This is something I do often on my OTCs and it is epic. Many strippers love strip clubs, they love going and acting like customers, they love the attention and flirting they get from the girls... and I love the flirting and attention they get from the girls! Or, as one of my ATFs put it when I asked her what she wanted to do on or OTC, "let's eat somewhere great, go to the strip club and get all drunk and horny, and then head to the hotel to fuck it all off!". Perfect plan baby
I've only done it once and that was with a dancers that I had an exclusive OTC club relationship with and it was her idea. I'd do it again under the right circumstances.
TFP: they certainly will if you let them! Don't let them get too drunk and out of control, carefully control your money, and make the move from the strip club to the hotel at the right time (when you're still flying high at the club)
I've taken sugar babies to strip clubs. I've had a ball. Basically I end up in a 3-some in VIP. Now, am I increasing my cost ? Yeah, cause I'm paying both girls. Even though I'm paying the SB monthly. But it sure is fun !!!
I've done it several times and only one of them went sideways on me. The rest were all fun.
I agree with Subraman that the key is to make sure you move things out of the club before she's too shitfaced to do anything. But also keep in mind that these girls often drink constantly at work, so I don't move things before she is fully lubricated. Basically if I am starting to feel drunk I assume that she is too and suggest the move then.
In terms of controlling the tip money, good luck with that. For starters you are buying food and strip club drinks for two all night. Then add on the tipping that she will want to do, which is always much more generous than you would be. In the heat of things it's hard to say no when the party mood is rolling. Sometimes it also has a purpose besides entertainment, which is to avoid making enemies of girls who might otherwise resent an outside dancer coming into their club with a customer.
So in a nutshell, it can be quite fun but also tends to get expensive. I do it from time to time as a change of pace, but I don't really make a habit of it.
I agree that once you get into a party mood, it's hard to say no. Definitely the longer you stay, and drunker she gets, the harder it is. I've always taken her to dinner and drinks beforehand, so we're already somewhat lubricated; an hour in the SC and out, seems to always work out great. Otherwise she gets too drunk, I get too drunk, and even if I don't end up spending too much ... overly drunk strippers are a recipe for bad experiences
Since generally my goal is to spend as high a percentage of my time there getting lap dances, it doesn't make much sense for me to go with anybody. I went a couple times with a lesbian fav, just to change it up a little. It got a little weird the time she brought her straight (also stripper) friend. A fuck boy sat down with us, to help us out so we'd be boy-girl-boy-girl. He actually was of similar age to the straight friend. Not noticeable ugly, at least not on the outside. I glanced over at the friend, her expression made it clear she would not want his dick even to feed it to Hitler's dog. I told him we were good on our own, he took the hint and pissed off. We split my stash of small bills for tipping. It's always helpful to be a fly on the wall when strippers are shooting the shit with each other. Helps you learn how get on well with them.
First was with a recently retired dancer who I was still seeing OTC.
Another couple of times was with a couple of dancers and a bartender from my favorite club. Those visits were during the brief summer thaw of the pandemic. They went and applied to work at a club that was still open. One of them actually stayed on for a good while until their home club reopened.
I’ve done it a few times but not a whole lotta fun for me. One dancer from a west Michigan non extras club begged me to take her to a Detroit airport club. Not sure what she expected to see since we didn’t do a VIP room
Never done it - being a variety-guy and a in-the-moment PL, I'm not opposed to OTC but it's not something I crave either - if a dancer asked me to take her to a club, I would not mind - since I wouldn't be getting w/ other dancers that night/visit and spending $$$ on other dancers, then I wouldn't mind giving her tip-$$$ or buying her drinks but I'd def set a limit at tips like a 100-bucks or something - I'd likely end-up spending less than my typical SC-outing.
I have always seen this as a negative. She would be expecting you to demonstrate generosity with their dancers.
And if you know here well enough to take her to this club, then you also know her well enough to be using deep and shallow stroke g-spot massaging until she makes a big wet spot on your bed sheets.
I've done it a few times. I like it. We'd just get shit faced drunk and ratchet. Tip dancers they'd admit to wanting to eat out lol I wouldn't do it with a girl I'm serious about but it's a fun date.
Meh. I'm pretty neutral on it. I've only done it a handful of times, my biggest issue wasn't overspending but over drinking. One girl got totally wasted and wound up puking all over my bathroom and herself then passing out with her arms around the toilet. I woke her up to wash her off and she got her second wind, and decided to run out to the pool butt nekkid. The second wind didn't last, and she puked in the hot tub about 15 minutes later, thus ending the evening.
On the plus side, upon seeing me with what was obviously a stripper several girls at the club I took her to then approached me about OTC. One girl actually did it that night. Many of which I had written off as not interested and wouldn't have otherwise dreamed of even approaching the subject.
Damned Sub, I'm really not trying to seem critical but that seems way too controlled to be much fun to me. Kinda' like the ol' "tequila, rum or whiskey" well shot gimmick that would definitely not play with girls in the places I frequent. I understand where your coming from with the exorbitant cost structures you're contending with, but damn man.
See, it doesn't feel controlling at all. We have dinner and drinks. We go to the strip club, have some fun. Leave. That's it, it's pretty effortless, we both leave happy. It's all just a warmup to the hotel room time anyway -- don't get me wrong, it's super fun, but I don't need to be in the strip club for 3 hours with my OTC date, in most cases. Get horny, fuck it off, as they say
How long do you spend in the strip club with you OTC date, and how much money does that part of the evening cost? Couldn't you just omit the strip club portion, since you already have your girl with you?
It's not otc I don't pay them. It's just a date thing.
I've spent between $200 to like $1000 doing it. It depends on how long you stay and how many drinks you get. Youre looking at like $40 for each round of shots so it adds up.
One thing I found with strippers in strip clubs is they get hyper critical of other girls and are stingy with tips coz they see it as you spending money on another woman. That inner jealousy comes out and makes them compete more for you. Especially with more drinks lulz.
I've spent between an hour to like 6 hours at a club with them.
Back in the day 20 plus years ago when I was big jacked, mean looking, trusted and a L.E.O ( still am that lol) I escorted many a local dancer to other club's amatuer nightes.
I've done it several times. Only one less than ideal situation which was the result of staying too long and her and her friend getting too drunk and wild.
This thread reminded me of the night I took a BDD girl to DGs. She invited her friend out after they had dinner without me. Left one car at the restaurant and I met them at DGs. Girl I knew warned me about her friend and they both took my tip money and threw it all over the club. But friend was shit faced and high, and wanted me to drive her to her car. My girl said no and put her in her car. Later found out the friend wanted to take me home. Lol. For a fee of course. She wasn’t my type and I wouldn’t have done it if she was.
===> "Couldn't you just omit the strip club portion, since you already have your girl with you?"
Sure, but what fun would that be? I mean if I was in Sub's shoes I'd probably just keep the girl at the restaurant bar for a little bit longer since a pop-in visit to a club wouldn't be worth the added effort to me, but on the whole partying with an off duty stripper in a club that is not her own can be a unique kind of fun.
"How long do you spend in the strip club with you OTC date, and how much money does that part of the evening cost? Couldn't you just omit the strip club portion, since you already have your girl with you?"
SJ, pop in, drinks and stage tips for 60-90 minutes, then gone while you're still flying high always works. The few times taking a stripper to a strip club didn't work out perfectly for me, it's because we stayed too long, she got too drunk, and now I had to deal with that -- people with rough life histories are not always pleasant drunks.
As far as what it costs, I'll give you a flip answer -- it costs what it costs. I'm doing it because it's incredibly fun, and I enjoy it. I'd prefer not to spend more than a couple hundred, given I'm spending hundreds for her and hundreds for the room and already almost certainly bought her a nice dinner and drinks for hundreds. And yes, of course we can skip it. The point is, I don't want to skip it -- I want an epic fun night with a hot girl who is driving me insane. So yes, this is totally optional, but I often option-in.
You could have the girl in your own bed and be pumping loads into her.
Unless you are tired of her, then you could be going after one of the girls from the new strip club.
Now maybe at some kind of a swingers club, the girl could be your entrance ticket, and you can watch and be watched, and you might fuck other people too. But that is not a strip club. And the costs are much more sensible. Strip clubs are too expensive to use as a pass time.
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I agree with Subraman that the key is to make sure you move things out of the club before she's too shitfaced to do anything. But also keep in mind that these girls often drink constantly at work, so I don't move things before she is fully lubricated. Basically if I am starting to feel drunk I assume that she is too and suggest the move then.
In terms of controlling the tip money, good luck with that. For starters you are buying food and strip club drinks for two all night. Then add on the tipping that she will want to do, which is always much more generous than you would be. In the heat of things it's hard to say no when the party mood is rolling. Sometimes it also has a purpose besides entertainment, which is to avoid making enemies of girls who might otherwise resent an outside dancer coming into their club with a customer.
So in a nutshell, it can be quite fun but also tends to get expensive. I do it from time to time as a change of pace, but I don't really make a habit of it.
Very expensive as the honey likes to make it rain.
Idk, I have more fun going solo to a club versus the logistics and cots of entertaining a dancer at a different club.
Even so, every PL should try it at least once
First was with a recently retired dancer who I was still seeing OTC.
Another couple of times was with a couple of dancers and a bartender from my favorite club. Those visits were during the brief summer thaw of the pandemic. They went and applied to work at a club that was still open. One of them actually stayed on for a good while until their home club reopened.
And if you know here well enough to take her to this club, then you also know her well enough to be using deep and shallow stroke g-spot massaging until she makes a big wet spot on your bed sheets.
SJG
On the plus side, upon seeing me with what was obviously a stripper several girls at the club I took her to then approached me about OTC. One girl actually did it that night. Many of which I had written off as not interested and wouldn't have otherwise dreamed of even approaching the subject.
SJG
I've spent between $200 to like $1000 doing it. It depends on how long you stay and how many drinks you get. Youre looking at like $40 for each round of shots so it adds up.
One thing I found with strippers in strip clubs is they get hyper critical of other girls and are stingy with tips coz they see it as you spending money on another woman. That inner jealousy comes out and makes them compete more for you. Especially with more drinks lulz.
I've spent between an hour to like 6 hours at a club with them.
It's expensive but a fun date idea.
I will play along and answer your questions.
Q: Strip Clubbing with Strippers - Yes or No?
Do you take strippers with you to strip clubs?
A: No and No, I want her undivided attention OTC and she gets my undivided attention OTC...
Q: Sand to the beach or more the merrier?
A: Sand to the beach, the more doesn’t always guarantee the merrier....
Q: What say you, TUSCL?
A: I say No, again I prefer her undivided attention OTC, because I will give her my undivided attention OTC.
Sure, but what fun would that be? I mean if I was in Sub's shoes I'd probably just keep the girl at the restaurant bar for a little bit longer since a pop-in visit to a club wouldn't be worth the added effort to me, but on the whole partying with an off duty stripper in a club that is not her own can be a unique kind of fun.
SJ, pop in, drinks and stage tips for 60-90 minutes, then gone while you're still flying high always works. The few times taking a stripper to a strip club didn't work out perfectly for me, it's because we stayed too long, she got too drunk, and now I had to deal with that -- people with rough life histories are not always pleasant drunks.
As far as what it costs, I'll give you a flip answer -- it costs what it costs. I'm doing it because it's incredibly fun, and I enjoy it. I'd prefer not to spend more than a couple hundred, given I'm spending hundreds for her and hundreds for the room and already almost certainly bought her a nice dinner and drinks for hundreds. And yes, of course we can skip it. The point is, I don't want to skip it -- I want an epic fun night with a hot girl who is driving me insane. So yes, this is totally optional, but I often option-in.
Unless you are tired of her, then you could be going after one of the girls from the new strip club.
Now maybe at some kind of a swingers club, the girl could be your entrance ticket, and you can watch and be watched, and you might fuck other people too. But that is not a strip club. And the costs are much more sensible. Strip clubs are too expensive to use as a pass time.
SJG