLD you know nothing about me. Go back to your grave. Don't make me have to put you there carbon only:
SJG
SLD, you need to get yourself to the safety of the Underground Circle Jerk Room.
You know the pass phrase, "Women Are Superfluous".
Pump some jizz out, and then you will feel fine with your clearly wretched life.
Oh wait, I'm not sure if a Zombie can ejaculate.
SJG
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Well you know that goats can so no worries for you.
SLD my F2F life is private and extremely well protected, and the last thing I would want is to be around people like you.
SJG
You really have no idea what you are saying or who you are saying it to. I'd point out that you are an imbecile. But you are already dead.
It okay though, they'll let you into the underground circle jerk room. They finished airing out the Clorox now.
SJG
The Thrill is Gone + Summertime (BB king + George Gershwin cover) youtube.com
^ SLD my f2f life is private and extremely well protected. Shouldn't be that hard to understand.
I know what bothers you, its cause you can't ejaculate anymore, being a Zombie.
At least you still have your wife to tie your shoes for you each morning.
SJG
I protect my f2f life and its privacy. I don't take candy from strangers. If there is a problem I will act at once.
SJG
Back to your grave you Zombie Stalker!
SJG
" I don't take candy from strangers. If there is a problem I will act at once."
In other words, he has his own skittles.
I always have everything I need.
SJG
Including your own phone, computer, and internet connection?
Us guys who buy dances, depending on our finances, can enjoy a different hottie writhing in our lap and servicing us every week. For those who are too concerned about being viewed as a chump, this is a pleasure in life they will never experience.
@TheeOSU, that was SAVAGE.
Well sometimes the truth might hurt a little bit, Lol
@SLD we've already seen how many people have offered SJG something similar, right? I mean Founder himself offered to basically finance SJG's trip to TJ. He turned that down with the same excuse about his F2F life being protected blah blah blah.
I offered years ago for us to meet up at a club and hang. I wanted to see him run his system in person. Of course he refused.
To be honest, I don't see him as a person with many friends, if any at all. I mean he said it himself, he has no acknowledgement of the word fun. He thinks weed and alcohol is evil. Doesn't sound like anyone I'd want to be around lol.
Yeah besides the obvious homeless/library situation he's definitely a mentally ill uptight twerp with a head full of bizarre fantasies!
To quote the legendary Ron Burgundy, “Wow! That escalated quickly.”
“That’s why you got to keep you’re head on a swivel when you find yourself in the middle of a cock fight!”
You're wrong about SJG. Namely coz you don't even know how a library works. And not wanting to meet anyone on an online forum is no big deal.
I think ita really interesting how he supports paying for sex in amps strip clubs bath houses. But so vehemently demonizes lap dances.
He posted on his site during the lockdown. You can't stay on a library computer all day. SJ has free public wifi Hotspots.
Your antagonism isn't warranted. Tge only conflict is the one in your head. SJG has his own site he posted on. Not here. And something had to happen because he came back less lucid.
My theory is better than yours.
SJG clearly depends on other people's bandwidth to access the internet. To access this site, he just as clearly depends on the San Jose Public Library system, as his time here exactly syncs up to library hours (including a day off for Cesar Chavez Day).
During the COVID lockdown, founder took an informal poll to see if he should build a "backdoor" to allow SJG access. Not surprisingly, the sentiment was strongly against. So, that didn't happen.
Via back-channels of some sort, SJG let it be known that his internet access during lockdown was "communal" in nature and didn't allow him to get to TUSCL.
However you want to cut that cake, creepy rape cult guy doesn't have the ability to sort out his own internet connection.
SLD, why do you prefer spending money on lapdances instead of an escort? Is it due to legal concerns with escorts, or cuz lapdances are safer for disease risks?
But you do want extras like the OTP stuff they were doing and pussy grinding on crotch? You wouldnt want to actually have sex with a stripper?
SLD you can easily say his schedule revolves around that of a half way house or shelter. But thanks to his f2f life firewall it's all just assumptions.
@Icey aka Eltriste we considered that a while back, some kind of institutionalization. I thought maybe it was a mental hospital he was in. But the fact that his posting lines up perfectly with the San Jose library's schedule made me rethink the mental hospital thing. I don't think mental health institutions celebrate Cesar Chavez day like the San Jose library does.
Halfway house makes more sense because he just has to be back by curfew. But are you not allowed to have your own cellphone there? Because I always wondered why he doesn't just get some cheapo smart phone with an unlimited data plan.
Halfway houses have rules on internet access TV access etc after curfew. They're anal with rules.
A fully homeless person with a mental illness would have more pressing measures to deal with on a daily basis than being online. Food and shelter would take precedence.
Plus SJ is a mid sized city. Like 1.5 million. I don't see someone being able to consistently get so much library computer time.
The one thing that's obvious though is that his mental health really declined when he came back after the lockdowns.
Is there an odd relationship between SJG and that Third Eye dude?
It seems that Third Eye is either a naive teen or he has no common sense. He also seems to believe the odd stuff SJG posts.
There’s some odd stuff that Third Eye dude posts.
Wow, Icee/Butba/Eltrise, how can someone like you be an expert about everything? From halfway houses to library hours for San Jose, and stripper hoes to politics at the national level to even pharmaceutical sales! It’s like you know everything there is about any topic. The same can be said about SJG, too. Too this off with you also know how to attract women for free sex and workout your body to perfection so the stripper hoes find you irresistible and you even say you can cook like a gourmet chef, all at the tender young age of less than 30! Yet what yiu decide to do with your time is spend it all day in here bashing people because they’re not as good as you.
I want to know what your secret is to becoming an idiot savant? Is there some special mentor you hire to teach you everything there is to know about life, or are you just that special to know it all and be such an expert on all things? No wonder every chick wants to be with you and every guy wants to be like you!
Mate, do you think a nice ripped body helps with strippers and escorts and getting discounts and stuff
^^ how the fuck would I know, and why the fuck so you want to know? Every girl(person) is looking for something different and at different times. Go stfu you troll! Come up with some less juvenile discussions.
regarding 3rdeyedougster, I can't believe the naivete of some of you guys questioning and/or trying to analyze him. It's so fucking obvious the guy is a FUCKING TROLL yet you can't see it. No wonder you overpay and let strippers control you! Not sure if I should sigh or roll my eyes.
Out of everyone here, Ishmael, Gammanu, and maybe one or two other guys see what I see, the rest of you are wearing blinders.
He doesn't have to specifically troll an individual to be a troll.
Yeah I don't even pay the third eye guy anymind. TBH I just thought it was the same person who made the BBC troll account in the past. All they do is ask a shit ton of questions. It's actually the easiest kind of troll to ignore because you just don't answer the questions.
^
Fair enough.
Mate comon ive treated you with nothing but respect TheeOsu you too
Cashman, no relationship with me and SJG but i was invited to join the Organization. SJG will be supporting good long term careers for many dancers. I’m happy to have received the Invitation
BTE is Dougster. SJG thinks his trolling is entertaining and intelligent. I think he just likes the attention and posts to piggyback off. SJG Nicespice and others got him to come back and troll.
And now we have confirmation of troll-dom(dumb). I’m sure SJG can affirm that invite, right?
Yeah if there was any doubt then that last post by bigthirdeye pretty much confirmed his troll status.
Tfp what do you mean by trolling? SJG actually invited me to the Organization. I told him I’d be willing to sew my asshole shut to join the Organization
You guys talk about me more than you talk about women. I guess it is like that in the circle jerk room.
Buying dances is an idiotic way of relating to beautiful women!
SJG
Gimme Shelter [Rolling Stones Cover] - Britny Lobas at The Roost Austin, Tx youtube.com
It's their job to dance
It is their job to dance, and they dance on stage. Off stage you should be able to find better ways to interact with them besides buying dances.
Now if you have an SO you should be with that SO and only engage with other people when you and the SO do it together.
SJG
Gimme Shelter [Rolling Stones Cover] - Britny Lobas at The Roost Austin, Tx youtube.com
Their job is to sell dances off stage
Yes but you can divert them, especially be feeding them front room money. Front room money is better because their should be no house cut.
You don't have to do this very often. Just pick the one you intend to be waking up in the mornings with.
SJG
Be honest now, how many strippers spent the night in your box and woke up with you?
Maybe ZERO? Yeah that's the number!
SLD, you just want to use strip club women and cheat on your wife.
SJG
Gimme Shelter [Rolling Stones Cover] - Britny Lobas at The Roost Austin, Tx youtube.com
SLD, I just know that this subject of strip clubs attracts imbeciles. And you were an imbecile, but no you are a zombie. You still have your wife to tie your shoes in the mornings though.
SJG
Gimme Shelter [Rolling Stones Cover] - Britny Lobas at The Roost Austin, Tx youtube.com
SLD, you are just a zoned out creep who uses chemical mood alterants and uses women pretty much the same way.
And you you're a zombie who has got bits and pieces dropping of and gets the energy to move around by self digestion. And on top of that you are a stalker.
SJG
Gimme Shelter [Rolling Stones Cover] - Britny Lobas at The Roost Austin, Tx youtube.com
^ What's with the "zombie" insult? That's random.
SLD, you've got to face the fact that I maintain a 2000' clear zone in front of my privacy wall. When you continued to violate that, the result was inebitable.
So get back to your grave and let decomposition proceed. It will go easier on you for your next reincarnation.
SJG
Gimme Shelter [Rolling Stones Cover] - Britny Lobas at The Roost Austin, Tx youtube.com
I maintain a 2000' dead zone in front of my privacy wall. Nothing alive is in there. Siege scaffolds get burnt down. Corpses and Zombies get incinerated.
Not everyone is an imbecile like you use to be. Not everyone uses chemical mood alterants or uses women the same way, or pretends they have a working marriage when they don't.
And BUYING DANCES IS A CHUMP"S GAME!
SJG
Gimme Shelter [Rolling Stones Cover] - Britny Lobas at The Roost Austin, Tx youtube.com
Still bringing your rotting dead carcass into the clear zone in front of my privacy wall.
Go back to your grave you zonbie stalker!
SJG
Gimme Shelter [Rolling Stones Cover] - Britny Lobas at The Roost Austin, Tx youtube.com
I live and I learn SLD. You can try to do that in your next lifetime.
But for now you go to Sheol, to be with the others who have disrespected the privacy of my f2f life.
SJG
Gimme Shelter [Rolling Stones Cover] - Britny Lobas at The Roost Austin, Tx youtube.com
Guys please calm down, SJG has military commando intelligence. It might be anonymous for us but he can track any of us down and potentially sew the asshole shut. You don’t want to mess with someone with prior military commando intelligence.
Do you have a death wish for your inbox?
SJG is going to resurrect this thread in 2030.