Making it happen in the LDA or VIP room
Tuesday, August 31, 2021 6:08 AM
Hi all,
I hope you all don't mind me asking what is probably really obvious to all of you: I'm on the autistic spectrum (not too bad, but a bit socially awkward and shy and bad at reading subtle signals), so social cues are kind of hard for me to follow. Which, you know, sucks for dating, so Strip Clubs have been a good outlet here in the Seattle area when I'm single.
Here's my question: I know there are girls who are willing to provide extras without paying more than two or three hundred dollars. And I figured, from people's comments, that if a girl is stick shifting and grinding, there's a good chance she's up for some more. But the few times I've been direct, the girl has kind of frozen up and been a little weird. And if I try to be subtle, I get kind of evasive answers, but I have a feeling that they're trying to feel me out. The few times I HAVE gotten what I was after (BJ/HJ/FS), it was with aggressive girls who are basically trying to rip me off for $1k+, and make the whole experience really uncomfortable until I just leave.
Anyway, sorry to be stupid, but I wish someone could just directly tell me what works for them. Like: do you just unzip and invite her to go for it, or do you ask directly, or do you hint at it and she takes charge?
Feel free to mock me all you like, I've heard it all, but if anyone wants to give me a real answer, I'd love to hear it.
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