OK I'll join the "I get no love" whine
ilbbaicnl
Keep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
Pathetic geriatric trick that I am, my favs can take $200+ of off me in under 45 minutes, no extras. With a dozen or so regular PLs like me per week, a dancer could break into six figures per year, working less than half time. It seems like I'm easy money to them, I'd think they'd have steady work in Hollywood if they're pretending so well that I don't bug them. But most won't give me a way of knowing when their working, and some won't make a point of rolling up on me if the club's at all busy. I don't see Lambos in the parking lot or anything. Are they making $200-300K, but it's some leech boyfriend living large, not them? They seem too healthy and clear headed to be on heroin or anything.
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As far as the girls who won't give you attention because their time is worth more than $200 for 45 minutes on a busy night, I am a bit surprised but I also don't know where you live and club. Probably not much to be done except to reward consistency by giving those girls who DO visit you on the busier nights your business on the slower nights too.
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Personally, I don’t think Rando is in much of a position to judge how I-bai is in clubs
Find dancers who will give you attention.
You wrote and I quote:
“I had a great year with one, but $600 per meetup, she got dissatisfied with me, but wouldn't say why.”
Have you considered it might be you are being a “Debbie Downer”?, because like they say “nothing someone says before the word “but” really counts”.
“choosing to have a positive attitude is going to allow you to have a better relationship with yourself. If happiness seems unattainable, she recommends turning to a good therapist or counselor to determine if you unresolved trauma, grief or conflict. The right resources can help you heal, make sense of past events and choose a different path and attitude moving forward.”
~ How to Stop Being a “Debbie Downer”
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I just saying it because, in my humble opinion and limited experience, you seem/sound a little depressing/negative sometimes.
Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.
~ Dr. Seuss
In addition to these girls not really wanting to be with old guys that much, I also think many of the girls in these clubs don't really think in terms of trying to maximize their income. Some of them think of strip clubs as a place to do what they would normally do anyway, drink and party, while picking up a little extra money on the side. Spending a lot of money on a girl who doesn't care that much about money is going to lead to disappointment on my part because she is not going to put out much effort to keep me spending it. So I need to be selective and look for the girls who are either serious about making money or girls who just naturally happen to be the really friendly type.
Some of my best experiences have been with a regular who wasn't quite certain I was coming back. If you go see a girl for a long time there will inevitably be a time you go see her when she is in a bad mood and is rude and unfriendly to you. Strippers often regret this later after the guy leaves and start to worry he won't come back. I had one regular who was unfriendly to me while she was in a bad mood one time. The next time I came into the club she immediately came over and sat on my lap, something she had never done before. My all time favorite was in a bad mood one time and took it out on me. When I went back the next week she was much more friendly than she had ever been to me and when I left I was surprised when she suddenly hugged me and said she loved me.
How about going for older dancers?
The ones you go for sound like selfish brats.
This. You might have better luck with girls who are reminded of their Dads rather than their Grandads when they see you.
I'm not saying this to be remotely harsh. Our options change as we age, even in the strip clubs. I include myself in this. As fortunate as I've been so far in the aging process, with a full head of hair with no visible grays and a younger looking face (for my age), there is nonetheless a certain % of younger bubble girls that I probably could have pulled OTC 10 years ago that I cannot today. As I get older I fully expect that % to grow. C'est la vie.
So as our resident uber troll mentioned, positioning yourself for greater success might not hurt. Perhaps do more dayshifts and early weekday evenings and less weekend visits?
A stripper (or any woman) will think you are too old ONLY if YOU think you are too old. I retired two years ago and I still have amazing times, including doing the horizonal mamba, with 18-35 year old strippers and sugar babies 3 or 4 times a month. Attitude, personality, sense of humor and confidence are so much more important than youth. And to be honest, having a good amount of disposable cash helps a lot. Now there are certainly strippers who prefer younger guys, and I pass on then as soon as the size of my big, hard wallet fails to close the deal. But those are the strippers who haven't learned that stripping is a job, not a party. Once they grow up a bit and learn that guys over 40, and especially guys over 50 have the most cash, they change their game.
I will talk to any stripper that wants to talk to me at a club. But I rarely spend money, even for a $10 drink, on a stripper over 35, especially if she looks over 45. My friends who see me dating women in their 20's often ask me why I don't date women closer to my own age. I just smile and tell them I don't have to. Rule of thumb: I don't want to bang any woman who has an 18+ daughter I'd like to fuck more. MILF's are for younger guys with no cash.
But personality health looks etc help with women overall. Plenty older men look better than younger ones.
I'm pretty tolerant (maybe too much) of a fav having a bad day or having bad shit going on in her life that makes her grumpy.
I'm not going to debate with guys who club in places like COI, PVD, S. FL., and Detroit metro about whether age or other non-monetary factors play in. They operate in looser club environments dealing with a lot of girls who will fuck anything with a heartbeat and a wallet. They may pay an old man premium, but they are going to find what they want.
Many of us, however, club in places that are not that open. I suspect that Ilb and Doc fall into this category.
Amen brother
As I approach 80, other than sex, I can think of no reason at all to spend time with a woman, no matter how hot.