Strippers being more direct

I just got one of the best dances I've ever had in Florida for the price of the dance and nothing more.

I went to a club that has been very slow in my weekend here and a new you brunette was dancing. She got off stage and ordered a drink next to me so I bought it to break the ice. In small talk she was from the Midwest and just moved to Florida. She sounds like she might be a trainwreck in her life but also mentioned that she was a former ballerina.

So I went back for 30 minutes. As soon as the monitor left, I got a kiss and knew this was going to be fun. I've done this for over 40 years but never had a girl do the standing splits in a couple of positions so comfortably while I had full access to her.

Empty clubs can lead to more fun I guess. Got her number and would love to play more but not sure it's worth it. As it was, I was happy with playing with a young 20 something that I said to myself that I can't believe what I did with her for the cost of a VIP.

It does seem to be a season of giving. Going back out later to see if I can have one last round of fun before I head back to locked down CA.

A lot of my regulars have left the clubs completely this year so they probably weren't making much money. Either they were weren't willing to do more and couldn't live just on lap dance money or were willing and didn't find enough takers for any offers to make it worthwhile to stick around.

The surprising thing for me is not the offers from strippers but from other women. I've had three women in the last 9 months come up to me in public and offer to do something with me. Normally this happens maybe once every fifteen years so three times in one year is a lot. I don't think they want to do this either. When I politely declined with one, as I was walking off she yelled "don't judge me" in my direction. I wasn't mentally judging her at all so it was all in her own head that I was thinking something negative about her. The epidemic has not just put a financial strain on strippers but on many women. The lockdowns have thrown many of them out of a job and even the ones with a job like waitresses have reduced incomes because of reduced business.

Docsavage, where were you when these offers were made in public? And what were you wearing? I assume you were alone?

JamesSD, I received two offers from women in a parking lot, one from a car and another with a girl walking up to me outside a chili parlor as I was leaving. Another offer was inside a combination gas station and convenience store. The gas station had an Arab guy working there who may not have understood English and couldn't tell what she was saying to me. She was telling me how good she could make me feel and reached out and touched my crotch. She looked young so I was wary of her. I told her I was too old for that and she was a pretty girl and could find a boyfriend and she didn't like hearing that.

We have bad parts of town where guys might be approached for that but these areas were outside of that. I was dressed pretty conservatively and probably didn't look dangerous and also like I might have some money. My strip club offers from girls offering to see me outside the club usually involve situations where they decided I wasn't dangerous and they were a little desperate needing to get some bill paid. Some guys aren't aware how cautious women normally are since they are smaller and weaker than us men. Doing something like approaching a strange guy at night is not something they would do under normal conditions.

Doc it sounds like I need to visit the chili parlors in your area since they seem to offer a little more spice than the one I go to when I'm in the mood for a 3-way.

@docsavage: If I was approached in a public place like that, I would assume one of two things: she's a cop and will bust me when I take her up on it, or she's a thief, and her accomplices will roll me when we get to her "more private place."

Most strippers, in my experience anyway, aren't as direct as that, at least with people they don't know. At least the smart ones and the ones not on drugs. If they've never met a particular customer, they know there's a chance that he'll be a cop. So why take the chance?

===> "Others here are reporting more service or lower prices."

TBH it's been a mixed bag here in NE FL.

A lot of the single Moms who were using the clubs pre-COVID as their sole means of support simply could not ride out the shutdowns and instead found vanilla jobs. Many of these girls have still not returned. What took their place over the last several months are more childless Day Job Girls and others who can better cope with more variable income, including girls who traveled in from other parts of the country, all of which initially made OTC hunting more tricky and in many instances actually more expensive. I had to resort to picking off younger girls who were stuck supporting deadbeat parents, which I certainly made work, but is not my normal bailiwick.

Keep in mind that here in FL we don't have the shutdowns and high unemployment rates being experienced in many other states, so a young pretty girl who needs a paycheck will likely find a job to give her one. IMHO that is a good thing as I'm fine with taking advantage of temporary pressure like an immediate bill, but I don't want to see anyone suffer hopeless poverty. I don't want to live in a country where, as Doc discussed, civvie girls are desperate enough to be selling themselves in restaurant parking lots. That's third world shit, not the America that I love.

But the tide has definitely been turning over the past couple of months. With the holidays approaching some of my old favorites have been trickling back into the clubs. Also even the DJGs and other young ones are feeling added pressure now, especially with the combination of the holiday season and spiking COVID numbers, which together have depressed club attendance a fair amount for weeks now.

So with all of that said the nutshell of where things sit today: Options have opened up a lot, but prices are not dropping as they are are generally younger girls who would rather walk away than take a number below what they think they are worth.

Many x strippers working as HW call girls. They give good rates and satisfaction.

If youre in CAL and you are not a regular, i would stay away from direct girls. its a set up VICE. Regulars at a club seeing new girls at the club is a bad sign. i would buy dances but if she is down for OTC you dont have to strike when the metal is hot. She will be down another time

Are chili parlors actually a thing? I just figured that's what the cool kids were calling rub n' tugs nowadays but then there were two posts talking about them.

Mike710 spends three paragraphs gushing about a former ballerina who prefers her poles upright, and then writes "Got her number and would love to play more but not sure it's worth it."

If you're just passing through, is there really a downside? Maybe your hotel room gets trashed but it's not really yours lol.

It depends on the city and the club. The most recent was right as I tipped her on stage, she asks "looking for a blowjob?" When I asked her how much she replies, "five songs should about cover it." She was the only dancer at that club to ever to ask me while she was on stage, most at the dancers would bring the subject up at the table.

At the right club bringing the subject up on the table involved her hands inside my pants while asking if I wanted to head back for some fun. Some very bold dancers have unzipped me right on stage and gave a nice 20 second or so preview before asking if I wanted to continue in the back. Usually the last is with a dancer with a lot of long hair.

Mike, had several strippers who were ex-gymnasts over the years try various tricks, including. A completely awkward standing splits sex.com And an even worse sex.com, arguably one of the least pleasurable positions I have ever attempted And this one which always goes completely wrong sex.com. Even if she weights less than 90lbs wet, doesn't mean I can hold her up for more than a few seconds.

Although I did have one dancer do a variation which was like the 3:40 second spot of this video: youporn.com, which actually worked quite well, until she tired out after about a minute.

One of the few that consistently worked out well is this one:sex.com

$20 for an hour? I smell a deal!

I havent noticed anything different based on Covid but hey I respect a girl who's trying to be proactive and making money by laying it all out on the table. I bet that girl ends up making more money than the GPS girl playing hard to chase all night.

@rl27, I know a girl who can get in that position in your last link. She wanted me to tie her up in that position and pick a hole. Naturally I obliged her, and picked all of them. :D

@George, unfortunately I only met four who would do that position in her dances. Unfortunately none were at local clubs, so never was able to repeat.

Good thing I am always direct and erect and pointing at my next object of my lust, buh Ricky! I am nothing like those day job dancers with the yucky vaginas

@rl27, oh, this wasn't at the club. She's a certified, no holes barred, "use me any way you want" freak.

Mack, I think you supposed to switch to your BBBC account to post that. Oops. ;)

Hey, I hang mostly in Detroit or Canadian clubs; the direct route is the only way those ladies know. I have been propositioned a handful of times over the years. Twice in a nightclub and half a dozen in a casino; never partook.