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Top 5 cities in America and Europe for Bachelors?

A lot of the PUA guides are focused on best places to find a wife..etc. What I'm looking for is best places to enjoy life.

I've thinking about this for a bit.
1-Relatively low cost of living.
2-Relatively easy access to women. Where women are open minded.
3-Walkability, go to a concerts, restaurants..etc.

21 comments

  • Electronman
    4 years ago
    Heaven? If they let your through the Pearly Gates.
  • Rod8432
    4 years ago
    Are you thinking USA, or have a world-view?

    - If USA: Atlanta hits your marks, as would Austin, I think (although not been there). Places like South FL, etc., while nice, aren't the cheapest to live.
    - If outside USA, Canada (Montreal, Toronto, etc) would get my vote, although cold. Still, reasonable prices, legal prostitution, and beautiful women. Australia/New Zealand also seem like candidates, and a warmer clime.
  • londonguy
    4 years ago
    I'd forget about NZ if I were you, very poor choice of escorts. Strip club scene isn't that good apart from one great club in Auckland. My experience is limited though.
  • mjx01
    4 years ago
    That's a tough set of criteria. I can't think of a "low cost" of living location that would have a ton of other nice amenities.

    TJ would get you 1 & 2... but doubt 3.

    There are likely several international places, frakfurt, zurich, etc that have 2 & 3 but definitely not 1.

    I don't see a lot of toronto intel on here since art passed (RIP bro), but maybe GTA is close fit. The boonies east of montreal seem to be getting positive reviews... but afaik not truly legal in Canada.

    No offense to Rod... but my impression of ATL was a one trick pony (Follies) that closed.

    DFW seems relatively cheep to me, above average (not off the charts) women and above average (not off the charts) mileage.

    Some places in FL might fit the bill if you willing to drive a bit from location 1 to locations 2 and 3
  • mjx01
    4 years ago
    I can't disagree with LG. Haven't been to Oz/NZ yet. F-ing covid hosed my plans to be in Auckland at this present time. Probably can't hold a candle to the FKK part of the world, but Auckland and Melbourne did seem to at least have viable options compared to the US for example.
  • londonguy
    4 years ago
    I think the situation in Australia is a lot better from what I hear and read. If you want to visit a city purely for escorts then nowhere in Europe is better than London.
  • Warrior15
    4 years ago
    Miami, the sexiest place on the planet. But you are going to have to drive to most places.
  • Member6532
    4 years ago
    Austin has alot of bars/restaurants with live music every weekend, alot of hot women, good food and lots to do but is pretty expensive and tons of homeless, bout on par with most major cities. Id move back if my job gave me the chance.

    Denver is similar to Austin just opposite weather, only down fall is during ski season people from NYC come.

    Charleston SC is a pretty cool town.

    Richmond VA has cleaned up alot, lived there 15-20 years ago plenty to do walking around, was fairly rough at the time but when I went back a few years ago it seemed alot better, fairly hipsterish, plus the lake is a 45 min away, and it never snows in the city it seems
  • Book Guy
    4 years ago
    Depends on whether you're interested in pay-for-play or not-pay-for-play with those "open minded" women. I think true pay-for-play is reliably available (and enjoyable) only in larger cities, where there's enough of a market to support it. Over the years, among cities in North America, places like Tampa, Miami, Dallas, Houston, Detroit, Los Angeles, Chicago, have all had good opportunities, give or take. But if you're looking simply to be able to meet-and-greet civilians, for pick-up style meet-ups (thinking you actually have "game" to enable you to accomplish what you want, with women that you want), then the metrics change somewhat. Not sure if I know my way around those opportunities very well, any more, but I'd suggest looking into your demographic and the women's preferred demographic (college towns, f.e., if the college-age women are into men who are slightly older than college-age and you are exactly slightly older than college-age; etc.). Beware the advice, people say Pittsburgh recently (a) had a renaissance and (b) it's great for young adults, but I've learned that these are true statements only if you're (a) comparing strictly to what Pittsburgh used to be like and (b) are blind to obesity. The walk-culture is a very important thing for the general attitude of a city -- New Orleans has excellent walk-culture, f.e. -- but it doesn't guarantee carnal delights, neither pay-for-play nor even a good population for civilian opportunities. Not sure if this helped ... just some thoughts ...
  • Beat100
    4 years ago
    @londonguy
    How expensive is london? A lot of people tell me that because of my interests London seems like the way to go. But the price is what makes me wonder. I'm only looking for myself

    I'm looking for a one bedroom or two bedroom. apartment. Basic food and transportation.

    One one hand I'm looking for escorts, sugar babies, stripclubs, nightlife, Las Vegas could do thatt. However they lack the sort of cultural aspect that NYC has stuff like small concerts, indie bands, small restaurants. For instance, i
  • Beat100
    4 years ago
    For instance, I like that I was seeing a dancer for some time and wanted to go to eat sushi, or go to a movie theater and NYC has a lot of that but Las Vegas doesn't. London and any other cities that would have that?
  • Beat100
    4 years ago
    @member
    I've been to Denver, I like it but not to live long term, like anything 1-3 months would be fine but afterwards it seems boring. I felt all the nightlife was concentrated on 16th street mall and Lodo. Lots of homeless. It kinda felt like there was still developing and they are just starting out. How does Austin compared?
  • Beat100
    4 years ago
    @bookguy
    I've done both P2P and PUA so a city that offers but would be ideal. Actually when I was in Las Vegas, I would go to hostels to meet tourist and afterwards I would go to the stripclub.

    @Rod
    Could you expand on Atlanta. I went there and I really like it. The people were very hospitable, there were lots of entertainment(there were some festivals) and generally good weather. The city left a very good impression on me. I mightt be a East coast/South type of guy. Since I lived in Denver as well but for some reason it didn't leave me with a good impression. There were homeless, it was spread out, weather was cold and people were much more bussiness oriented/too professional. How does Austin compared?
  • CJKent_band
    4 years ago
    @Beat100

    To answer your question:

    Top 5 cities in America and Europe for Bachelors?

    1. Tijuana, Baja California 🇲🇽

    2. Odessa, Ukraine 🇺🇦

    3. Kingston, Ontario 🇨🇦

    4. Prague, Czech Republic 🇨🇿

    5. San José, Costa Rica 🇨🇷
  • Beat100
    4 years ago
    @Cj
    Could you expand on Prague, I heard great things. How does it compared with Budapest or Warsaw?
  • 8TM
    4 years ago
    If I wanted to move to Austin to party, I’d expect to spend $2500/mo for a 1 bedroom downtown apartment. If you have peace of mind spending that much then go for it.
  • CJKent_band
    4 years ago
    @Beat100

    Prague is an increasingly modern city, with all the creature comforts of Anytown USA. It’s home to a diverse food scene, a high standard of living, high-quality healthcare, an expansive arts culture, parks big and small, and endless opportunities for walking and exploring.

    And, best of it, Prague offers an affordable lifestyle.

    And the women are more beautiful than Budapest and Warsaw in my humble opinion.
  • Beat100
    4 years ago
    @CJ
    1-Is it possible to get by Prague with mostly English?
  • CJKent_band
    4 years ago
    @Beat100

    Yes, it is possible, in Prague a lot of people are bilingual if not multilingual.

    And English is the business language all over the world.
  • Beat100
    4 years ago

    Guys, A few more notes, would Montreal or which other cities fit the criteria?:

    - I really like the "European experience/High density urban living" of walking everywhere.
    -My favorite city in America is NYC and my least favorite is LA. I dislike LA for the same reasons I dislike Denver. Everything feels spread out, there's seems to be more inequality between the rich/poor where the ugly areas are very ugly not walkable and the wealthy one's are inaccesible unless you are very wealthy.
    -I feel lukewarm about Las Vegas, while I feel is way more friendly towards bachelors there's this "resort feel" that can't be shaken. Were I feel that, 'Yes this is fun but the people lack depth, there's a sense of fakeness/plastic..etc. Again I do like it but I feel its more for visiting for a few days.
  • Icee Loco (asshole)
    4 years ago
    Las Vegas.
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