Thinking about trying escorts. Advice?

protonmail.com theeroticreview.com . Good luck avoiding screening.

You have the least chance of getting ripped off if you just go to the blade stroll whatever it's called in your city. You'll get the best price and what you see is what you get.

Online you open yourself up to getting scammed . If you go that route always FaceTime with them firat.

The best place is as described above, Theeroticreview. Pay a monthly membership and read the reviews. Go with a girl with a good background in reviews and is reviewed by members with lots of reviews. I say this because, back 10 years ago, Vice went online and posted fake escort and customer profiles to entrap both in San Diego. That being said, there are a lot of reviews with both having good reputations.

You can get ripped off if you just go to a website that only advertises escorts. There are legitimate girls on these sites but also some that are scammers.

In most areas, for decent looking mid-level girls and up, you'll need to provide references or ID. The good news is, you'll only need to do this once, so just make a safe choice. Once you see that first girl once or twice, she'll be willing to be a reference for you in the future, and you can build up a base of references, assuming you do this often enough. Many girls won't provide references if you haven't seen them in a while, so if you take two years off from escorts, you might be back to square one again.

The huge safety advantage for escorts is that you can read reviews in advance. Get yourself a membership at a good review site, find someone who is incredibly well reviewed, this is your best bet for not getting ripped off, mugged by the pimp, blackmailed, etc. Do not see anyone without extensive reviews, as mike mentions, by reviewers with lots of reviews.

@3131

I will play along and comment on your discussion.

Eros, Tryst and Slixa have been around for some time and and do have some “real escorts” (20 to 30 percent IMHO&LE)

I have only once provided my Old LinkedIn link, when LinkedIn was just starting, to a real super high end, college educated Southern Belle, because she was smoking hot and a real dime, and she offered to “meet for coffee” as a screenings option instead of references.

I never send money (deposit in advance) or provide pictures or driver license, etc just my first “nick” name and my “profession”, I use a burner phone with some “history”.

During the texting conversation just ask:

“U think it’s a good idea to get a glimpse of each other before meeting, I asume we can Video Chat For a few seconds, right?”

If she says “no” it is up to you to take your chances, but chances are the pictures are not a true representation of the provider.

Sometimes you have to take one for the team, and take a chance, only use money you do not need, and will be ok with using it as payment for the “life lesson”, finding out if she is the real deal.

These are some steps/recommendations

1. Find and independent (the best you can afford)
2. Go to her place (in call),
3. Be ready to turn around and walk away if she is not of your liking or doesn't look like the pics (bait and switch).
4. Is better if her incall is in a high end neighborhood, less likely the police will mess with rich wealthy powerful influential celebrities, politician, business men etc. clients.
5. You have to look the part of a good customer, shower, shave, groom yourself, be well dressed, clean, clean, clean.
6. If you do run into the police, keep your mouth shut and only ask to speak to your attorney, chances are you won't even get arrested or cited, walk away.

I wrote an article about how I found my All Time Favorite Woman in Beverly Hill, early twenties Russian Blonde a 10 for sure.

This is the link to the article: tuscl.net

Thank you for making me remember and enjoy the memories.

Just listen to your gut feeling and use your spider 🕷 sense and common sense.

Be careful out there and write an article about your experience.

With SA and limited OTC I've almost always paid after.

I've heard escorts want on arrival?

Yes you are supposed to put the money on the bathroom counter or top of the dresser or hand it to her so she can verify everything is there.

It is all about trust, she has to be able to trust you are no going arrest her, to rob her, hurt her, kill her etc etc etc

You have to trust she is not going to entrap you and get you arrested, she is not going to set you up to be robbed, she is not going to take your money and ask you to leave under treat of yelling rape, she is not going to pepper spray you or cut you etc etc etc

That is why you want to see a high end escort to lower any of these potential problems.

Remember what you paid escorts for is their time and what consenting adults do during that time is their business.

It’s like gambling you bet an may lose everything or win

Kenny Rogers, the gambler, taught me that wins and losses are part of life and the “hobby”...

Kenny Rogers - The Gambler (with lyrics) m.youtube.com

If you don’t play the game you can’t win.

Just be careful out there, use common sense and you will be fine.

Do your research. Check out a dancer's history and reviews on sites like TER or elsewhere. Ditto if you're going through an agency. It's not foolproof, but there are a fair number of scammers out there. If an escort is active in all the usual places for more than a few months and has good reviews, you're probably dealing with a legit provider.

The biggest downside for most guys is that you'll have to give up a fair amount of personal information unless you're going after very low-end escorts (or a higher-end escort that's actually a cop...). Almost all escorts who have a good reputation will require some form of ID, LinkedIn profile, and/or employment screening to verify that you're not a cop. You can also go through a screening service, but they also gather all of that information. Personally, I don't like giving that information to anyone let alone to someone (a person or service) that operates in grey areas of the law.

For the most part, escorts are better organized because it's literally their job. More often than not, they will be on time, deliver the goods promised for the price quoted, and in the time allotted.

The downside?... visits with an escort are predominantly more mechanical and transactional, because it's still literally their job. They will watch the clock. There will be essentially no spontaneity. You will pay up front and be out the door the moment they get a phone notification that your time is up. Granted, I've read accounts of guys who've developed more personal relationships with escorts they see repeatedly, but for the most part it's less fun (for me).

I prefer strippers.

Stop calling hookers dancers.

Going through all those hoops is paranoid.

If you meet her online just FaceTime with her before to make sure she's what you want.

It's really simple.

^ Pics and Vids of how simple it is done or it isn’t.

:D

Icee said "Going through all those hoops is paranoid."

Not everyone is living the lifestyle you're lying about here every day, Icee. Some people need or want to be more cautious about how they share their personal information.

CiM if you're hiding your hooker habit from family or are just ashamed of it maybe you should get a new hobby. Coz that just says how you really feel about what you do.