When they want to use you as a financial backstop
rickdugan
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The last couple of weeks have been ridiculously good. Last week I wrote about a wonderful lead up to Christmas and I did not believe that it would be repeated this week, especially with how busy the clubs were on Monday. But they died out as the week rolled on. So many fresh young new faces looking for holiday and month-end money and not enough guys to meet the demand. Simply wonderful. The night guy at the local notel must be wondering what the heck I'm doing, lol.
But in an odd twist, these new girls clearly intend to be ITC only temporarily. They all have day jobs that aren't especially lucrative. I'm starting to think that these are SA type girls trying to fill the holiday income gaps. Almost every one, once we had our first OTC adventure, is trying to take it directly out of the club. I've already re-visted one in back to back weeks and two others are trying to lock down regular arrangements. They clearly don't intend to keep dancing past the holidays but want side arrangements to supplement their modest paychecks.
Idk how I feel about this. I'm certainly starting to look at DJGs a little differently, especially those with young kids to feed. These girls are young, beautiful and almost sweetly innocent in the sack. These are no hardened pros, which makes this all the more enticing. But I've never found direct to hotel arrangements to be all that satisfying. I like the whole package, the hotel fun for sure but also the ITC social element.
We will see. Any girl that I ultimately choose to keep seeing will be one who is willing to make a night of it, with food, drink and the hotel finish. If I wanted a quick strike arrangement I could dial up a cheap lay for a fraction of what I am paying these girls.
Anyone else seeing stuff like this right now?
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Am I the only one actually enjoying himself during this "pandemic?" I'm starting to think so, lol.
You might be the only one wearing out your keyboard typing about it all, but this is a generational event so to each their own. There's so much water under the bridge with my year in the covidverse, it's not even worth trying to type about it. The highs in the hobby were really high, even for me, and the lowest of the lows came the only way it could at a club when one too many dancers caught the feels and said the wrong thing to the absolute wrong dancer.
I know TUSCLers are down on desertscrub right now, but his tales of everything that was going down at his place for "groceries" were pretty funny. That was earlier this year before you'd decided to get back in the game.
But this year has seen so many unusual twists and turns that I'm finding myself with a lot more material than normal. In particular, dancer crews and behaviors have changed dramatically and, more recently, a shit ton of opportunities have opened up. Maybe I also post more now because I'm finding the vibe around here to be absolutely depressing given that so many live in more restrictive areas or are just afraid to club.
To answer your question:
Anyone else seeing stuff like this right now?
NO, your view and experience is unique, yours only.
To answer your other question
Am I the only one actually enjoying himself during this "pandemic?"
NO, there are others “enjoying” themselves in their own way.
You wrote to brag:
“we've made plans to meet up early next week so that I can...console her, over and over, after we eat some good food and drink a lot of spirits of course.”
Remember Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.
:D
Maybe bubba, but I'd still maintain that on a historical basis, DJGs have rarely panned out well for me for all the reasons I noted. It just so happens that I'm running across more during the COVID era who both have kids and are making shit money during the day. Experiences will differ for sure, but to me the overriding factor is that they have kids to support. Since they are not long for the clubs, now I have to make a choice in whether I want to see them again OTC only. Not sure yet.
The situation you describe speaks to the challenges faced by dancers and clubs during these challenging economic times (that appear to effect certain portions of the population more directly).
There are many girls who need more money, and they know there are older guys with deeper pockets who want to “date” them. Meeting you in a strip club allows them to get comfortable with you - and to determine you aren’t one of those online creeps who might chloroform her and feed her to pigs.
Strip clubs appear to be loosening restrictions on the girls allowed to work - and the use of the club to offer otc arrangements. They may be turning more of a blind eye now.
In my view, there are three parts in the strip club business model - strippers, customers and clubs. Two of those three are likely suffering. You are the one who seems to still be doing well, so both of the other parts are looking to you for your money.