PS: I don't mean to offend anyone. I am only asking since you guys give insightful answers.
What do I mean? I don't mean a 'live in gf" where the woman and you are in a monogamous relationship. Rather when the woman is your FWB and stays at your house/apartment for a limited time. For instance, during a summer. Of course, she would have her room. Then you guys would do activities/hook up on the weekends as part of your "arrangement" but pretty much live independent lives. She would live rent-free and the only two rules would be the weekend activities and she can't bring guests to the house/apartment(You'll be surprised but there some places where no guests are allowed anyway.)
My own experience I believe this has been the best relationship/arrangement, I have ever gotten into. I was living in a big city on the East Coast in a two-bedroom apartment. My roommate had moved out and I was renting through a company. The company randomly assigns roommates so they assigned this woman who was doing a master's degree at the local university. After a few weeks, she told me that she had delved into Sugar dating. We came to the agreement that I could cover her rent(which was minimal, she was staying in a small room) and she would be my "FWB" over the weekends.
I want to specify the I wasn't a "creepy landlord" telling her, "hook up with me now"...etc. Rather, she more of my roommate/companion who I did fun activities with like eating sushi, watching movies, or going to the park. Bear in mind that some weeks, she was gone for a few days or one time, I brought another woman home and she was even there. Or when her university friends ask her who I was, she said, 'It's my roommate."
I believe the type of "arrangement" might not be for everyone. You would need to have sort of "maturity to pull it off. People who don't get attach easily might have a higher chance of success. I never what she was doing in her private life(likely seeing her old bf) nor did she ask me what I was doing, I was seeing another woman. The advance of this type of "arrangement' it was that it was 'sure thing" the good things would happen. For instance, I went with my friends to pick up women and we ended up empty-handed. However, instead, of going to my apartment alone, she was there and we ended up watching movies and hooking up.
I do think it can work both ways since she was stressed out about her studies. Overall, I had such a great time that I plan on doing this again.
What do you guys think?
