A couple of years ago I posted a thread about how easy it becomes for some of us to lose sight of the relative value of money:
I ran into another glaring example today. I hosted a kids birthday party at a local entertainment venue. The full bill for the entire shindig for a group of kids, including food, drinks, 3 hours of unlimited access to all the attractions, a dedicated party host, full cleanup and even host tip was less than a single night out which includes an OTC finish with my CF.
How fucked up is that? LOL.


I’m sure it’s all relative to what you have. Spending is less painful when you have plenty of it without diminishing your standard of living. It’s why many sex workers have contempt for us because of our professional level that creates wealth. I’m sure you consider it as part of your overall entertainment budget, and I’m sure there are plenty of other children’s events that they attend besides some silly ass Bday party. There’s school, church, as they get older it’s clothes and cars. It never ending when you’re a parent, so you can easily justify giving yourself a retreat once in a while to reset before jumping back in the hamster wheel during the work week.