Anyone ever had a hot dancer moving around on you so fast that you wondered if she was trying to get off on you? I had this happen to me last night and was thinking about asking her to slow down. If anyone was watching, you would have thought she was really going at it. The thing I thought was strange was that she doesn't typically dance like that either. She had to be tired after those last two dances because I haven't seen too many dancers with that much energy. She was really fast. I think she was sliding back and forth on top of me faster than any dancer I have ever seen. Next time I think I'll ask her to slow down.
We need to know more details including 1. how busy was the club at the time? 2. how busy has it been recently? 3, have you danced with her before? apparently yes 4. was she Brazilian? 5. how old was she. 6. Where is she on a 1 to 10 scale? 7. could she have been on speed or some other drug? 8, how many dances were you buying. 9. is she trying to convince you to become a regular? 10. how fast is fast, (thrusts per minute) 11. is this a high contact state? 12. what was the exact contact point?
My guess is that unless you happen to hit her during her super-horny window (Day 14 plus or minus 3 days) - odds are she's trying to improve performance for competive reasons, and that usually means she's improving her technique for getting YOU off, regardless of whether you do or do not do that type of thing in clubs
My guess is that she was receiving pretty good clitoral action from rubbing on you.
I have had occasions where dancers were getting good friction on their clits while "rocking the cock" so to speak (back & forth). If you're wearing dark colored trousers, you might want to check for 'stains' around that area of the trousers, as I have had whitish colored stains in the crotch area after good friction dances. The stains are more apparent if the dancer has pulled her thongs to the side.
In 35 years of SC-ing I have had this happen a couple of times. I consider it the nearest thing to being in heaven becuz the stripper is breaking the rules of her own profession. In one of the two cases, the girl wasn't even interested in my tip. She just wanted to give me, and herself, the maximum erotic joy in the shortest possible time. Yayyy. All the questions that David9999 posed are totally irrelevant. The best explanation that I can offer is when a couple of different moods or existential conditions coincide with the dancer to get her into an exalted state of eroticism. I agree about the importance of the menstrual cycle, and it can also be prompted by a recent breakup with an SO giving the dancer a temporary "what the hell, go for it" attitude. Another factor could be a sense of joy and sharing -- something wonderful just happened in the dancer's life and she is celebrating. In fact these two conditions could even be the same thing -- dumping an abusive SO could be a great cause for celebration. Whatever the explanation, it is probably a very fleeting condition, to be savored at the time and then fondly remembered forever. It is not something one dancer can sustain over an extended period of time.
After 7 years of SC-ing I have this experience (as described by bones above) on almost all LP occasions. Before doing significant business with dancers, I screen them by asking them if they enjoy this experience, and if yes, I agree to do business with them. But equally important I also treat them very well by being very gentle and affectionate with them before, during, and after the dance. I make it clear to them that I am interested in their experience and enjoyment as much as I am in mine.
This experience is the next best thing to OTC and/or being allowed to touch the kitty, which most dancers would enjoy but prefer not to allow for fear of losing their job if caught by the bouncer.
Here again, it is not at all uncommon for a dancer to "get into the LD" herself. The dancer, usually has to be relaxed and enjoy her customer. I may sound like I'm boasting on this example, but I'm not really doing that. My current FAV dancer at The Exotic Pearl gets "her nut", so to speak, just about everytime we go back to the VIP booth. I constantly have white colored stains in the front of my pants, and she's dripping down her leg by the time we're finished, requiring her to change to a different and clean outfit. Of course, you have to keep in mind that we're not staying within the realm of the club rules either!
When a guy can get major clitoral stimulation with a dancer, then in most cases she is enjoying the LD also. I realize when we pay for LDs, we are paying for OUR enjoyment, but it doesn't hurt the ego to know "she" is also enjoying the experience with you. The screaming or moaning of a dancer in her LD is sometimes faked, but proof is in the pudding (or rather pudding is on your trousers)! :-)
I had a dancer once at the Cadillac Lounge in RI pound down, up, and around on me so hard that she almost hurt me! I had to grab her waist and slow her down...she was sweating by the time she was done with our dances. We also got "talked to" by the housemom that was walking up and down the LD area (for breaking some rules I guess). It was funny. I'm not a hard pounding dance kind of guy myself.
Some dancers would likely put this into the category of "cultivating a regular", in other words this dancer (while actually or pretending to get herself off) IS trying to get your off, and she believes the odds are higher that you will return more often to her as a customer if she is successful. We do know this: she's certainly got your attention, and most guys would want to go back again, even if she doesn't do it everytime it would be worth the risk to many guys.
The cash flows to dancers have been weakening for the past 6 to 8 months in most markets in the U.S., consistent with a general economic slowdown in many categories of descretionary luxury goods or services, and dancers are using all sorts of techniques to kick up their business.
Just based upon some of the comments on this thread; dancers should probably be trying something like this with every promising (i.e. potential regular) customer.
for example:
"a couple of different moods or existential conditions coincide with the dancer to get her into an exalted state of eroticism."
"to be savored at the time and then fondly remembered forever"
"This experience is the next best thing to OTC and/or being allowed to touch the kitty"
From the sounds of other posters, I am in the minority. I prefer soft and sensual to fast and furious. I only know one dancer that can get me off by just grinding and she knows it. The only thing that has prevented it was the fact that I was not ready to leave the club yet. She knows how to meet my thrust with hers. Only 32/100" of material separating us. The constant smiles and endless erotic looks along with some well place kisses makes me know that one of these days I am going to leave the club early.
I'm actually in agreement with shadowcat this time. I prefer slower. She was way too fast. I think she's already become a bit of a favorite with me. I'd rate her around a 9 or 10 in looks. She seems to be picky about which guys she dances for as well I noticed before she started becoming more routine for me. She gave me 2 slower dances and then I moved so I could see her better. That's when she started going a bit wild on me. No one was around except possibly some hidden cameras. I didn't know if she was acting but I did enjoy hearing her making some soft moaning sounds.
Most definitely, my preference is also the slow, sensual, erotic dance, with a lot of eye contact, etc. The timing of this topic is perfect because a dancer that has sky rocketed on my list lately, and is threatening to pull close to ATF status, has employed the "fast grinding/rocking" in her dances with me.
I've only been with her on two occasions - one 1.5 hr VIP session, and one 6+ hr VIP session. 98% of the time, she gives me the slow, sensual dance, and keeps me at just the right level of excitement for LONG periods of time... you know, the level where you are hovering on the brink of going past the point of no return... (with her, the warning on the Viagra commercials where it states that it's dangerous to have an erection lasting more than four hours... had me worried!) Anyhow, getting back to the topic, she has thrown in some of this fast work on several occasions. I mean when she kicks into that gear, there is so much friction going on that spontaneous combustion is a distinct possibility. As she's doing this, her eyes are locked onto mine and she gets her "devilish" grin on her face that tells me she knows she could push me over the edge at any second.... combined with her biting her lip and licking her lip which to me indicates she's enjoying, too. In addition to all of that, she's usually reaching down and massaging "the boys", and/or sticking her hand between us to massage the monster...
I'm not sure if she's testing my stamina, or trying to make me get off... or trying to get herself off... or both of us...
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My guess is that unless you happen to hit her during her super-horny window (Day 14 plus or minus 3 days) - odds are she's trying to improve performance for competive reasons, and that usually means she's improving her technique for getting YOU off, regardless of whether you do or do not do that type of thing in clubs
I have had occasions where dancers were getting good friction on their clits while "rocking the cock" so to speak (back & forth). If you're wearing dark colored trousers, you might want to check for 'stains' around that area of the trousers, as I have had whitish colored stains in the crotch area after good friction dances. The stains are more apparent if the dancer has pulled her thongs to the side.
This experience is the next best thing to OTC and/or being allowed to touch the kitty, which most dancers would enjoy but prefer not to allow for fear of losing their job if caught by the bouncer.
When a guy can get major clitoral stimulation with a dancer, then in most cases she is enjoying the LD also. I realize when we pay for LDs, we are paying for OUR enjoyment, but it doesn't hurt the ego to know "she" is also enjoying the experience with you. The screaming or moaning of a dancer in her LD is sometimes faked, but proof is in the pudding (or rather pudding is on your trousers)! :-)
The cash flows to dancers have been weakening for the past 6 to 8 months in most markets in the U.S., consistent with a general economic slowdown in many categories of descretionary luxury goods or services, and dancers are using all sorts of techniques to kick up their business.
Just based upon some of the comments on this thread; dancers should probably be trying something like this with every promising (i.e. potential regular) customer.
for example:
"a couple of different moods or existential conditions coincide with the dancer to get her into an exalted state of eroticism."
"to be savored at the time and then fondly remembered forever"
"This experience is the next best thing to OTC and/or being allowed to touch the kitty"
I've only been with her on two occasions - one 1.5 hr VIP session, and one 6+ hr VIP session. 98% of the time, she gives me the slow, sensual dance, and keeps me at just the right level of excitement for LONG periods of time... you know, the level where you are hovering on the brink of going past the point of no return... (with her, the warning on the Viagra commercials where it states that it's dangerous to have an erection lasting more than four hours... had me worried!) Anyhow, getting back to the topic, she has thrown in some of this fast work on several occasions. I mean when she kicks into that gear, there is so much friction going on that spontaneous combustion is a distinct possibility. As she's doing this, her eyes are locked onto mine and she gets her "devilish" grin on her face that tells me she knows she could push me over the edge at any second.... combined with her biting her lip and licking her lip which to me indicates she's enjoying, too. In addition to all of that, she's usually reaching down and massaging "the boys", and/or sticking her hand between us to massage the monster...
I'm not sure if she's testing my stamina, or trying to make me get off... or trying to get herself off... or both of us...