Strippers being more direct
JamesSD
California
At my main club extras are sometimes available, but the girls rarely bring them up.
My visit last week one girl directly said she wanted to go in the back and suck my cock (huge fake boobs, not really my physical type). Another casually dropped she's "giving handjobs to make rent" in conversation.
On a hookup site I'm on a girl offered $20 for 1 hour.
My favorite has always been an ITC girl. But she's definitely entertaining the idea of OTC with me. Honestly it's more a price negotiation right now, and I can imagine her being flaky as fuck to actually schedule.
Others here are reporting more service or lower prices.
Thoughts?
My visit last week one girl directly said she wanted to go in the back and suck my cock (huge fake boobs, not really my physical type). Another casually dropped she's "giving handjobs to make rent" in conversation.
On a hookup site I'm on a girl offered $20 for 1 hour.
My favorite has always been an ITC girl. But she's definitely entertaining the idea of OTC with me. Honestly it's more a price negotiation right now, and I can imagine her being flaky as fuck to actually schedule.
Others here are reporting more service or lower prices.
Thoughts?
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I went to a club that has been very slow in my weekend here and a new you brunette was dancing. She got off stage and ordered a drink next to me so I bought it to break the ice. In small talk she was from the Midwest and just moved to Florida. She sounds like she might be a trainwreck in her life but also mentioned that she was a former ballerina.
So I went back for 30 minutes. As soon as the monitor left, I got a kiss and knew this was going to be fun. I've done this for over 40 years but never had a girl do the standing splits in a couple of positions so comfortably while I had full access to her.
Empty clubs can lead to more fun I guess. Got her number and would love to play more but not sure it's worth it. As it was, I was happy with playing with a young 20 something that I said to myself that I can't believe what I did with her for the cost of a VIP.
It does seem to be a season of giving. Going back out later to see if I can have one last round of fun before I head back to locked down CA.
The surprising thing for me is not the offers from strippers but from other women. I've had three women in the last 9 months come up to me in public and offer to do something with me. Normally this happens maybe once every fifteen years so three times in one year is a lot. I don't think they want to do this either. When I politely declined with one, as I was walking off she yelled "don't judge me" in my direction. I wasn't mentally judging her at all so it was all in her own head that I was thinking something negative about her. The epidemic has not just put a financial strain on strippers but on many women. The lockdowns have thrown many of them out of a job and even the ones with a job like waitresses have reduced incomes because of reduced business.
We have bad parts of town where guys might be approached for that but these areas were outside of that. I was dressed pretty conservatively and probably didn't look dangerous and also like I might have some money. My strip club offers from girls offering to see me outside the club usually involve situations where they decided I wasn't dangerous and they were a little desperate needing to get some bill paid. Some guys aren't aware how cautious women normally are since they are smaller and weaker than us men. Doing something like approaching a strange guy at night is not something they would do under normal conditions.
TBH it's been a mixed bag here in NE FL.
A lot of the single Moms who were using the clubs pre-COVID as their sole means of support simply could not ride out the shutdowns and instead found vanilla jobs. Many of these girls have still not returned. What took their place over the last several months are more childless Day Job Girls and others who can better cope with more variable income, including girls who traveled in from other parts of the country, all of which initially made OTC hunting more tricky and in many instances actually more expensive. I had to resort to picking off younger girls who were stuck supporting deadbeat parents, which I certainly made work, but is not my normal bailiwick.
Keep in mind that here in FL we don't have the shutdowns and high unemployment rates being experienced in many other states, so a young pretty girl who needs a paycheck will likely find a job to give her one. IMHO that is a good thing as I'm fine with taking advantage of temporary pressure like an immediate bill, but I don't want to see anyone suffer hopeless poverty. I don't want to live in a country where, as Doc discussed, civvie girls are desperate enough to be selling themselves in restaurant parking lots. That's third world shit, not the America that I love.
But the tide has definitely been turning over the past couple of months. With the holidays approaching some of my old favorites have been trickling back into the clubs. Also even the DJGs and other young ones are feeling added pressure now, especially with the combination of the holiday season and spiking COVID numbers, which together have depressed club attendance a fair amount for weeks now.
So with all of that said the nutshell of where things sit today: Options have opened up a lot, but prices are not dropping as they are are generally younger girls who would rather walk away than take a number below what they think they are worth.
If you're just passing through, is there really a downside? Maybe your hotel room gets trashed but it's not really yours lol.
At the right club bringing the subject up on the table involved her hands inside my pants while asking if I wanted to head back for some fun. Some very bold dancers have unzipped me right on stage and gave a nice 20 second or so preview before asking if I wanted to continue in the back. Usually the last is with a dancer with a lot of long hair.
A completely awkward standing splits https://www.sex.com/pin/57383275-doing-t…
And an even worse https://www.sex.com/pin/55800709-lucia-n…, arguably one of the least pleasurable positions I have ever attempted
And this one which always goes completely wrong https://www.sex.com/pin/58039683-analne-…. Even if she weights less than 90lbs wet, doesn't mean I can hold her up for more than a few seconds.
Although I did have one dancer do a variation which was like the 3:40 second spot of this video: https://www.youporn.com/watch/15434638/a…, which actually worked quite well, until she tired out after about a minute.
One of the few that consistently worked out well is this one:https://www.sex.com/pin/17356660-legs-be…